Import Brides

[Mayana]

nearly ever girl on there who is Afghan or Pakistani dates or is looking for a partner.

And MOST of the Afghan girls I know do not date and "mess around" whatever that is supposed to mean. And I know a LOT. And you are trying to tell me that nearly everyone of us has dated?

I dont think you are hiding from the truth Mayana jaan. The majority of the girls in the west mess around.

The minority of the girls in the east mess around.

By saying that "majority of the girls in the West mess around", you slap me in the face, you slap all your Pashtun sisters living in the West in the face - and most ironically, you slap yourself in the face, saying that YOU yourself have most likely "messed around" by your very own definition.

The majority. The majority of the girls. not everyone. 2 different things.

I am not twisting any of your words. In fact, I am using your very words, you said nearly every Afghan/Pakistani girl is dating and the majority of the girls in the West are messing around. I am just basing my statements on that .

I'm not saying that there is no bad girls, I'm saying that you are disrespecting yourself when you say that nearly all Pashtun girls in the West are messing around. You say there is a few Pakistanis prostitutes over here, are all of us prostitutes now? And are you saying there is no prostitution in Pakistan and Afghanistan? If so, I wonder whose world is too colorful now =)
By the way, did you know about Tanbazaar in Bangladesh? And then tell me about how there is only "messing around" happening in the West.

Just because you came from the East and were overwhelmed by the Azaadi you saw here, it doesn't mean that WE girls from the West can't handle it. We were born here, this is our daily life, we are USED to these conditions - we can handle all the bad influences and still remain decent and STILL have respect for ourselves.


And please forgive me but I do not feel respected when someone is sitting there telling me that the majority of Pashtun and Afghan girls in the West "mess around" and hence it is better to get a girl from Pakistan because those are worth more because they supposedly do not mess around. There is absolutely no respect involved in that statement it is purely kicking Pashtun families' Ghairat with both of your feet.

[Nokia_Apridy]

Yara Mata hem Yara kegey khu wus sok % ubasay chay

Alakan sumra Spak shi halta ao Jenakay sumra.........Mannnna

[Brit Chick]

At the end of the day, you need to chose a partner that is most compatible with you. Geographical location should only play a small - if any - part in the decision. Just as you can get 'good' people in the west you can also end up with a 'bad' one from back home. Stereotypes are just that.

[parsiwaan]

Many bring woman from back home because they have good reasons.

The chances of a girl in the west messing around is much higher compared to back home.

What about the "chances" of girls back home messing around when you bring them here? Taste the freedom...then go crazy? haven't you heard off those stories...married girls running away with black, Hispanic and...?
Personally i rather marry a girl form here... for she will be more compatible and will not need to be baby-sit. I rather marry someone born and raised here… she will not be a backstabbing fakes like those back home…who will do stuff but hide it---two faced.

[star]

that depends, if she can speak English and can take care of her self on her own then i don't see any problem with it. i don't want to end up being a full time interpretor

Say what? Girls back home are not taught to be independent and it isn't common for them to go to school. How do you expect to import a western bride from the east?
If you bring one over, expect to be taking care of them, and if you marry them young (16) then they will learn to be independent eventually. If you marry a girl over that age, then tough luck.

[parsiwaan]

Say what? Girls back home are not taught to be independent and it isn't common for them to go to school. How do you expect to import a western bride from the east?
If you bring one over, expect to be taking care of them, and if you marry them young (16) then they will learn to be independent eventually. If you marry a girl over that age, then tough luck.

16 yeard old? dam... Afghans are child molesters! lol ahhah

[star]

It's not right or wrong. It's personal choice. Some are willing to take the risk, some aren't. Some want an educated wife, some want a traditional wife.

[star]

16 yeard old? dam... Afghans are child molesters! lol ahhah

Yo man, you don't know how much trouble some afghan men get into when the government finds out that their wife is underage.

[star]

Yes, because she would be considered a minor.

[star]

Which country do you live in?

[Master Khan]

16 years old is not underage

[star]

If he is 25 and she is 16, then it would be questioned.

[Master Khan]

not really because 16 years old is mature,
if its like 13 and 25 then i would be worried.

[Master Khan]

alot of girls get married at 16 in Afghanistan and Pakhtunkhwa,
just last year my Cousin (16) got married at a 30 year old in Peshawar

[star]

They would be questioned if the bride they are bringing over to the WEST is a minor. In Afghanistan, girls get married as young as 9. Afghanistan is an exception to all rules.
We are talking about brides being imported.