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  • #76
    Originally posted by star View Post
    No, I'm not pashtun.
    Ok manana , you See I got engaged in my village and I would hate it if she is call imported Bride

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      • #78
        To be Honest everyone That I know that got married back home are happaly married.
        For me Women in west are wroser then the one back home.

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        • #79
          Originally posted by PashtunQueen
          What makes you say that?
          because all the people that I know married back home are happy.
          I know a guy that married a women from here, the had kids and a home and now they broke up and the women damage his house, rip his sofas and bed and left him with the kids and want with a another men.

          To be honest its not about west or back home, its all about how parents grow them up and what kind of people they hang about with.

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          • #80
            Originally posted by PashtunQueen
            But there are also plenty of happy cases in the west as well.
            yep there is , Its all about how that girl grow up.
            If parents grow her up wrong and she hang about with wrong people then there will be problems.

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            • #81
              Originally posted by Master Khan View Post
              To be Honest everyone That I know that got married back home are happaly married.
              For me Women in west are wroser then the one back home.
              let me tel you something about women from back home shall I???? this is from the experience of friends of mine.... 1 is a Dr he married a Dr back there... she was all sweetness and light and as soon as she came here she started wanting to wear mini skirts and go clubbing ( I have seen 1st hand how pashtuns frm back home like this a lot . how within 48hrs of landing at Heathrow they can be found dancing away on the nightclub) he obviously refused to allow her.... she then approached her leewar to take her.... he 2 refused.... she then started staying out late switching her phone off and returning home at 11pm... her husband asked her where she was going to which she replied that it wasnt his concern and how she was being kept a prisoner... she then ran away to Dudley and had an abortion ( who knows if it was her husbands????) she then divorced her husband after she got her indefinate stay visa... she then realised she would loose her mahar which was money tied up in property in Peshawar so she flew off there faked documents to say he divorced her and so by islamic law she would gain the mahar... her husband proved she was lieing... she then took her case to islamic council of Uk where she tried to argue the same... again she was found to be a lier... she then took her case to the UK courts (Non islamic) so that she could gain money from her husband that way... thankfully her husband was clever enough to take everything from his name and transfer it to his sister....

              there are many more horror stories....
              Frater aliquis in fide nec fratrem humanitatis


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              • #82
                whenever we went back home ppl would come like ants to our house.... yam che da lor deh cha ta wer karee da? ( with regards to mys sister and cousins) thankfully our Grandmother forbade them from marrying in Pak and told them 2 marry in UK because she said ppl back home could not be trusted and were only after 1 thing
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                • #83
                  how about this 1? A girl in Birmingham ( pashtuna) married a dude from back home where master Khan thinks that people are of a higher moral standing then us sinners here in the west.... he came out to the UK and after a yr told his wife that he wasnt interested in her and only married her for passport and he was more interested in her cousin.... she told the home office and sent him packing ( he wasnt granted indefinate leave)
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                  • #84
                    Originally posted by Dreamer View Post
                    let me tel you something about women from back home shall I???? this is from the experience of friends of mine.... 1 is a Dr he married a Dr back there... she was all sweetness and light and as soon as she came here she started wanting to wear mini skirts and go clubbing ( I have seen 1st hand how pashtuns frm back home like this a lot . how within 48hrs of landing at Heathrow they can be found dancing away on the nightclub) he obviously refused to allow her.... she then approached her leewar to take her.... he 2 refused.... she then started staying out late switching her phone off and returning home at 11pm... her husband asked her where she was going to which she replied that it wasnt his concern and how she was being kept a prisoner... she then ran away to Dudley and had an abortion ( who knows if it was her husbands????) she then divorced her husband after she got her indefinate stay visa... she then realised she would loose her mahar which was money tied up in property in Peshawar so she flew off there faked documents to say he divorced her and so by islamic law she would gain the mahar... her husband proved she was lieing... she then took her case to islamic council of Uk where she tried to argue the same... again she was found to be a lier... she then took her case to the UK courts (Non islamic) so that she could gain money from her husband that way... thankfully her husband was clever enough to take everything from his name and transfer it to his sister....

                    there are many more horror stories....
                    da doomra palita yo kharaba khaza eh kariwa.

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                    • #85
                      ^ she was from "BACK HOME" the place where you say all women are all angels and he was from the WEST where you say we are all sinners...
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                      • #86
                        Originally posted by Dreamer View Post
                        ^ she was from "BACK HOME" the place where you say all women are all angels and he was from the WEST where you say we are all sinners...
                        I didn't say all are sinners or anything, all my Cousin married womens back home and all of them a happy.

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                        • #87
                          mashallah Good for your cousin.... we prefer 2 marry in the West since we are from the west, we frown on marriages in our family between east and west....
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                          • #88
                            my sister and cousins 2 date have married in the West to UK born people and all of them are exceedingly happy
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                            • #89
                              To be honest with you brother all my cousins are born and rised in the west are good girls but I never seen them praying, they always wear jeans, pants and sometime skirts, And I never seen a scaf on their heads...and they always boss their mum about like swearing at her and calling her names like Fat cow etc.
                              It all about hoe parents rise them, plus they should hang about with good people not kharab people.

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                              • #90
                                I prefer western girls... as if the things you mentioned dont occur in Pakistan.... please!
                                I mean I dnt wanna offend but when I saw ppl frm paks coming here 2 stdy girls and boys... I saw them going 2 nightclubs, getting pissed every night, sleeping around etc....
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