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C'mon, guys, don't take him seriously, lol. He's prolly laughing at us all for having taken him so seriously and responded so quickly to his radical extremist backward comments, which I'm over 100% sure don't represent his personal beliefs at all.
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just looking at the title of this thread is making my head hurt.
I am no bird, and no nest ensnares me.
non commercial would cost less if he was in charge himself which he plans on doing. right now it's n herat but soon it will be in qanadahar.
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Women do need atleast abit education so they can atleast help their kids with their homework.
they can't just not go to school at all.
jaati khanzi asi kaar eh.Comment
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We forget to mention another thing, our women need to be educated islamically. I have seen in villages most women gain their islamic knowledge through wat their husbands tell them, but they have never gone to seek true islamic knowledge from pious people. Or had proper lessons about the fundementals of faith and so on. It is severely lacking and that is why women in village turn towards non-islamic practices such as taweez and don't really understand the essence of faith.
So our women need to be educated in all things that will help them in their life and in being a better person. Education is not limited to school, education is also in the home and upbringing is a form of education as wellLast edited by Saifullah; 09-01-2010, 12:22 PM.Comment
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Hello Samin.. welcome to the forum...
I don't think your initial post is any surprising to me. You are not the only so called educated man who has such opinion about women, which is definitely the sad part. The world is suffering from male dominance syndrome. sadly people like you exist everywhere. the double standard , the hypocricy with regards to women's rights and freedom exist everywhere.
Your opinion is based on your own insecurity and it is true for all the men who think like you. For a man, an educated , independent wife threatening to his authority.
anyways, i wont go on right now, mainly because I am lucky i don't have to deal with men like you... and never have
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Stupid uneducated women make up for good servants. This doesnt mean we should start treating uneducated people like animals but choosing for them not learn is wrong.
I am no bird, and no nest ensnares me.
non commercial would cost less if he was in charge himself which he plans on doing. right now it's n herat but soon it will be in qanadahar.
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brainwashed afghanOriginally posted by Samin View Post
thats why afghanistan is like that not like western conutries
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sheenoOriginally posted by sheenkay View Postbrainwashed afghan thats why afghanistan is like that not like western conutries
lol
im upset about ma story
but i can't shut up when i see all of u saying something wrong and i know what's right
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i will begine now
ohhh gosh i wish i can speak eng right
it's relly diffclut for me to speak in english like i want i will translate what i say in arabic mybe the translate come lil bit wrong but i know that's make u understand
in islam there's no problem that women educted and study islam want that
this point is finshed about women studying
now about work
The first suspicion: a case and must work for women as half of the society:
Advocates say women's emancipation: to be exploited women because they are half of society, and even complements the other half, increasing national wealth, and locked between four walls of a waste of dignity and paralyze their movement and potential disruption to their productions and scientific and practical and intellectual.
answer:
11 - No one disputes the rulings of Islam understands that the contracts of women and conduct business properly in session does not depend on leave one of the guardian or husband. No one contests that if a woman did not find one to support from the husband or relatives did not house money duty so that it may work to gain strength..
2 - The women in general in Islam which should not be assigned to spend on themselves, but the guardian of the father or husband or brother or anyone that is spending it to devote itself to married life and motherhood, and the effects of this are obvious in the regularity of the home and supervision of the Educational Boys and maintenance of the futility of men, women, solicitation and guile to remain a decent clean reputation in the community.
3-Islam took into account the nature of women and it Aftrt preparations, medical studies have shown that a woman's multiple psychological and physical may God created the body contrary to configure the man. Science has proved that the difference too between men and women of the cell, and the end of the tissues and organs; Considering the difference in the blood and bone and the reproductive system and muscular system and the different hormones in different psychological as well as, we believe ventured men and hardness compared to guard women and modesty, came the modern research to expose the case symmetry ideological difference between the sexes, so that boys think differently to atone for girls, and storage capacity and information in the brain is different in the child than in girls, and the man's brain bigger and heavier and more recesses of the brain of women, exploring the history, we find that excel in every art hardly legions sift, while Nabgat we find that a few of the women in any of these areas
4-The physiological functions of women is hampered by work outside the home, is enough to look at what is going on in women in menstruation, pregnancy and childbirth to know that going out to work outside the home is disruptive to the original work itself and go against fitr on her behalf and composition of biological
5-Of women in her work takes effort and energy to do so if she does well is better to do:
A - it is required to provide an atmosphere dew marital affection and compassion, smell good and ten time intimacy,
No women fun physical which is intended to link only with nationality, but before and after the spirit of nice and the same honest, up by her husband suffer from the aftermath work, and grim, the same as suffering the in his work, but will soon then only a little and if Bkahlh conceal himself a luxury, it goes back to normal of the company, kindness, and working women, if not eliminates, including such housing, then at least weaken it so much.
