Marriage to non-Pashtuns

[Zari]

^ paktoongirl..it was your best friend
who you praised

ouch!!

[Muslimah]

:P

[Millatpal Noorzai]

Pashtun it is.

[MazloomyarMaseed]

lol
fine - you're all a bunch of baboons who smell bad and have big noses. I hate Pashtun's....is that better?

geesh---some of you don't know how to take a compliment!

Most of the world thinks your kind is awful and wants to blow up the rest of the world. There are people like me however, who are more educated, and see the beauty in your culture! Don't get defensive and upset that someone compliments you! :P

ohhhh your highness, your majesty!

More educated??? your a Spanish teacher, I am a graduate of International Business Management, my father is a Doctor, my uncle is a Psychiatrist, my dads brothers are professors of law, successful business men, so before you play the ohhh iam a french lebenese so educated blah blah blah, just remmeber this, no real pashtun is going to give his son to you, maybe those bigharata ones who die for visa will go for you, but not you, but your visa, Pashtuns stick with their own, if they cross out of the boundry, they may marry a Farsiban, but never your sort.

Regards

[MazloomyarMaseed]

She says Pashtuns want to blow up the world, i guess she forgets about her own terrorism in Lebenon haha.

[MazloomyarMaseed]

First of all,
I am not "the world"...i am one person. I am also not considering your culture as a "breeding ground" lmao...
Second, Why would I just be looking for a "good looking guy"? I am not superficial - nor am I a moron. Looks mean nothing to me.
Pashtuns (well clearly not all .. you've helped change my mind) are very kind, respectful, religious, hospitable, well-mannered, positive and adoring people. Maybe this doesn't represent EVERYONE. But probably 1990 members on this forum atleast!
Don't take offense to an outsider saying you guys are great. Just say thank you and keep your hatred and racism to yourself. If you don't like what I say...keep in mind others like to take the compliment.

Go and Marry your own Kind, do you think most here actually represent what majority of pashtuns feel and think, Most of the members here are born raised in America,UK, and the west, I dont blaime them, once they live in their real watan, they will feel how good it feels being one with pashtuns and marrying pashtuns as one and as one bond, we dont need people such as you giving us lectures on Muslim unity by promoting your multiculturalism through sex and procreation.

Just because you converted to Islam doesnt automattically make you special or higher than us all.

Thats your faith, good, keep it, but Pashtun is not your problem nor your responsibility.

I only work for my people and i only get happy and impressed when iam congradulated by my own people. Iam nobodys chaplusi!

[Muslimah]

I am going to be the bigger person here and ignore you...since clearly you talk out of your a%%. I don't like obnoxious people.
If I wanted to find a Pashtun to marry me, I would. No problem. It definitely wouldn't be anybody like you though. I don't like racist people who think their shiznit don't stink.
Education is not just books by the way. It goes far beyond that. Maybe if you left your little isolated village named "I hate the world" you would realize that.

[Palwasha]

Who said Pashtun means better, when have i said pashtun means better, its just better that we dont mix with Angreeezun and Africans.

I'm not trying to say you think you're superior for saying Pashtuns should marry within their own, I'm saying depicting Africans as you did, (out of pride) was wrong.

I understand when you say you prefer Pashtuns to marry within their own, I don't actually have a problem with that. My family are more or less the same. If you read my previous posts, my family actually go a bit further than that and only marry us withing certain tribes and families.

I understand, you may have the hots for Blacks such as Mos def, 2pac but some of us dont.

I also understand you would love to see Pashtun women dressed as *****s beside a Black Pimp on some hip hop video.

Regards

Who's Mos def? And Tupuc, erm.. no.

Lol, and what exactly made you understand I felt that way about Pashtun women? I don't ever recall expressing a personal desire of wanting to see Pashtana's in hip hop videos... that couldn't be further from the truth.

[Muslimah]

I don't care if hes pashtun.
I'd rather have a good husband who respects and cherishes Allah, me and my children inshAllah.
Yes we have preferences as to the culture- but it doesn't mean within those preferences we will find every important quality we need. Never say never...you never know what Allah swt has planned.

