Are men and women together in your weddings?

[Nokia_Apridy]

Depends on the wedding really and where it is/where it is. I don't think any weddings in my family that have taken place in the west (which admittedly is quite a rarity and usually we all go back to pak for them) have not been segregated. Weddings back home tend to be 'semi-segregrated' unless it's marriage between people in the same extended family.

BC pa PUKHTU ka Democry ka na chalgey .....

Gani ma ba darta walay wi za Sta khpal Raya khpal soch

dalta Peker waka da Khbra da PUKHTU da....

Haga yu da Agnrez Khbra kra wa chay

Chay KALA ROME TA LAR SHU NU HAR SA BADAL KA ROME PA SHAN

dagha khbra Zmung sra Samun na Khurey...

[Brit Chick]

Well,
They should be separate so the ladies can dance freely.


not so sure how you can enjo a wedding when so many non muharram are staring at you.

In reality what happens is that a) there isn't any dancing or b) the only ones that do dance are the really small kids or the really older people as both age groups are at the stage in life whether embarrassing themselves in public isn't an issue

[Khushal Khan Khattak]

Haga yu da Agnrez Khbra kra wa chay

Chay KALA ROME TA LAR SHU NU HAR SA BADAL KA ROME PA SHAN

dagha khbra Zmung sra Samun na Khurey...

Apreediya! Sa tabaayee khabaraa di karay!

Wah Wah, very nice!

Alhamdulillah and Jazakallah Apreediya Rora!

[Brit Chick]

I've been to a few like that actually, where for various reasons i.e religious beliefs/recent family bereavement there was little or no dancing. What's worse is when they play music but no one dances......I have to restrain myself from getting up myself :p

[Master Khan]

A wedding without dance,Masti and Music is just boring...And digona is a must

[Nokia_Apridy]

In Kandahar, a new trend's been burgeoning: the men are invited in the afternoon and women in the evening.

Akhh dar kha Kandharai da zmung da Mirwis Neka baba da

Kali khalak dar Ukhyar na di sa khoray taso ?......

Mung na khu Aluganu Ghuyan jor kral .........

[*Mahzala*]

In Kandahar, a new trend's been burgeoning: the men are invited in the afternoon and women in the evening.

One of my best friends had hers like that. It was a relief sitting in the hall, knowing the men were now too tired to even think of coming in. That we could freely walk into the carpark and not worry about men standing around their cars, or waiting around for their women to return. The only male you would see in the evening would be the groom, and he too comes when most have left. It isn't a bad way of doing it ... I think.

I have a lot to say, but my fingers are tired ...

[Dinosaur Khan]

Afghan, ka pashtun wi awo ka farsiwan, azaad khalak di, ma awri dali de west k do wale wraganay mixed wi.

[Nokia_Apridy]

JG ror khola sama khusa wa ta praday jabay takay mata mkwa

kna za khu PUKHTUN da ALLAH pak 99 namay di zma awa PUKHTUN ..

[Shayesta]

In my Henna night men and women were together but they were all families. In wedding it was separated because friends, colleagues and etcetera were invited as well. That's the reason why I prefer only and only inviting families and very close friends to a wedding because the mixed reception (Henna night) was just awesome! With strangers you can't have that much fun.

[Laila]

^^ SHAYESTA!!! i missed you so much hun....welcome back! how did everything go? omg you have to tell me everything

[Shayesta]

^ LOL, I surely will! I can't tell how much fun I had in Afghanistan! We went to Jalalabad, Laghman, Paghman, Qargha, Kabul and my God Afghanistan is blessed with breath-taking beauty! Inshahlah in few months I will go again for my uncle's wedding and next time I plan to go to at least Badakhshan, Bamiyan and Mazar! :D

[Afghanistan2010]

To the topic : Haram in Islam therefor it is to be rejected for every mumin to do such.

And it is completely strange to me as pashtun muslim

[Laila]

Just to make it clear, i did not make this thread.

Two years back, before this site had some changes and upgrade, the original poster who made the thread does not show up

So yeah just to make it clear

[randolph85]

don't fake the funk, laila.