B - a claim the right to carry the child and needs variety. There are the needs of the membership of hunger, thirst, hygiene, and a need for psychological security resulting from the moderation in cash, and the preservation of the child from the consequences of neglect, and needs for social recognition not to censure or hatred and not being accountable to no overcharge. There is the need to play, and the need for freedom and independence.
C - is required to undertake regular home affairs, and it takes considerable effort.
It is ironic that the work of women in the home is classified in the part of hard work, it requires considerable effort in addition to long hours of between 10 and 12 hours a day.
These broad aspects of the work of women in the home, can not be met on the face of completeness is concerned with the great work
The second suspicion: Protest to increase national wealth:
Advocates argue that women's involvement should be functioning more in the national wealth of the country, and that the country is losing a lot of women's work on the Palace of the House, except for its laziness and get used to the killing of her time with is not helpful
Answer:
1 - The women's involvement affect the economic life of a bad influence, given that its work in the competition for men in the field of natural activity, leading to the publication of unemployment among men.
2 - if it is proved that the functioning of women leads to unemployment for men was likely to be the man who Zahmth her husband or her father or her brother, any economic gain for the family if the functioning of women leads to unemployment and the dean in charge of spending it?!
3 - The interests of the people are not always measurable scale, purely physical, if we assume that the functioning of women increases in national wealth, but it is certain that the nation is losing so the loss of moral and social, not appreciated, that is the loss of harmony of the family and coherence, what losing run, reported damage to the nation: loss of physical or social loss?!.
4 - This view of the material does not apply to the reality of our lives and the lives of other communities, even in communism, there is in every society groups are disabled for material production, armies and the staff does not increase the wealth of the nation's material, has been chosen for all nations to devote the army to protect the country without being obliged to work and earn a living , Can it be said: This disruption of the wealth of human and lead to lower national wealth in the country?!
The lives of the people are not all calculated profit and loss account physical Vakarm, gallantry and sacrifice, loyalty, and help others make all of this loss of material, but do not give up a great profit by honest people who cherish human dignity.
Rather than maintenance of the family and child care and upbringing of children less matter in the eyes of those sophisticated dental ethical values that are not measured purely physical scale.
5 - Those who say: The presence of women in the home to get used to laziness, therefore fatten our women than Westerners, these do not know the trouble the home and work, and how a woman complains of Enaih, what evening evening only a helpless, imagination itself to meet with neighbors and friends. And girls as long as the school they receive the flag may not overwork him, and if completed the school does not stay in the house of her father and her mother only by preparing for the transition to the marital home, it is in this case receive practical lessons from her mother in the management of the house, and its and their affairs, not may nonetheless be overburdened with work outside the home.
The work of women in the home was a daughter or wife not less than the work outside the home, hardship and trouble, and often more difficult and burdensome.
The third suspicion: the use of maid in the care of the house:
Advocates say a woman going out of her house to work: What do you say if a woman wanted to work outside the home and the project came servant acting on behalf of the work of the house and custody of children and their upbringing?!.
Answer:
1 - remains a work in its own right is prohibited outside the home as long as they are not being forced to, does not absolve them from committing this act is prohibited to bring the maid is paid by the prejudice to the performance of their duties at home, because the education of children by their mother and inform them of affection motherhood and affection can not be collected by the maids.
2 - The words of the objector means that he does not weight or as maids, and they did not consider deserve care and attention, and that they like less than others, and such consideration is not true may not be, because when we say that the prevention of women's work outside the home, it said general provision covers all women domestic workers and Almkhaddomat, how Nsog for domestic work outside the home, which is forbidden them, and allow the Mkhaddomat to work outside the home, which is forbidden to them?! Is this the only such commission prohibited to get rid of banned one?!.
3 - The presence of the maid or nanny in the house has many negative effects on children in particular and the family generally
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^^ with coffee cups in their hands.Comment
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I cook my own food and i like less saltComment
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