Marriage to non-Pashtuns

[Saifullah]

Yea at least you can understand how serious you both are, i can imagine marrying a french woman and she swears at me, then im like oh thanks so sweet of you to say that (whatever u meant sounds nice)

[Sheenka]

in our family it isnt allowed to marry pashtun from different province :D

[Saifullah]

If you become like that then you will end up only allowed to marry your cousin, coz outsiders are not the same as your family. But if you accept anybody for marriage who is good, then it doesnt matter where they are from. You cant have it both ways where you say marry only pashtuns but then in pashtuns there are sub-tribes, then people will say only marry your sub-tribe and so on

[Sheenka]

right ^^, the thing is some of girls married outsiders and we dont get along although they do cope but our families r like this and that, makes things complicated loolz

[Master Khan]

right ^^, the thing is some of girls married outsiders and we dont get along although they do cope but our families r like this and that, makes things complicated loolz

yeah thats is true, For example I am from Swabi and If I give my daughter to someone in Jalalabad then she will be far away from me so thats why we marry within our village and villages near by...some of my relatives are in Peshawer and Karachi.

Just recently my cousin (female) married a Kashmiri here in UK.

[Sheenka]

kashmir wow

khan u r right, one of my causin married in paktia at that time they were in kabul now they r in paktia we dont see her once a yr, she didnt come to uncle wedding, grandfathers, funeral, so thats how bad it is

[Dreamer]

move with the times

[Sheenka]

time moves so fast then u need to move quickly :d

[Dreamer]

people make things forbidden thats allowed and then make things allowable that are forbidden...

[Sheenka]

i dont get ur point :D

[Dreamer]

its allowable by the law of GOD to marry a muslim regardless of their race... yet we have people here looking down on people who do and sayings its wrong....

[Master Khan]

kashmir wow

khan u r right, one of my causin married in paktia at that time they were in kabul now they r in paktia we dont see her once a yr, she didnt come to uncle wedding, grandfathers, funeral, so thats how bad it is

yeah and they didn't even spend any money on the wedding lol..I guess we pashtuns was right about them lol.

My uncle said "they didn't even made us a cup of tea" lol

[Sheenka]

lool khan, thats sad so u didnt eat anything there

[Sheenka]

its allowable by the law of GOD to marry a muslim regardless of their race... yet we have people here looking down on people who do and sayings its wrong....

very true, well said, but our afghan makes their own rolles and they give pirority to culutre more than religion

[Master Khan]

its allowable by the law of GOD to marry a muslim regardless of their race... yet we have people here looking down on people who do and sayings its wrong....

Yep there's nothing wrong with it, there's more diversity then; the Quran states that people have been divided into tribes and sub-tribes so that they may know each other and what better way than marriage? It is easier to marry within one's culture as you are more familiar with it but as long as your main concern is spirituality, there should be no problem.