Pashtun Marriage problem (need advice)

[Pakwatan]

Why are you mostly western minded people puting GIF pictures of famous monkeys, thugs, drug addicts and so on here on PF? What is the your problem? Can't you express yourself with words? Is it hard to express yourself? Go back to school.

Thing is I think this dude got killed or something, I told him, go find panjabian instead, forget our Pashtun sister, I bet her family wants Pashtun children, not panjabian.
I am for business, education, science cooperation with the world. But foreigners should stay out from our domestic culture/traditions. The same we don't ask and tell them change their own ways. Mind your own business.

Marrying a Pashtun girl to a Hindu general is all good, but marrying to a Muslim of different ethnicity is worth killing someone over. Fascinating.

Betrayed Afghan girl's fight: India's Army Chief reacts - YouTube

[Loy Afghanistan]

Marrying a Pashtun girl to a Hindu general is all good, but marrying to a Muslim of different ethnicity is worth killing someone over. Fascinating.

Betrayed Afghan girl's fight: India's Army Chief reacts - YouTube

Hindu Muslim or Panj baboon Muslim is the same for 99 % of Pashtun society and families deciding what their kids should marry. You are really annoying, can't you read? I wrote 1000 times, Pashtun should stay inside 60 million Pashtun community. Even if we count the child from its father side to be Pashtun in our culture/traditions, so should Pashtun men sincerely rethink and marry their Pashtun grana instead. Pashtun fathers can marry outsiders, and their children will be Pashtuns not only in Pashtun culture and traditions, but as well in scientific definition because of the Y-chromosome, that can be shared only by the male/father side and you can trace it back 100 % purely 200 000 years if you want. But I want my Pashtun brothers, like I did, rethink love and marry instead a Pashtun Queen. Your family line should be more important than Love.

I told you before, stay out from Pashtun internal marriage traditions/culture. We don't tell you panj baboons about who you should marry? You know why? WE DON*T CARE. We like to mind our OWN BUSINESS, we don't like to TALK ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE or TRADITIONS/CULTURE, because we know all ETHNICITIES has different traditions and culture and we respect that. But our Pashtun community is our community, not yours, respect that, END.

[Pakwatan]

Hindu Muslim or Panj baboon Muslim is the same for 99 % of Pashtun society and families deciding what their kids should marry. You are really annoying, can't you read? I wrote 1000 times, Pashtun should stay inside 60 million Pashtun community. Even if we count the child from its father side to be Pashtun in our culture/traditions, so should Pashtun men sincerely rethink and marry their Pashtun grana instead. This is scientific correct because of the Y-chromosome, that can be shared by the father and you can trace it back 100 % purely 200 000 years if you want.

I told you before, stay out from Pashtun internal marriage traditions/culture. We don't tell you panj baboons about who you should marry? You know why? WE DON*T CARE. We like to mind our OWN BUSINESS, we don't like to TALK ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE or TRADITIONS/CULTURE, because we know all ETHNICITIES has different traditions and culture and we respect that. But our Pashtun community is our community, not yours, respect that, END.

I understand. Why are you so upset man? Do you ever stop raging?

[Loy Afghanistan]

I understand. Why are you so upset man? Do you ever stop raging?

Why are you trolling here? You bring that video twice, and I replay you first time just some week ago.

[Pakwatan]

Why are you trolling here? You bring that video twice, and I replay you first time just some week ago.

My apologies. I forgot it was the same thread. lol.

[afghan]

Marrying a Pashtun girl to a Hindu general is all good, but marrying to a Muslim of different ethnicity is worth killing someone over. Fascinating.

Betrayed Afghan girl's fight: India's Army Chief reacts - YouTube

how do you know she is a pashtun? she might be an afghan hindo. listen to her accent how she speaks hindi. she few up in panjab.she might the one you were helping.

[Pakwatan]

how do you know she is a pashtun? she might be an afghan hindo. listen to her accent how she speaks hindi. she few up in panjab.she might the one you were helping.

Sabra is a Muslim name.


Anyways forget it. There are some women with bad character from every race/nationality.

[afghan]

Sabra is a Muslim name.


Anyways forget it. There are some women with bad character from every race/nationality.

honestly i don't really care wether she is hindi or muslim, listen to her how she speaks hindi. then tel me that she is a pashtun.

