Do you want to marry non-Pashtuns?

[emkhan]

its sad but it reality.

Yes its reality but i think our women should think in this matter ... they are more responsible in this matter... A woman never wants good for another women even if she is her own sister.

[ScimitarXEdge]

da kundatob ta dera krakah (nafrat) larum wali mung yawa kheza bande majboura kawoo chi tola zhwanda yawazay pata shi haghase der zaloum dai.

[kakargirl]

Is marriage obligatory?

yes it is wror unfortunatly lol, so sorry no escape lol

[kakargirl]

:'(

lol sorry adam lol but good news you can delay it to the max hope this gives you peace of mind so put the weed away i know you was going to blaze up.

[ScimitarXEdge]

ok my bad i don't remember reading that.
but my first post was in general to any guy who says he wouldn't marry a pashtana and you replied so the discussion went on :P
don't laugh at me

aaah well I think marrying a pashtana has its virtues, but it has become very complicated.

In a way I think pashtaney should always be with Pashtun men. There's a totally different dynamics when it comes to males and females which are crucial. I mean when you marry a man you are impregnated by him, and in that sense you're surrendering your womb to him. I believe this is where the idea that someone's Pashtun if their father is Pashtun comes from. So in essence a woman marrying a napashtun would be breeding another ethnic group's children.

I think in such an instance Pashtun men should definitely reconsider marriage options so not to leave Pashtun women abandoned.

[Laila]

Not necessarily, yaw rawaj shta kah wrandar kundah shi chi akhkhey ta warki

oops sorry I just reread your post, you actually said what I just wrote. LOL

my bad

Ha ha ha its okay

Even though Idiot seems like a nice chap, I generally advise women not to be involved with men who have been involved in drugs or womanizing. These are tell tale signs of problems

There are always exceptions to rules, and I'd like to believe Idiot maybe one of them; my general knowledge of men who do such things is that they often pass venereal diseases to their spouse and sneakily use drugs/alcohol.

Saying " I believe everyone has a past" is a generous outlook, but it is often naive, someone's past behaviors show you what they're capable of, and what went into "composing" them.

I see you do have a point. But one cannot be inconsiderate and ignore the fact that they are possibly repenting their past, and working on doing whatever they can to work on it. Now I do not know of Idiot's situation, but if he is trying to make himself better by: staying clean, working hard, genuinely repenting, and keeping himself away from these dirty acts. But the hard reality may be good luck with finding a Pashtuna and her family, that will overlook this, me on the other hand, i am different.

[randolph85]

someone marry idiot. he gets my stamp of approval and thats all u really need.

[Haris]

The randolph seal of approval:






Hold onto something Idiot. The girls will be charging at you any second now...

[Laila]

Wo wo, I am not a bad guy. I just like to smoke my blunts here and their. I am not a adulterer, or a fornicator by no means.

I am trying to help create a business empire from the ground up. The question for any future wife I would have is would they marry someone who is in their lowest point in their life? If the business pops up, I know I can get married to anyone I want cause of money.

But, would anyone marry me as a guy who doesn't go to school, smoked weed, but has an insane blueprint to billions of dollars? (hypothetically speaking).

I know damn well, no afghan/Pashtun women would. As it's a 75% I will be a failure. Would they leave me the next day?

Dont worry, i am sure there is a girl out there that likes your mixture of Dari and Pashto

[کیش]

someone marry idiot. he gets my stamp of approval and thats all u really need.

What happened if the business fails? Would they leave me the next day, the same day?

What happens if I can't get a stable job? Will they leave me

If I get locked up? Will they leave me.


Btw am not trying to get married, I just have questions I would ask them if I was interested.

Laila
My Urdu is getting good. I am mixing it with the Dari/ Pashto. App tshanga astë Lol

[randolph85]

a pashtun girl might be difficult, but if u can find a hot indian girl she will probably stay with u. she will just be happy that she bagged herself a real life pathan, and her family will probably find u a tech job somewhere.

[Laila]

What happened if the business fails? Would they leave me the next day, the same day?

What happens if I can't get a stable job? Will they leave me

If I get locked up? Will they leave me.


Btw am not trying to get married, I just have questions I would ask them if I was interested.

Laila
My Urdu is getting good. I am mixing it with the Dari/ Pashto. App tshanga astë Lol

Even better, now your Bollywood chick will love it

[randolph85]

tell the indian ladies u are related to shah rukh khan

[faye]

Yes its reality but i think our women should think in this matter ... they are more responsible in this matter... A woman never wants good for another women even if she is her own sister.

emkhan, that is a seriously odd generalisation about women

[sgulab]

Well, I would marry a pushtun just because I want to keep my culture and everything alive. Its just going to be a heck of alot harder to keep it all going if the person was from a diff culture. Thats just my opinion. But Im sure there are ppl that have made it work.

Im open to marrying someone from a diff culture and all but my first choice would be a pushtun.

Idiot- all the questions that you have honestly just depend on the girl and her family. It also depends on how exactly she feels about you.