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  • what i fail to understand is why are non pashtuns/muslims trying so hard to make a point on behalf of the two telling every pashtun member that they disagree with that they are mindless and clueless. yeah they are but that doesn't make you right unles you tell me where you got your phd on the subject of the matter from. so why don't you all shut the buck up and let someone who is married to a non pashtun or a non pashtun who is married to one give out his/her opinion and get this over with??

    I am no bird, and no nest ensnares me.

    non commercial would cost less if he was in charge himself which he plans on doing. right now it's n herat but soon it will be in qanadahar.

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    • Originally posted by DaZahroJaam. View Post
      what i fail to understand is why are non pashtuns/muslims trying so hard to make a point on behalf of the two telling every pashtun member that they disagree with that they are mindless and clueless. yeah they are but that doesn't make you right unles you tell me where you got your phd on the subject of the matter from. so why don't you all shut the buck up and let someone who is married to a non pashtun or a non pashtun who is married to one give out his/her opinion and get this over with??
      are you taking some cheap shots at me?

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      • Originally posted by sgulab View Post
        I dont understand what there is to be confused about. Also, i was not trying to be unique. I was just trying to talk about what this thread is actually about.
        I didn't say you were trying to be unique. Marry who you want, I don't see it as a big problem.

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        • Originally posted by roadrunner View Post
          are you taking some cheap shots at me?
          i am talking about all of you in general. you happen to be in that list.

          I am no bird, and no nest ensnares me.

          non commercial would cost less if he was in charge himself which he plans on doing. right now it's n herat but soon it will be in qanadahar.

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          • so what's the question?

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            • ukhhhhhhhhhh i have to ask it again?? the question is...
              are you a pashtun who is married to a non pashtun or a non pashtun married to a pashtun?? if not then what gives you the right to speak on the behalf of either one of them?? because they are the only people whose opinions are legitimate and worth considering and to whom the subject should concern as they speak out of experience.
              the rest of you are just wasting everyone's time.


              I am no bird, and no nest ensnares me.

              non commercial would cost less if he was in charge himself which he plans on doing. right now it's n herat but soon it will be in qanadahar.

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              • ahhh, silly me.

                So the question isn't "would you marry blah".

                It's are you a married Pashtun or not.

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                • are you kidding me??? so in the 355 posts that you have made in this thread you have only been answering that one question??? you just say yes or no and then state the reasons and then get the **** out of here.
                  you are literally living in this thread.
                  whatever....

                  I am no bird, and no nest ensnares me.

                  non commercial would cost less if he was in charge himself which he plans on doing. right now it's n herat but soon it will be in qanadahar.

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                  • Don't you think me making 355 posts in this thread is just a SLIGHT exagerration?

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                    • no

                      I am no bird, and no nest ensnares me.

                      non commercial would cost less if he was in charge himself which he plans on doing. right now it's n herat but soon it will be in qanadahar.

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                      • Pashtana from Wardak.

                        Because Wardak pakhto is the only pakhto that I 100% understand
                        ---
                        To advise others is an easy matter, the difficulty is accepting advice -- since it is bitter for those who follow their
                        own inclinations and desires
                        .


                        -Imam al Ghazali

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                        • If a person is intelligent, well mannered and understanding, then I really don't understand why him being a Tajik or a Hazara or a Punjabi be a problem. For some Afghan Pashtuns even a Pakistani Pashtun is a alien, no wonder we fail to seek understanding.

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                          • Actually, there is no such thing as a Pakistani Pashtun. Many of the Pashtun tribes in rural Afghanistan can be found in KP, FATA, and Balochistan. Remember these are one people who in the past have fought against foreigners. It was the Ghiljay who massacred the British army with Wazir Akbar Khan (Abdali), and it was the Afridis who massacred the British too at the Khyber Pass. All the tribes worked together, and were (are) united. Tribes are related through marriage and common ancestry.

                            Now take Quetta and Peshawar , there are many Pashtuns who migrated from Afghanistan, specifically the border regions. In Quetta, all Pashtun tribes are represented. You have Ahmadzais , Kakars from all over, Khattaks, Afridis, Durranis, Yousefzais, Noorzai, and the list goes on. This just shows how false the line is. Now take the Mohmand and other border regions.- you have Pashtun tribes who live right on Durrand, and have family on both sides. Point is they dont recognize the line at all. How do think Wazirs and Maseeds are present in Kunar and Logar? They have been crossing always, its nothing new.

                            The line is false, and people ignore it.
                            Last edited by Guest; 06-22-2011, 05:20 PM.

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                            • Originally posted by Mina View Post
                              If a person is intelligent, well mannered and understanding, then I really don't understand why him being a Tajik or a Hazara or a Punjabi be a problem. For some Afghan Pashtuns even a Pakistani Pashtun is a alien, no wonder we fail to seek understanding.
                              no wrora, Its nothing to do with intelligent, well mannered and understanding, most important part for me is Culture and langauge.

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                              • if you want your children to speak pashto then its most likely best for you to marry a pashtun/pushtana.

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