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  • #46
    No personal attacks please.

    -The Staff

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    • #47
      Originally posted by Feroza_Banu View Post
      you can only speak for yourself... don't speak for every pashtoon woman!
      I am speaking for my women

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      • #48
        ^how many women do you have? lol

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        • #49
          ^^
          kho khola de sama nada,
          Pashtu ke yow matal dai

          wai

          "khola ham Qala da, ham bala"

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          • #50
            Originally posted by Jasmine
            Master Khan, think twice about what you said. You do know you need permission from your 1st wife right?
            Dear sister, a man does not need to ask his first wife if he wants to marry a second wife; however, the first wife can use the second wife as a reason for divorce.
            Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

            [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

            [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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            • #51
              iNot, if the necessity is there, like war or gender ratio control. For example, after WWII, it would have helped Europe a lot of men had taken more wives.

              Also, if a woman knows the custom of the area then she should ask for it to be put in the nikaah that she does not want him to marry anyone else.
              Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

              [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

              [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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              • #52
                Marrying a second wife is not a custom and should never be one. Islam never intended for it to ever become a hobby for men.

                It is a clause set out in the Quran for the benefit of mankind.
                Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

                [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

                [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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                • #53
                  Originally posted by MeemWawMeemNoon View Post
                  Marrying a second wife is not a custom and should never be one. Islam never intended for it to ever become a hobby for men.

                  It is a clause set out in the Quran for the benefit of mankind.

                  Nobody called it a hobby.

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                  • #54
                    Well, that is the feeling one gets reading the posts on this thread.
                    Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

                    [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

                    [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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                    • #55
                      Originally posted by MeemWawMeemNoon View Post
                      Well, that is the feeling one gets reading the posts on this thread.
                      well, one shouldn't feel that way, everything is obvious. We are not trying to make it look like a hobby God forbid.

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                      • #56
                        Maaan..
                        I know a guy who lives in Europe and has 3 wives.. well 2 now. He had two of them living together with him in Europe; they had to rent 4 3-bedroom-apartments on two stories to fit all the children lol and as if those two weren't enough, he had a third wife in Pakistan that he'd visit once in a while. It was SO wrong.
                        One of the wives living with him in Europe ended up leaving him.. because of how he treated her..

                        Daa zma lewanay Zrra gorah, daa sta lewanee Mina..
                        Za ba da Sahra warnakam da Iran pa Golestan,
                        Dalta za yao & yakta yam, halta zar zma pa Shaan
                        .

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                        • #57
                          Originally posted by shlombay
                          Momin in Afghanistan people have multiple wives cause without them marrying them they will never be settled.
                          Who will never be settled, the men or the women?
                          Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

                          [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

                          [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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                          • #58
                            Originally posted by Zarawar View Post
                            well, one shouldn't feel that way, everything is obvious. We are not trying to make it look like a hobby God forbid.
                            Dear brother, having multiple wives was never meant to be a culture. It should be practiced with the fear of Allah and the betterment of society in mind.
                            Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

                            [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

                            [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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                            • #59
                              ^If that is the case then it is halal and permitted by Allah.
                              Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

                              [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

                              [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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                              • #60
                                Originally posted by Mayana View Post
                                Maaan..
                                I know a guy who lives in Europe and has 3 wives.. well 2 now. He had two of them living together with him in Europe; they had to rent 4 3-bedroom-apartments on two stories to fit all the children lol and as if those two weren't enough, he had a third wife in Pakistan that he'd visit once in a while. It was SO wrong.
                                One of the wives living with him in Europe ended up leaving him.. because of how he treated her..
                                Yeah, his kids are not going to be fun, once they grow up. If he really did what you said.

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