Pashtun women belong at home

[Sheenka]

pashtun women belong in the kitchen to cook those lovely dishes that they always do

not really

[JAMALUDEEN]

I will cook for her once in a while instead of taking her to a restaurant. lol save some money

[Roshina]

Will u do that even wen u married?

Well, if he's a good Muslim and believes in following the sunnah and all, he will, just like the Prophet did with his wives.

[Gulalai]

pashtun women belong in the kitchen to cook those lovely dishes that they always do

rishtie?

[Saifullah]

Well, if he's a good Muslim and believes in following the sunnah and all, he will, just like the Prophet did with his wives.

Yea true but woman needs to cook as well..i am pro-helping woman out in the house, but i am not pro-men doing house work while woman chills

[Nido Jay]

its okay for you to chill all the time but she HAS to cook and clean and wash all the time , no chilling for her. Men make me sad.

[Saifullah]

Men working all day aint chilling...lol

[Nido Jay]

yaa ... thats really hard work .. and women working all day means nothing?

[Sheenka]

no coz they born for that thats what men thinks thu

[unknownprince]

Women should be educated and have their own financial independence. this prevents the insecure situation that results when a man leaves his wife and children (becoming very frequent in Muslim communities in the US now). This is the very reason a woman should be educated. However, obtaining an education does not mean one should become liberal, and walk, talk, and dress like them. Their ways are filthy, and they do not belong in our culture.

[Gulalai]

Men working all day aint chilling...lol

what if women work all day too, then who's going to cook & clean?
both of them, has to be fair kana

[Saifullah]

Women shouldn't work all day if they have kids to look after...women can work but they shouldn't make their job be above their family. A man has to make his job priority because that way it benefits his family....he shouldn't be away from his family, not more than 6 months...otherwise i wont call that a family

A man has to work because he is the provider. When woman works its only for herself, because she is not asked to contribute to family wid that wealth of hers, she can spend it how she wants. A man when he works and gets money thats for his FAMILY, he is obligated to spend on them....see the difference in roles??

So men work all day, when they come home they can help their wife by giving her a massage on her head...lol

And maybe do garden work, once a week cook something and tell wife to relax....and just help in the house. But a woman should do most of the work...lol

[Roshina]

^ Why the "lol" at the end of your post, Saifullah? . . . I mean, is it funny that a woman should do "most" of the work?

By the way, clearly you wouldn't know what all goes into doing housework! Try handling a baby, cooking, cleaning, laundry, and a trillion other things on your own -- oh wait, even with the "little help" you might receive from your husband!


Alas, I guess polygamy is good after all. That way, men won't have to do ANY housework because all the co-wives would be doing it all. ha. ha.

[Saifullah]

The 'lol' is because it seems like im trying to say the woman should do everything...but that isn't my point.

Men going to work, doing the shopping and driving...not tiring enough? Yes i do agree housework is tiring so the woman deserve some help....not little help but a lot of help. Washing clothes you just put in washing machine. Buy the woman a dishwasher to make her washing easier. Looking after baby well men can help out doing half of the work like looking after them while you wife does something else or relaxes, cooking help out sometimes so why so many complaints?? Life is not easy and you can't expect the husband to do everything...

[amna.]

I am against anyone who says Pashtun women dont deserve to be educated.

Anyone who thinks they dont deserve education how would you feel if you pass away and your children are left with a wife that is uneducated. How will she get food on the table?