[gadoonwal]

how do you know she is a pashtun? she might be an afghan hindo. listen to her accent how she speaks hindi. she few up in panjab.she might the one you were helping.

she is sebra ahmadzai a pashtana not hindu.
Many afghans can speak hindi.
She is muslim pashtana fall in love with hindu.
That hindu soldier fooled her and refuse to convert to islam.
Lets be realistic and be brave to face the truth.
Pashtuns are human like others.She did ,,bepathi,, and benangi but a good and bad are everywhere.
All i can say she should be ashamed of her relation with hindu.This dose,nt mean all kabaly-pashtanay are like that.
Most pashtanay are loyal and modest.
A pashtun honour is same no matter anyside or area.
a pashtun is pashtun thats all i know.

[Pakwatan]

she is sebra ahmadzai a pashtana not hindu.
Many afghans can speak hindi.
She is muslim pashtana fall in love with hindu.
That hindu soldier fooled her and refuse to convert to islam.
Lets be realistic and be brave to face the truth.
Pashtuns are human like others.She did ,,bepathi,, and benangi but a good and bad are everywhere.
All i can say she should be ashamed of her relation with hindu.This dose,nt mean all kabaly-pashtanay are like that.
Most pashtanay are loyal and modest.
A pashtun honour is same no matter anyside or area.
a pashtun is pashtun thats all i know.

[MENTION=1068]gadoonwal[/MENTION] saab,

I did not mean to post this video to insult anyone. There are many Punjabi ladies that are bad too.

I just want these idiots to realize that they cannot find salvation in race, alone.The problem with Pashtuns is that they think anyone that is Pashtun is good, while others are bad.

I have to confess as a Punjabi, do you believe I think all Punjabis are ferishta?
I hate many Punjabis even though we share same language and culture. Every person is different.

There is no point in judging someone by what they cannot control. But you can judge people by their actions.

Bus.

[Niceguy91]

Hindu Muslim or Panj baboon Muslim is the same for 99 % of Pashtun society and families deciding what their kids should marry. You are really annoying, can't you read? I wrote 1000 times, Pashtun should stay inside 60 million Pashtun community. Even if we count the child from its father side to be Pashtun in our culture/traditions, so should Pashtun men sincerely rethink and marry their Pashtun grana instead. Pashtun fathers can marry outsiders, and their children will be Pashtuns not only in Pashtun culture and traditions, but as well in scientific definition because of the Y-chromosome, that can be shared only by the male/father side and you can trace it back 100 % purely 200 000 years if you want. But I want my Pashtun brothers, like I did, rethink love and marry instead a Pashtun Queen. Your family line should be more important than Love.

I told you before, stay out from Pashtun internal marriage traditions/culture. We don't tell you panj baboons about who you should marry? You know why? WE DON*T CARE. We like to mind our OWN BUSINESS, we don't like to TALK ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE or TRADITIONS/CULTURE, because we know all ETHNICITIES has different traditions and culture and we respect that. But our Pashtun community is our community, not yours, respect that, END.

You sir are screwed up in the head. I don't get why you have to call us Hindu Muslim or Panj baboons Muslims. Just because I am from Karachi, makes me a Hindu? Do you know how absurd that sounds?

I respect that you believe that Pashtun should stay within their community, but reality is that with modernization people are moving out of this way of thinking. People are realizing that the value of culture is not as important as the value of religion. At the end of the day when you are in front of Allah on the day of judgement, he will not ask what you did for the Pashtun community, he will ask what good deeds you did and assess whether you were a good Muslim. Your good deeds and sins will be calculated and according to that you will either go to heaven or hell. Your ideology of embracing Pashtun community will not aid you in any way. Trying to put other people down will only bring you closer to the fire of hell.

I find it funny how you are talking about the Y-chromosome as if continuing a blood line is in the hands of mere humans. Allah decides the fate of humans, long before they are even born. If a Pashtun gets married to a "hindu-muslim" as you call it, then it is not the dishonor of a Pashtun, rather it is the blessing of Allah that they were destined for each other.

So next time you decide to call someone a Hindu-Muslim or Panj baboon Muslim, I'd like you to remember that you are not superior to us in any way. When day of judgement comes you will be assessed in the same way as we will be. You will not be given special treatment just because you belonged to a Pashtun community.

I hope you can learn to respect "Hindi-Muslims" and "Panj baboon Muslims" not for where they are from, rather for the reason that they are the same religion as you. Ideally, it should not even matter, you should treat all humans equally and with respect.

[ډګروال]

You sir are screwed up in the head. I don't get why you have to call us Hindu Muslim or Panj baboons Muslims. Just because I am from Karachi, makes me a Hindu? Do you know how absurd that sounds?

