Marriage to non-Pashtuns

[Dinosaur Khan]

Re: Marriage to non-Pashtuns

Marraige to non-pashtuns is not an issue at all.

Selling of pashtun girls to others is a serious issue which is needed to be discussed. Due to wars and poverty poor pashtuns sell their girls to unkowns and then never bother to make contact with blood in future, horrible stuff happens to such pashtun girls.

[Dinosaur Khan]

Re: Marriage to non-Pashtuns

^Ma Pakhpal post 5,6 pla wawayaley magar za wus hum confused yama, ta rata wo waya.

Pukhtuns dont give their wives to others in marriage, well not that I have seen or know of (not to say that I havent seen it, it doesnt exist, generally speaking though).

pashtuns dont give their daughters to others? lol
tor khana lets talk about your swat ,and the trend that is followed there.

[*Mahzala*]

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pashtuns dont give their daughters to others? lol
tor khana lets talk about your swat ,and the trend that is followed there.

One writes it wrong...the other reads it wrong :mrgreen: (Jokes)

No heratigirl, its not. My original post is not that short.

Jodigul, heard the story of the stereotypical journalist?

[Dinosaur Khan]

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^Thats true?
It's news to me.

ofcourse in west, we cant be aware fully of what is going on in our homeland. The utopian pashtunland that you people have constructed in your minds is quite different from the real one.

[tor_khan]

Re: Marriage to non-Pashtuns

Jodigul - da Swat khabara nasham kawale wale chi pa Swat ki hosam na.

Pa Swat kee hom sa makhkinee khyaaluna dee au sa khyaaluna badal shawee dee.

Zonga famile kee sa dasee waduna shawee dee chi halakaan pa khpal marzai waduna karee dee. Dasee waduna shawee dee chi halak au jinai da yow bal na khabar hom na wu. Au bya dasee waduna shawee dee chi ya jinai ya halaq da Swat na bahar waduna karee dee.

Khabara da har cha lapara mukhtalif da.

[Dinosaur Khan]

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tor khana you did'nt mention black and shameful business of selling of daughters in swat?

I am sure you will deny this fact and will call me liar.

what is reason that some people in swat sell their girls to other pashtuns and punjabis?
Poverty can not be the reason because swatis are not that poor.
p.s: this shameful business is also carried out by poor afghan immigrants and other areas of NWFP like nowshera, chitral etc

[tor_khan]

Re: Marriage to non-Pashtuns

tor khana you did'nt mention black and shameful business of selling of daughters in swat?

I am sure you will deny this fact and will call me liar.

what is reason that some people in swat sell their girls to other pashtuns and punjabis?
Poverty can not be the reason because swatis are not that poor.
p.s: this shameful business is also carried out by poor afghan immigrants and other areas of NWFP like nowshera, chitral etc

And you hold me responsible?

[Farhan]

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Thing with Pashtuns is that they 're being too harsh on their children when it comes to marriage. I also fell in love with one but our fault was that I'm from Pashtunkhwa 'n she from Afghanistan, 'n that my Pashtu is extremely weak. It boiled my blood even more when I heard she got engaged to a Tajek.

[Dinosaur Khan]

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@Farhan: May be the tajik was more wealthy than you?

[Shayesta]

^ For Afghans that doesn't always have to be the case. Also in my family we had a lot of suitors from Pakhtunkhwa but the fact they were Pakistani's made my family reject each and every one of them. Unfortunately, because I really would love to have someone from Pakhtunkhwa in my family as I want to associate more with Pukhtoons of Pakistan.

[Laila]

Damn bro, Damn. Usually when a Tajik is integrated into the Pashtun culture, They are accepted. Like the Tajiks from Kandahar for example, they live Pashto,eat pashto and merely share a similarity with Tajik.

Exactly, Laghman is very diverse. And the Tajiks are considered as Pashtuns because they have respected and assimilated themselves into the Pashtun community, and they are quite Patriotic too. They have been welcomed, and there arent any problems.

[kunar1990]

I don't know who i will be married to, but sofar my family namekhoda who is a big family has no history of marrying non pashtuns - so i hope that wont change.

I don't care from which part of Afghanistan my possible wife would be from, whether she is from kunar, kabul, pekhawar, laghman, ningarhar, swat don't matter as long other things are right.

[Laila]

^ For Afghans that doesn't always have to be the case. Also in my family we had a lot of suitors from Pakhtunkhwa but the fact they were Pakistani's made my family reject each and every one of them. Unfortunately, because I really would love to have someone from Pakhtunkhwa in my family as I want to associate more with Pukhtoons of Pakistan.

My dear, i still dont understand that.....my family, as you also know, is like that too....i mean we are both pashtuns, so whats the problem??? Why is it that we obviously consider one another as 'one' but then when the topic of marriage comes around, its a different reaction. Its quite pathetic.

i hope your wedding plans are going well.......you will have to send plenty of photos, me and my mom are eagerly waiting

I just wish i could go to your wedding, i would dance all night, and do the attan *twice* just for you


That was my 500th post *yay* God, i need a life :P

[IamDZJ]

i was once almost married to a pakistani pakhtoon.

[Dinosaur Khan]

[COLOR="DarkOrchid"]....i mean we are both pashtuns, so whats the problem??? Why is it that we obviously consider one another as 'one' but then when the topic of marriage comes around, its a different reaction. Its quite pathetic

It is not that afghans consider pakistani pashtuns inferior.
Giving their daughters in far place and another country is very difficult decision for parents.