Marriage to non-Pashtuns

[Dreamer]

Its all about personal likes and disliked of the individuals concerned and their faith.... personally i like Israeli girls.... you cant get better looking then them

[Henna]

Its all about personal likes and disliked of the individuals concerned and their faith.... personally i like Israeli girls.... you cant get better looking then them

Jew Follow the religion of their mother. If mother is jew so the children are jew too.

[Dreamer]

^Islam permits the marriage to them.... that rule is on their ethnic lines... my dads bro was married 2 a jew...
anyway its not like I would marry them... Im saying I find them attractive

[abubaker]

how come no ones asked the thread create for his stance on this

[Dreamer]

mara who cares.... each 2 their own... lets see if those who FORBID thier daughters rom maryying XYZ will actually be able to stop their daughters from marrying such and such when the time comes

[afghan]

As salaamu aleikoum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu,

suppose your daughter decides to marry a black person. Would you have a problem with that?

if a pashtun do not hesitates to give their daughter to a paak---ni i dont see anyhting wrong with giving her t a black man.

[tor_khan]

As it is, in the neighbourhood where I grew up, I knew of a (dark-skinned) Pashtoon woman from Quetta whose own mother was Kenyan African. She was often mistaken for being being a member of the Sheedi community that lives in Balochistan, but she was Pashto speaking.

[Amir al Ghaznavi]

ive always been proud being a Pakhtun, and I hoped I would meet a Pashtana...but I fell in love with and got engaged to a Herati Farsi zaban girl.

She loves Pashto and is proud that her man, and her kids, will be Pakhtun. She has commited her self to learning Pashto, and we have agreed that our kids will be raised in Pashto (from my end) and English (from her end)

once our kids are 13....we teach them Farsi.

The way I figure it...Im gonna singlehandedly reverse this trend of Pakhtun men marrying Farsi women and adopting their language

[Amir al Ghaznavi]

I hope, I really do. Have her come to PF so I can teach her Pashto.

lol thank you very much for the offer. ill get her to join up sure.

im actually working on a Pakhto 101 booklet for her...Ive actually written it with my father, and its written specifically for the Dari speaker. I put Dari words and sentences and equivalents with the Pashto to give the student a better understanding

its not designed to teach the reader full Pukhto but to give them the basics and make them semi fluent

ll be done it soon hopefully. there are so many people who have put requests forward for a copy...mostly dari speaking Pakhtuns

Im going to singlehandedly reverse the trends of Dari speaking Pakhtuns who cant speak Pashto

:p

[ayub]

what does ur sig mean? Kakar gang or don't bang?

[Roshina]

how come no ones asked the thread create for his stance on this

The creator of the thread gave her stance in the first post as well as perhaps throughout the first hundred pages of the thread

I wouldn't [marry a non-Pashtun] but only because I will want my kids to speak Pukhto. So, it's not just the Pukhtun blood that matters to me; he has to speak the language and know the culture well as well. Otherwise, I wouldn't marry him.

And I don't support the belief that children are whatever race their father is. I believe if the child belongs to mixed parents, then he is mixed, and it's unfair of the parents to teach him the culture/language of only ONE parent's and not the other's, too. So I wouldn't prefer a non-Pukhtun not because I'm a woman but because I want my kids to be Pukhtun by blood AND by culture. It'd be too much work teaching them two language and cultures at the same time if their father isn't Pukhtun :D

There. So I believe that if you marry someone who's not from your culture, then you should be burdened with teaching your children both YOUR culture/language as well as that of your spouse's. Otherwise, it's unjust if the children have to learn only ONE language and not both. Now, if both parents are from different cultures/races but speak the same language (e.g., both are Pashtuns but don't know Pashto and speak only English), then it starts not to matter.

[Ghilzai]

Farsi speaking Pashtun. The best of all worlds.

[Master Khan]

I don't mind Pashtun men marrying non pashtun women because the women adopt her husband Culture anyway..but our womens marrying non pashtun is problem for our culture and language.

[Nokia_Apridy]

......................sa walkam...........wala NARAY awa da

PUKHTU hem awa da ..........Khu khalku ranguna warkral

sok waye chay mayan shwam sok waye chay Famly materz di

Walay da mung ZRA NA laru ka sanga ?

[Saifullah]

so are you saying marrying your own kind is free from trouble?