Marriage to non-Pashtuns

[Nokia_Apridy]

Admin khana bala khbra wawra hahhaha

pa haga company zma da Tra Zoy hem wu

haga ba Ghat Gaday chalwalo nu warta

SUNIL PARBAKAR zmung account bas mashar warta waya mara

Zma Tra zoy laka da Pekhwar na Kohat dasey Gaday botlo nu

pa lara ka warta da khuday shan wu TERUNA na hawa watala panchar

shu nu Office ta raghlu sunil warta wail chay

SARYA nawkht da kru wail chay haga Sta ASHERTWATH TERUNU ta nawtalay

da Terunu ta wail chay tash ya kru rata ......

Bya cha kala ta wail chay SUNIILA TA Ashwertah khpplalo da Ghwa zmanu ta warkwa

mung tarna sata...

[inqilab]

this fairy tale is so called the islamic history also can look at the life of mohammad, i didnot make if up. who were the quresh? what did they do to him what did makkian did to him. you must know better than me.

No your claim of him [s] seeking refuge among jews and christians. If you mean the tribes aws and khazaraj. They had become muslim before the hijra. They had most of the control in medina.

And abraham and ismail were not jews. Jews came from the 12 tribes of ishaq.

Also. please do not say "mohammad". have some respect and say Allahs messenger [s] or nabi etc. But do not call him [s] by his first name.

[Master Khan]

I just want the pashto culture to live and marrying non pashtun will just kill it.

[Nokia_Apridy]

MK za hem khu daz nashu kwalay awo na wejala (kill) shu sok...

[imb706]

Marriage seems like hell from what I´ve read.

[Master Khan]

Marriage seems like hell from what I´ve read.

Marriage is the most beautiful part of your life, I can't wait to get marriged

[imb706]

Beautiful? It seems like signing a bad business contract that´s going to end terribly, and usually not in your favor. Plus it seems the purpose of marriage is to have children, which I´m not interested in.

[Nokia_Apridy]

Marriage is the most beautiful part of your life, I can't wait to get marriged

MK da haga chay kala wada wu nu sarey warta Ghuag ka Umbarakay

warku awo Ao sanga Wo .....

Khair Khair Zwana Da Away Shpay Khunaw awo da tol umer ghum

da Umbarak sha...........HaHa........

[Khan]

First and foremost being a Muslim should matter. I don't know from where did Pashtun and Non-pashtun things came from????

I hate it when some people give a higher priority to what culture says instead of what Islam says.

[Khan]

^ No, I wouldn't mind. As long as it's her will and her to be husband is a practicing muslim.

[Khan]

^ It is every individual's choice to select certain someone to get married. Either Pashtun/non-Pashtun. To the extent keeping it as one's choice it is fine. But when some people act or talk like it's a must thing to marry a Pashtun. It sounds so wrong.

Personally I would go according to this principle when I want to marry someone;

A Muslim first and foremost. No matter what culture she is from, what matters the most is her virtue.

[Admin Khan]

Its sad to say this, But I must so we can realize our mistakes and work on improving them as a community here but here we go. Superiority complex is something many Pashtuns are facing presently. As long as they are both happy and they both choose to learn about one another. Who are we to enforce cultural standards on them? If a Muslim girl wants to marry a Yemeni guy, And she is happy with it, Parents are happy with, everyone is happy with it. There should be no objections in her choice. Its her that is going to be living the rest of her life with him, Not us.

[Roshina]

First and foremost being a Muslim should matter. I don't know from where did Pashtun and Non-pashtun things came from????

I hate it when some people give a higher priority to what culture says instead of what Islam says.

It may be because Islam and culture go hand-in-hand. The way Islam is practiced depends on where you live. And culture is undeniably an extremely important part of our lives, since we are what our culture has made us to be. In fact, for many people, it's THE life they live (I beleive culture is life; period. Some add that it's Islamic culture that's life, and I think that's open to discussion).

Also, lots of people appear to be good Muslims but in reality aren't. For instance, a Muslims' praying 5 times a day doesn't at all guarantee that she/he is a good Muslim, or a good human. For all you know, this person will have no respect for you, your family, her/his family, and other humans. So, often, just appearing means nothing.

But generally, it's just difficult and way too much work to live with someone whose culture and language you're not familiar with. Talk to people who've been in the situation. Perhaps for a Pashtun and a Persian it may not be as big a deal as long as they have at least one language in common, but for someone from, say, Bosnia, and another from, say, Sudan, there will be huge differences that might adversely affect the marriage. And then imagine if the couple doesn't speak the same language (I know 2 couples like this)! That's a disaster!

[pukhtana]

If He/She is Muslim and is willing to learn I have no problem.

[Master Khan]

MK da haga chay kala wada wu nu sarey warta Ghuag ka Umbarakay

warku awo Ao sanga Wo .....

Khair Khair Zwana Da Away Shpay Khunaw awo da tol umer ghum

da Umbarak sha...........HaHa........

hahaha naway, Zama Khaza domra bada um nada.
Zo kho musafar yam, domra ba na sai koom.