[Zahed]

Yes you are very well educated :
You amuse me.

looool, bechara de tabah tabah ke! walah ze kho fikr kawom che dagha jenai Pakhtana da aw shayad dwa accounts ham lari.

[Muslimah]

^ ow ow

[Admin Khan]

Guys, seriously? Please stay on topic.


Thanks.

[afghan]

ohhhh your highness, your majesty!

More educated??? your a Spanish teacher, I am a graduate of International Business Management, my father is a Doctor, my uncle is a Psychiatrist, my dads brothers are professors of law, successful business men, so before you play the ohhh iam a french lebenese so educated blah blah blah, just remmeber this, no real pashtun is going to give his son to you, maybe those bigharata ones who die for visa will go for you, but not you, but your visa, Pashtuns stick with their own, if they cross out of the boundry, they may marry a Farsiban, but never your sort.

Regards

maseeda wrora you have no right to abuse any one, i am sure you have not find the right one yet. once you find one for sure you wont even think if she is a pashtun or not. i have seen your type of people who could not get a right woman, then they will curse them. i have not married one for visa, but she had to leave her luxuries because of me. i think i am better pashtun than you i know my 3 thousand years of history, its written untill my grand father, i know my shajara for more than a thousand yaers, from mother side and father side. its your right not to marry non pashtun. we afghans are tough, we follow our traditions more closely. if a non-afghan woman can live with an afghan she is one of the best. we all have diffirent opinion but why one should be cursed for disagreeing with you.

[Roshina]

just remmeber this, no real pashtun is going to give his son to you, maybe those bigharata ones who die for visa will go for you, but not you, but your visa, Pashtuns stick with their own, if they cross out of the boundry, they may marry a Farsiban, but never your sort.

Absolutely wrong in many, MANY Pashtuns' opinion. What is "your sort"? And who said Pashtuns stick to their own? Most do, of course, but who said all? We have examples of many great Pashtuns on PF whose families have had no problem or trouble marrying outside; they even contribute to their language and culture and can honestly claim to be good representatives of Pashtuns. I'd choose a peace-loving, peaceful, HUMBLE, and tolerant non-Pashtun over a violent Pashtun ANY day of my life.

So, yeah, bro, who are you to point fingers and declare someone a "real" Pashtun?

I only work for my people and i only get happy and impressed when iam congradulated by my own people. Iam nobodys chaplusi!

Then please, please act like a Pashtun! Then represent Pashtuns well! Then try to BETTER our name internationally (as this forum is an international place, open to all people in all of the world) instead of calling people names, degrading people, and making statements that suggest that you're a violent Pashtun (refer to your post on your desire to kill Pashtuns who marry non-Pashtuns).

If you want to work for Pashtuns, then have a positive attitude and be respectful to all people regardless of their religion, culture, language, heritage, gender, etc., etc.

Iam sure there are many good looking lebenese men for her to choose, Why Pashtuns? Why cant the world leave us alone, we are not a breeding or mating ground.

Bro, why do you feel so attacked that a non-Pashtun is interested in marrying a Pashtun man? There are many others! While you may think you have the "right" to forbid your own daughters and other females in your control from marrying non-Pashtuns, you have no such right over other Pashtuns.

You call those beghairat who marry non-Pashtuns, but what do you think *you* come off as with the sort of mentality you express and posses on a public Pashtun forum? You want the world to leave you alone? Well, here's a little advice: Maybe they WILL leave you alone if you stopped calling them names just because they are interested in marrying people who have the same blood as you do.

[Sheenka]

if u marry pashtun u will be pashtun but marrying other converting them thats even better then its shouldnt be a problem as long as they r gd muslim and respects u loves u and ur family wat else u want
so its not a big deal
ppl who marry non pashtoons there are some reasons, some ppl who doesnt like their own ppl (i no some1 he hates afg girls LOL) and some may fall in love with non pashtun, some wants to convert them to islaam
so ya these could be the reason
but as far as my concern person who cares and respects u, will care about u, your religion, family, culture e.g. and if not then :P