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  • #91
    ^ shao, I don't think u could handle 2 wives. Better stick with the video games.

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    • #92
      Originally posted by Feroza_Banu View Post
      i consider education and even higher education a very basic need!
      Dear sister, you are saying that if someone can't send their kids to school that they should not have kids at all? I guess each to his or her own. But as Muslims not being able to afford kids should not prevent us from having kids.
      Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

      [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

      [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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      • #93
        Originally posted by Shao Khan View Post
        Yes English is important...umm.. How about a second wife here in UK .
        urdu kei matal shta kana

        "jo garajtay hain woh barastay nahi"

        Khudai khabar ta la khpal fiancee na tsomra werege lollll! hahaha

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        • #94
          Originally posted by MeemWawMeemNoon View Post
          Dear sister, you are saying that if someone can't send their kids to school that they should not have kids at all?
          Dear brother. i don't think i can decide for other people refering to your word "someon"... the someones can do whatever they please... but i personally think i wouldn't want to have kids if i couldn't afford their education.

          gone r the days when Hazrat Adam a.s. and Bibi Hawa had to keep making children to fill the earth...

          we barely have space on this earth... why keep producing? isn't 2 or 3 enough if one can't afford it.

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          • #95
            Originally posted by Feroza_Banu View Post
            Dear brother. i don't think i can decide for other people refering to your word "someon"... the someones can do whatever they please... but i personally think i wouldn't want to have kids if i couldn't afford their education.

            gone r the days when Hazrat Adam a.s. and Bibi Hawa had to keep making children to fill the earth...

            we barely have space on this earth... why keep producing? isn't 2 or 3 enough if one can't afford it.
            yeah, she's right. We should produce robots from now on.
            To the hell with kids, let's pick up materialism.
            Put an end to the human race..

            DEMOCRACY ALL THE WAY!!!!

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            • #96
              Originally posted by Feroza_Banu View Post
              Dear brother. i don't think i can decide for other people refering to your word "someon"... the someones can do whatever they please... but i personally think i wouldn't want to have kids if i couldn't afford their education.

              gone r the days when Hazrat Adam a.s. and Bibi Hawa had to keep making children to fill the earth...

              we barely have space on this earth... why keep producing? isn't 2 or 3 enough if one can't afford it.
              Well, then the question of extinction of a species come into play. Further, not being able to afford kids is not a valid reason, Islamically. Not being able to raise good moral children is a different issue. There is a difference between them.
              Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

              [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

              [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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              • #97
                The more kids the better...i wanna inshallah make a football team with my kids
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                • #98
                  ^^ JAR SHAM,

                  za kho da khalqo ta wayam chey nasal zyat krai : )

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                  • #99
                    Originally posted by Saifullah View Post
                    The more kids the better...i wanna inshallah make a football team with my kids
                    I always joke about that....lol...
                    Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

                    [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

                    [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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                    • Originally posted by Zarawar View Post
                      yeah, she's right. We should produce robots from now on.
                      To the hell with kids, let's pick up materialism.
                      Put an end to the human race..

                      DEMOCRACY ALL THE WAY!!!!
                      Please use ur brain when responding... ALlah has given it to you to use it... it seems like u have stored it in a freezer or something... yakhai ye wahalai dai...

                      why do i keep forgetting... many pashtoons suffer from lack of logic and practicality, hence the current state of pashtoons... instead of making decision derived from reasoning... we make decision based on our emotional feelings...

                      if u don't have anything smart to say ... dont respond to me.

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                      • Originally posted by Feroza_Banu View Post
                        urdu kei matal shta kana

                        "jo garajtay hain woh barastay nahi"

                        Khudai khabar ta la khpal fiancee na tsomra werege lollll! hahaha
                        Zho bi deeeeeer manyam!!, Shao Khan can handle anything.
                        Originally posted by ayub View Post
                        ^ shao, I don't think u could handle 2 wives. Better stick with the video games.
                        lol I only play video so I can KILL KILL KILL!!

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                        • Originally posted by Feroza_Banu View Post
                          Please use ur brain when responding... ALlah has given it to you to use it... it seems like u have stored it in a freezer or something... yakhai ye wahalai dai...

                          why do i keep forgetting... many pashtoons suffer from lack of logic and practicality, hence the current state of pashtoons... instead of making decision derived from reasoning... we make decision based on our emotional feelings...

                          if u don't have anything smart to say ... dont respond to me.
                          I was trying to be funny about materialism, didn't mean to offend you.

                          Dera bakhshana ghwaram, taso Afghani khwandey kho demog da sar stargey yai.

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                          • Originally posted by MeemWawMeemNoon View Post
                            Well, then the question of extinction of a species come into play. Further, not being able to afford kids is not a valid reason, Islamically. Not being able to raise good moral children is a different issue. There is a difference between them.
                            It is quite difficult task to raise kids islamically too... 2 compared to 10. especially if u are living outside Islamic country. in California there are Islami based academic grade schools but the fee is very high. If i have 2 kids i can afford it rather than sending them to public school which is like a jungle... i can send them to Islamic school where they can get their Islamic education and acadamic education. now i can't do that if i have 5 kids... or 10.

                            one has to realize that each kid needs full attention from both parents, mother and father... not only attention, love!... I think raising a kid Islamically also means raising them with utmost attention and love... and 2 compared to 10 is difficult.

                            Kids are extremely sensitive i am sure u know that... raising them in a way that you can't meet their certain needs or they feel inferior to the kids they even play with will effect their mind alot.

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                            • What if that second women really wants you e.g. she can't live without you.then what?

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                              • Originally posted by Zarawar View Post
                                I was trying to be funny about materialism, didn't mean to offend you.

                                Dera bakhshana ghwaram, taso Afghani khwandey kho demog da sar stargey yai.
                                oh, how rude of me then... za bakhana ghwarram... it is quite difficult to sense humor from behind a computer screen...

                                dera manena... zma afghan wrona ham zma da zrra totai dei...

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