Do you want to marry non-Pashtuns?

[ScimitarXEdge]

Scimitar, why does Azmal say you murdered some girl LOL? Is it part of one of his fantasy magazines?

Azmal used to cyber stalk me, like he tried finding out my address, he even found my cell phone number and randomly prank calls me from time to time. So I'd just say stuff to mess with his head, I found his obsession with me homoish. He learned the hard way that trying to stalk me comes with consequences.

[ScimitarXEdge]

In Islam the girl's father should not give anything to the boy's family. It is only the mahar given by the boy's family to the girl only. and that mahar is then owned by the girl only.

Of course

but Pashtuns often prefer Pashtunwali over Shari'ah.

[emkhan]

Of course

but Pashtuns often prefer Pashtunwali over Shari'ah.

hmmm in some cases yes true ...

[ScimitarXEdge]

He doesn't know nothing about Pashtuns. He has a fat shinning dark meant head with a big baloon to his backside, while short like a peray Yamani. So generally scares Pashtun girls.

Who are you trying to convince here, them or yourself?

[kakargirl]

Everyones jumping on edge wror, without knowing the truth, in upperclass familys we never had the walwar system, but there are alot pashtuns who still do , i know a girl whos father took 48 thousand in british cash from his son in law , and as for remarrying i know so many that remarry , only in upper class familys the girl marrys once even if her husband drops dead next day she never re-marrys , one of my cousin she was 17 she got married her husband died on the same day before he came home to her ,now shes been a widow for 9 years and allah knows how long she will live .

[emkhan]

Everyones jumping on edge wror, without knowing the truth, in upperclass familys we never had the walwar system, but there are alot pashtuns who still do , i know a girl whos father took 48 thousand in british cash from his son in law , and as for remarrying i know so many that remarry , only in upper class familys the girl marrys once even if her husband drops dead next day she never re-marrys , one of my cousin she was 17 she got married her husband died on the same day before he came home to her ,now shes been a widow for 9 years and allah knows how long she will live .

Thats sad. In our pashtun culture, nobody takes the responsibility then in such situation.

[Gulalai]

edge i'm just saying you can't generalize lol watch your ideal girl end up being a pashtana.

[kakargirl]

edge i'm just saying you can't generalize lol watch your ideal girl end up being a pashtana.

khorai he mentioned it because its true , you would be shocked how many times non pashtuns have asked me in school how much we sell our girls for indians and punjabis think we all sell its a fact no point avoiding it, so i had to explain .

[ScimitarXEdge]

edge i'm just saying you can't generalize lol watch your ideal girl end up being a pashtana.

LOL I guess you didn't read my first post, I'm not opposed to marrying a pashtana, but I am open to not marrying one.

[kakargirl]

Thats sad. In our pashtun culture, nobody takes the responsibility then in such situation.

which part is sad the money or the forever widow i didn't understand .

[emkhan]

khorai he mentioned it because its true , you would be shocked how many times non pashtuns have asked me in school how much we sell our girls for indians and punjabis think we all sell its a fact no point avoiding it, so i had to explain .

The same thing i have faced many a times that so many punjabis have asked me if we sell girls? I was shocked because i did not know whether it really happens?
but later on i came to know that it is a rewaj in some areas...

[emkhan]

which part is sad the money or the forever widow i didn't understand .

being window forever and the money as well

[Gulalai]

LOL I guess you didn't read my first post, I'm not opposed to marrying a pashtana, but I am open to not marrying one.

ok my bad i don't remember reading that.
but my first post was in general to any guy who says he wouldn't marry a pashtana and you replied so the discussion went on :P
don't laugh at me

[kakargirl]

The same thing i have faced many a times that so many punjabis have asked me if we sell girls? I was shocked because i did not know whether it really happens?
but later on i came to know that it is a rewaj in some areas...

yes i heard it too many times,and not only that ,another stereo type is if you have dark hair brown eyes and look asian you are not pashtun if you are white coloured eyed and coloured hair then you are pashtun , so many non pashtuns have a mentle picture of pashtuns being a certain way.

[kakargirl]

being window forever and the money as well

its sad but it reality.