forced marriage

[Pakhtunzai]

I am not harsh. I just observe facts of life. if someone promotes kufr, attacks islam, discredits our religious figures and spreads lies, am I suppose to say to that kind of evil person " dear brother in deen" or " dear sister in deen" ?

No.

Wrora there are ways of going about things. Our dear Prophet SAW didn't attack the jahiliya and criticised them of their ways and their hating of islam. He took their abuse and spread islam the peaceful way and in the end they themselves became muslim subahanallah. Its hard on our patience I know but if we display our anger and resentment upon them it will only lead to them rejecting us further. I know this is completely off topic but I was only 13 at the time and I didn't know when Asr prayer was in the masjid and I went to the masjid and asked somebody when the azaan was and he started gunning me
"Your this big and you don't know when the azaan is..Shame on you!" From then on I hardly prayed for a good 2 years because I felt so down after the way he made me feel.

We do this with peace and love.

[Roshina]

Oh, I know you think I'm a kaafir. You think ANYONE who disagrees with you is a kaafir, so we can't expect anything else from you.

And, no, you can't dare to say I'm an atheist because you can't prove that I ever said that That's what I was saying. For kuffar/kaafir, your best reason is: "You cite hadiths that imply that forced marriages are acceptable in Islam" when you can't even provide a rebuttal to those hadiths.

C'mon.

[Iqra]

Thanks for the links Sangar...

no ones jumping on the band wagon, i know what iam talking about am not some high school kid

wabakhsha wrora .. I have seen you in many diff places, and highly respect you ...

Sangar wrora, I highly respect you for your islamic contributions but what I don't agree with is your harsh rulings of people where you call others kafir, may they be or not who are we to decide that they are of the kufaar or not. Let Allah will deal with them on the day of judgment whatever they are. Why make ourselves kafir by calling others that?

Only looking out for a brother.

Iqra Jaaney, don't worry. Like I always say, when we can't refute a person's statement, we just make unfair assumptions about them, and we THINK that that makes us better for some reason when, in reality, it only shows how foolish and ignorant we ourselves are.

You guys are all wiser than I am ... there is a saying in pashto .. khula ham kaala dah ham ballah... =)

[AnGaaR]

it's against Pashtunwali and Islam.

what about most pashtons do it?

[Khan Gul]

again, more filth from " islamic studies" is being recycled here.

Sangar Jana, in what way is it filth? I have read Qrratugai's post very carefully and I must say I did not not find any exaggeration or historical misstatement in her post. It did happen, didn't it?
In my view, the appropriate answer to her post was perhaps that at that time, forced marriages were quite normal culturally. Later on, the Prophet (pbuh) invalidated all those marriages where the women objected to it.
In my view, forced marriages are those, in which a GIRL's or a BOY's consent is not secured and therefore, in my view it goes against what Islam dictates.
Large number of forced marriages take place even today, in this modern age. Let us all join hands and raise our voice against this shameful practice. My sons and my daughters deserve happy married lives.

[Roshina]

Sangar Jana, in what way is it filth? I have read Qrratugai's post very carefully and I must say I did not not find any exaggeration or historical misstatement in her post. It did happen, didn't it?
In my view, the appropriate answer to her post was perhaps that at that time, forced marriages were quite normal culturally. Later on, the Prophet (pbuh) invalidated all those marriages where the women objected to it.
In my view, forced marriages are those, in which a GIRL's or a BOY's consent is not secured and therefore, in my view it goes against what Islam dictates.
Large number of forced marriages take place even today, in this modern age. Let us all join hands and raise our voice against this shameful practice. My sons and my daughters deserve happy married lives.

Thank you, Khan Gul Lala! That is all anyone had to say.

[Alia]

hey guys there is no need to fight against each other
everyone has his own opinion and you all should respekt this

:D

[Levanaye Zalmaye]

hey guys there is no need to fight against each other
everyone has his own opinion and you all should respekt this

:D

How nice of you to get off from your flying unicorn pony just to tell us this! <3

(lol kidding!)

[Alia]

How nice of you to get off from your flying unicorn pony just to tell us this! <3

(lol kidding!)

hahaha xD
flying unicorn ahah xD
yes it´s very nice from me no need to thank me :P