What do you think?

[eyeliner]

oh kwl, but does your requirement mean that she has to be pashtun?

[eyeliner]

but on the whole they prefer not 2 marry people from "back home" this applies for girls and boys

thats a relief lol, but why not?

[Dreamer]

they dont like them... our mentalities are different... experiences of them have shown them 2 be very decietful etc.... Anyway we are different from most in that we also dnt mind marrying non pashtuns... very few people have married out but I have a cousin In norway ( shes actually my second cousin) whose married 2 a Norweigen revert and another 2nd cousin married to a Turkish girl and his sister is engaged to that girls brother, my dads brother was married to a jewish lady and I have a moms cousin whose married to a half caste punjabie girl.... its all good

[eyeliner]

^^ oh kwl

[Dreamer]

Most people Ive met from "back home" are drunks and fornicators so I 2 have seen what they are like

[eyeliner]

hmm....most of them just use ya.

[Dreamer]

I remember when I was in London... I went 2 an iftari party hosted by some pashtuns who were international students... iftar was done and then out came the stella artois 30 mins later... I was like whats the point?!
I knew they drank but in Ramadan that shocked me so I asked one u are really doing bad... he said he was part of prophets umma so no matter what he did prophet wld intercede for him lol.... as if...

[eyeliner]

lol oh my God, lol one of my mates bro who got a tattoo done and i go to them your wudu isn't accepted therefore nor is your prayer and then his mum was like well its not like he prays anyway.

[Dreamer]

The worst thing is they think they are better than us!

[Khan]

Welcome Edris Jan.

I hope you enjoy your stay with us.


Just like some brothers and sisters pointed it out that a language is just a tool of communication, there are many other aspects that show and define your nationality/tribe. The way some members make statements like " You are not a Pashtun if you don't know how to speak Pashto" makes almost half of Pashtuns living abroad Non-Pashtuns but white washed.

So don't take the nonsense as an insult that guy must not have had any idea about what was he saying. The reason is because some Families from the beginning are taught something without any logic. For example; " You are not a Pashtun if you cannot speak Pashto" just came out of nowhere by someone elder in the family without explaining and giving better reasons. If I were you I would've asked that Kandahari guy what did he think of those Pashtuns who haven't been to Afghanistan in their life and cannot speak Pashto at all? but their fathers, grandfathers were Pashtuns and come from Pashtun tribes i.e Ahmadzai, Mohammadzai, Kakar, Karzai etc.. Aren't they Pashtuns? Don't they belong to this homeland?


To me such statements are another attempt at drawing lines and creating distances among our own brothers/sisters and I tell you what this trait doesn't belong to any decent tribe/nation with a little sense of love and affection for their fellow countrymen and I say this trait more belongs to brainwashed person.

[Iqra]

To me such statements are another attempt at drawing lines and creating distances among our own brothers/sisters and I tell you what this trait doesn't belong to any decent tribe/nation with a little sense of love and affection for their fellow countrymen and I say this trait more belongs to brainwashed person.

tsenga khabari dih zda dih pa nima shpa kih

[toor-pekai]

AM i the only one that pities people who call themselves Pashtuns but can't speak a word of Pashto?

You see, I take that as an insult!!!!

[Khan]

tsenga khabari dih zda dih pa nima shpa kih

LOL

It lasted for 3 hours then I fell asleep. lol

[Nokia_Apridy]

So guys and girls this is my second thread in this forum.
And my question is what do you think about those Pashtuns who cant or speak a little Pashtu?
Do you consider him a Pashtun?
I am Kakar and I dont know since how many generations our family have been speaking Dari, I can speak Pashtu but not that well.
Recently there was this Kandahari dude who told me that if you dont speak Pashtu you are not Pashtun. ( I got it as an insult )

I think being Pashtuns isnt that much about the language its about the blood with in you.

Thanks

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