I respect that you believe that Pashtun should stay within their community, but reality is that with modernization people are moving out of this way of thinking. People are realizing that the value of culture is not as important as the value of religion. At the end of the day when you are in front of Allah on the day of judgement, he will not ask what you did for the Pashtun community, he will ask what good deeds you did and assess whether you were a good Muslim. Your good deeds and sins will be calculated and according to that you will either go to heaven or hell. Your ideology of embracing Pashtun community will not aid you in any way. Trying to put other people down will only bring you closer to the fire of hell.

I find it funny how you are talking about the Y-chromosome as if continuing a blood line is in the hands of mere humans. Allah decides the fate of humans, long before they are even born. If a Pashtun gets married to a "hindu-muslim" as you call it, then it is not the dishonor of a Pashtun, rather it is the blessing of Allah that they were destined for each other.

So next time you decide to call someone a Hindu-Muslim or Panj baboon Muslim, I'd like you to remember that you are not superior to us in any way. When day of judgement comes you will be assessed in the same way as we will be. You will not be given special treatment just because you belonged to a Pashtun community.

I hope you can learn to respect "Hindi-Muslims" and "Panj baboon Muslims" not for where they are from, rather for the reason that they are the same religion as you. Ideally, it should not even matter, you should treat all humans equally and with respect.

typical paki reponse using Islam whenever it suits them.
you are worse than pumjbaboons, the hindus are atleast known as hindus.
the problem is when you have napaki munafiqs kill and oppress innocent muslims in tribal areas and shelling Kunar and than claim to be examplry muslims and we shouldnt expose your crimes and munafiqath.

[Niceguy91]

typical paki reponse using Islam whenever it suits them.
you are worse than pumjbaboons, the hindus are atleast known as hindus.
the problem is when you have napaki munafiqs kill and oppress innocent muslims in tribal areas and shelling Kunar and than claim to be examplry muslims and we shouldnt expose your crimes and munafiqath.

You act like I personally caused demise to your people. You need to learn to judge people on an individual basis. I am not a killer, neither will I ever hurt anyone. Before you judge me, you should get to know me first. At the end of the day I am not a Pakistani, Indian or Canadian, I am a Muslim. Islam teaches us to love one another not hate each other just because of where they are from.

What do you mean "typical paki response using Islam whenever it suits them?" Aren't all of us Muslim supposed to follow the ways of Muhammad (SAW) - peace be upon him. If you can't follow the basics of Islam and get tied up in a culture feud, then sir you need to reevaluate where you are heading for the hereafter.

[ډګروال]

You act like I personally caused demise to your people. You need to learn to judge people on an individual basis. I am not a killer, neither will I ever hurt anyone. Before you judge me, you should get to know me first. At the end of the day I am not a Pakistani, Indian or Canadian, I am a Muslim. Islam teaches us to love one another not hate each other just because of where they are from.

What do you mean "typical paki response using Islam whenever it suits them?" Aren't all of us Muslim supposed to follow the ways of Muhammad (SAW) - peace be upon him. If you can't follow the basics of Islam and get tied up in a culture feud, then sir you need to reevaluate where you are heading for the hereafter.

if you just a muslim than in your introduction why did you mention you were a muhajir from india. typical paki response is when a paki has no other way out they grab Islam and give u lecture about islamic bhaichara .

btw why do you specifically want to marry a pathan , dont you like your own kind?

[Niceguy91]

if you just a muslim than in your introduction why did you mention you were a muhajir from india. typical paki response is when a paki has no other way out they grab Islam and give u lecture about islamic bhaichara .

btw why do you specifically want to marry a pathan , dont you like your own kind?

I did not mention that I am a Muhajir or my girlfriend is a Pukhton for the reason of causing tension. I stated it because I do understand that there is a culture gap between these two demographics and I wanted to get advice to possibly bridge that gap. Its not about not liking people from my own population, its more about that I met a girl who I really liked and she was Muslim as well. However, I found out later down the road that there are issues that need to resolved due to the culture gap. I am not lecturing Islam to anyone, I am merely stating that I am a Muslim just like the rest of you and I should not be seen as inferior in any way or be called a Hindu-Muslim, because I am not a Hindu, I am a Canadian brought up Muslim who traces back to Karachi, Pakistan. People need to not see me as a Hindu, but rather as a Muslim brother. I feel respect is vital to build relationships between people who are different in various ways.