What I want in a woman

[Tjanaparh]

she will make surgery to be taller just for me ?

If You need we can arrange that , how tall do You want her to be ?

[Tjanaparh]

congratulations !

is she from your neighborhood / remote family ?


and what's the difference of age between you and her

She is from a place close to my village!
Arround 5 years difference

[JAMALUDEEN]

I'm 22 and already married... what are you guys waiting for?

[Al Hanif]

I'm 22 and already married... what are you guys waiting for?

really ?

when did you get married ?


was it an arranged marriage ?

[JAMALUDEEN]

yes arranged marraige... about a year ago..

[Al Hanif]

yes arranged marraige... about a year ago..

congrats

now it's time to make some kids

good luck for your next 20 years

[Afghanistan2010]

congrats

now it's time to make some kids

good luck for your next 20 years

brother did you solved my enigma

[al-arab]

I married when I just turned 19 and I turned 20 in October this year.

My parents advised me so did all my brother's and sister's and other relatives. But it was easier because my family new her family. She is of Saudi, Lebanese and Iraqi descent so it is a good mix and a half year younger than me. From good and respected family and now we study both. She has lived in the West (Spain and France) for some years unlike me but that is not a problem. She is still conservative, pious, compassioneted, forgiving and very loving. She can cook food as well but not perfect. We have know each other since childhood and always had a good relationsship and it was something special first time I saw here.

She has also helped me with my English great:lol: which was not so good 1 year ago.

Al-Hanif:

Brother, I would advice you to marry a woman you know, your family know. It is too risky to mary someone you just meet a few weeks ago. But you must feel yourself if it is right or not. I am sure you also can meet someone who do not know and fall in love and marry.

There are millions of woman and I am sure you and everybody else will find their wife/wife's with the guidance of Almighty Allah. You just need to search and take intiative. It will not come automaticaly.

[al-arab]

Alos another thing.

Your future wife and her family must be accepted by your parents/family otherwise there can be a lot of problems that can make your marriage bad.

[torkham]

when you live in the west you begin to think like them. it's a trap. you might be lucky to see it, might be too late.

let your parents arrange it. they do know better, just like you think you know better now, your son daughter will make same judgements against you. let the parents do it.

marry your own, dont expect unattainable demands (great cook etc) - you can never expect a certain personality or trait with certainty either. people with strong opinions do change with time - there are no (very rare) constants. there are stories in every village how the son or daughter turned out so strange even though the parents were so respectable. it does happen.

even the most madly in love couples can end up miserable, unhappy, suffering, fighting or even separating/divorcing,

marry your own kind, follow the sirat mustaqeem.

i know a friend married to a moroccan who suffer marital brutality; she was a peasant girl, religious, poor, but beautiful, slim, tall, black hair etc. he thought he hit the muslim jackpot. when she left morocco and travelled with him, she began to like different things in life, she noticed that she was noticed for her beauty, and she revelled in this admiration and rose throught her ranks of ego and pride. so he thought he found all the attributes, but those attributes are elusive and unique to people, you can not predict what will happen to a person with time and experience. there are so many stories like this. she could be pashtun, but your environment, circle of friends and influences make an impact - what is important is good character as a starting point, and hope all goes well.

sounds hopeless? no, it is the reality and you have to be realistic.

[IamDZJ]

"A man who treats his woman like a princess is the proof that he has been born and *raised in the arms of a queen."

[KhyberKhan]

women should be seen and not heard.

[sunni]

"A man who treats his woman like a princess is the proof that he has been born and *raised in the arms of a queen."

and every man have a different definition of princess.

like for example beghirata ppl think they are treating thier womens like princess when they let them do whatever they like and want, wear whatever she want and like, show her beauty to all the world and he would be proud of her infront of his friends when they tell him *woooow your wife is sooooooo HOT* and he would be like * thanx* while he is so stupid and don't know that his own friends using thier imagination about her and would love to cheat with her., and he thinks he treat her like a princess.

and for another example a bi*ch would love her hubby let her do whatever she want and to show her beauty and to get the attention of the sick men, and think her husband treat her like a princess.

there is limits in everything. if you live this life without limits then you are a waste.

and islam have showed us the limits of everything, alhmdolilah.

[KhyberKhan]

Serious note, most of you on here want X Y and Z in a women, but what does a women want in a man? Im guessing being a fussy, pretencious, nit-picker is something i imagine they dont want.

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If you want a Flawless wife then you have Decided to live lonely.