Pashtun female honor

[Yousafzai Pakhtun]

for example there are two families , enemies to each other
people died from both sides, later they have peace treaty. so sometimes for the sake of it one party marries their daughters to the other family along with some other conditions , money , etc. done by jirga.

The poem below narrates the whole story:

پلار مې خان د کلي دى بيخي لويه حجره لري
سره شړۍ په ولو لري ښه جګه شمله لره
ښه زين کړى اس لري او ښه توره تيره لره
ټول کلى يې حکم مني څومره دبدبه لري

پلار مې د غرورپه نيلي سپور و ځان يې نه ليدو
دنګ و په خپل ځان کې مقابل انسان يې نه ليدو
نيغ به يې اسمان ته کتل ټيټ جهان يې نه ليدو
پوره غره په ځان و خو د لوى خداى شان يې نه ليدو

پاڅيدو په نه خبره خرپ سړى يې ووژه
اور شو د غضب ته وا هوسۍ بچى يې ووژه
خدايزده چې د چا د قسمت شين بنګړى يې ووژه
قتل سره جوخت د يوه ژوند سپرلى يې ووژه

تيرې اوه ورځې نه وې لربر خانان جمع شول
ښې سترې حجرې ته بډاګان او ځوانان جمع شول
سپين پټکي په سر و طالبان ملايان جمع شول
غبرګ غويان حلال شول ولسي ملکان جمع شول

جوړې ننوتې شوې جرګې چې تړون وغوښتو
قتل او په بدو يې د ښو پيوستون وغوښتو
زه يې په ژړا ورکړم له ما يې سکون وغوښتو
زما د روح په مرګ يې زما پلار ته ژوندون وغوښتو

زما انساني حق زما د پلار دغو کړو وړو يوړو
خوږ نعمت ارام د ژوند ، لمبو يوړو لمبو يوړو
شرنګ مې د ځوانۍ د غم خنجر د غم چاړو يوړو
ها ګلابي رنګ مې زيړ په رنځ شو انديښنو يوړو

زه د ژوند په پښو کې لکه ماته اينه پيغله
زه د زمانو درد په خټو کې پراته پيغله
زه له خندا لرې په ژړا وير کې راشنه پيغله
زه د بد رواج غشو خوړلې پښتنه پيغله
(جيلاني جلان)

[єѕαρχαι]

very lovely poem indeed. Thanks for posting it here.

[Shayesta]

Thats better than the concept of abolishing marriage so people can have sex with everyone they please which is a very common ideal among Socialists.

Are you seriously justifying a murder the cause of which is chatting, just because you are afraid people will lose their 'Islamiyat'? Now, are you ready to kill those millions of Muslim men who go much more beyond 'just chatting'? Sick!

[شمله ور خراساني]

Are you seriously justifying a murder the cause of which is chatting, just because you are afraid people will lose their 'Islamiyat'? Now, are you ready to kill those millions of Muslim men who go much more beyond 'just chatting'? Sick!

What Muslims do as individuals and kill their wives and daughters does not reflect Islam as a religion.

But these non-Muslims bring this kind of incidents into discussion to attack and generalize about Islam and Muslims as a whole.

While the same people who advocate socialism and marxism are silent about the ideology of "free love" which is an inherent aspect of their philosophy and thought.

[Shayesta]

^ I don't care what 'these people' (a.k.a. Westerners) think of Islam or how they try to portray Muslims and Islam. It's a fact that there are Muslim women being killed for over the smallest things and if we Muslims aren't afraid of Him when murdering our women, then why we complain of Western ideology about Muslims and Islam?

[شمله ور خراساني]

^ I don't care what 'these people' (a.k.a. Westerners) think of Islam or how they try to portray Muslims and Islam. It's a fact that there are Muslim women being killed for over the smallest things and if we Muslims aren't afraid of Him when murdering our women, then why we complain of Western ideology about Muslims and Islam?

I am not talking about Westerners. I am talking about our very own Lewaney Zalmaye and his compadres.

[شمله ور خراساني]

Sangar you honestly don't think that is extremism?

What did I say? Have you read my post carefully?

Don't jump to conclusions.

[Roshina]

The poem below narrates the whole story:

پلار مې خان د کلي دى بيخي لويه حجره لري
سره شړۍ په ولو لري ښه جګه شمله لره
ښه زين کړى اس لري او ښه توره تيره لره
ټول کلى يې حکم مني څومره دبدبه لري

پلار مې د غرورپه نيلي سپور و ځان يې نه ليدو
دنګ و په خپل ځان کې مقابل انسان يې نه ليدو
نيغ به يې اسمان ته کتل ټيټ جهان يې نه ليدو
پوره غره په ځان و خو د لوى خداى شان يې نه ليدو

پاڅيدو په نه خبره خرپ سړى يې ووژه
اور شو د غضب ته وا هوسۍ بچى يې ووژه
خدايزده چې د چا د قسمت شين بنګړى يې ووژه
قتل سره جوخت د يوه ژوند سپرلى يې ووژه

تيرې اوه ورځې نه وې لربر خانان جمع شول
ښې سترې حجرې ته بډاګان او ځوانان جمع شول
سپين پټکي په سر و طالبان ملايان جمع شول
غبرګ غويان حلال شول ولسي ملکان جمع شول

جوړې ننوتې شوې جرګې چې تړون وغوښتو
قتل او په بدو يې د ښو پيوستون وغوښتو
زه يې په ژړا ورکړم له ما يې سکون وغوښتو
زما د روح په مرګ يې زما پلار ته ژوندون وغوښتو

زما انساني حق زما د پلار دغو کړو وړو يوړو
خوږ نعمت ارام د ژوند ، لمبو يوړو لمبو يوړو
شرنګ مې د ځوانۍ د غم خنجر د غم چاړو يوړو
ها ګلابي رنګ مې زيړ په رنځ شو انديښنو يوړو

زه د ژوند په پښو کې لکه ماته اينه پيغله
زه د زمانو درد په خټو کې پراته پيغله
زه له خندا لرې په ژړا وير کې راشنه پيغله
زه د بد رواج غشو خوړلې پښتنه پيغله
(جيلاني جلان)

Oh my God . . . wow . . .!!

[Roshina]

^ I don't care what 'these people' (a.k.a. Westerners) think of Islam or how they try to portray Muslims and Islam. It's a fact that there are Muslim women being killed for over the smallest things and if we Muslims aren't afraid of Him when murdering our women, then why we complain of Western ideology about Muslims and Islam?

Exactly.

[Feroza_Banu]

haha.. i don't think men have the capability of understanding the depth behind the word "honor"
considering how limited the definition of honor is to them... (only pertains to sexuality)

what they consider our honor and claim to protect for us, we can protect that ourselves too!

[Shayesta]

^ In fact, it's only us who can protect it. If we care enough about 'that' respect then we will remain caring, but if we don't then nor will we listen to men about it and do what we wanna do.

[Feroza_Banu]

^100 percent agree!

[єѕαρχαι]

What i noticed , people want women to behave like cows.

all of these men they would ask you to follow them blindly .

It doesn't matter if they are right or wrong.

But what matters , is their goddamn self esteem.

Thats how lots of "honour killings" happen.

[Master Khan]

honour killings is just taking tooooooooo far..its not even islamic!!
beating up your wife is just the wrose thing you can do.

[Palwasha]

^Honour killings are just sickening.

I heard a recent story where a girl married a guy without her family's permission, her brother eventually caught up with her, shot her and her husband, and took the baby. No words can describe such acts.