Pakhtana marrying a Kafir :p

[Catya Sher]

^ Funny !
WELL DONE !

Also great work by GYE to push back against
PF's Sorceress of Darkness .

Few people even among these Pashtuns or
PF members identifying themselves as Pashtuns or Pashtanas
dare to FIGHT BACK
against this robotic personage who IMAGINES herself
as a Queen wanting to pronounce on
every subject under the Sun.

No one who is alive and alert CARE what this
Narcissist thinks about anything...

[Nora]

[IamDZJ]

^ Funny !
WELL DONE !

Also great work by GYE to push back against
PF's Sorceress of Darkness .

Few people even among these Pashtuns or
PF members identifying themselves as Pashtuns or Pashtanas
dare to FIGHT BACK
against this robotic personage who IMAGINES herself
as a Queen wanting to pronounce on
every subject under the Sun.

No one who is alive and alert CARE what this
Narcissist thinks about anything...

you may pick on me all you want. just realize the fact that i am not roshina. it has been quite a while since last i had to prove anything to myself. don't say i didn't warn you.

[badmash_khel]

Janga janga tor sha.................

[Talal]

thanks admin khan for taking care of that, and thanks DZJ


GoE and now catya sher too, ive said it both of you guys before and again its just common sense to extend courtesy to the other person while talking to them no matter how much you hate them..you guys harp on about the culture and ghairat all the time, but has no one ever told u its just generally an incredibly rude and dishonourable thing to address a girl like that ? i mean think about it if you would address a person like that in real life

[graveyardofempires]

thanks admin khan for taking care of that, and thanks DZJ


GoE and now catya sher too, ive said it both of you guys before and again its just common sense to extend courtesy to the other person while talking to them no matter how much you hate them..you guys harp on about the culture and ghairat all the time, but has no one ever told u its just generally an incredibly rude and dishonourable thing to address a girl like that ? i mean think about it if you would address a person like that in real life

go to some punjabi forum and teach them about manners my friend.
you come here and call us all guilable and expect some respect?

almost all of your comments have a demeaning tone.

since you dont know about ghairath or culture ,why would you even care and believe me if you in real talking like this to pashtuns you most likely would not get respect.

the best thing you can do is keep your paki nose out of it.

maybe truth hurts you and believe me i dont care if does,be it you or your supporter zahro.
she has zero right to jump in when im talking to someone,and if she does than its obvious why would she do it.

[Punjabi]

Then why did you just answer it!


Problem with people like you is, backwardness has plagued your mind, your an obstacle towards free thinking and progression, your the kind of guy that gets very upset when others do good unless it satisfys your deluded view of life and people.

Faith should not be an issue, if Muslim men are allowed to marry Non muslim women, then why not vice versa? We no longer live in the Arabian empire anymore.

If a Muslim man beats his wife, smokes chars and takes Naswar
, but a Non Muslim man doesnt, then whats the difference?

Stop being a spokesman for Arab Imperialism.














To have a successful society, a progressive one and a modern one, you need to accept a few things such as free thinking and stop this emotional blackmail through faith, if you want to live in a bedion society, then please visit Somalia, its nice at this time of year, and I am sure women are free to vote and have no fear of walking half a mile outside their houses.

I Totally agree with you my brother

In your profile picture , you look like a taliban, but it's the contrary, you defend women
I'm really happy that pashtuns like you exist
Thank you.

[Manzareh]

i raised a good point, and my post deleted. whoever deleted it may you have severe itchthiasosis on yo ass and may you arms shrink to small to get to ya bumcheeks.

[tor_khan]

i raised a good point, and my post deleted. whoever deleted it may you have severe itchthiasosis on yo ass and may you arms shrink to small to get to ya bumcheeks.

I am not afraid to say if I have removed a post. However, on this occasion it was not me.

What I object to Manzareh is how with the same mouth you can claim to be a defendant of Pashtoon ghairat, guided by Islamic principles and then write something as crass as this.

To a point we all have a responsibility of shielding each other from embarrassment and indignity. When this is done skilfully nobody is harmed. I am sure your family would have taught you the importance of maintaining the pardah and haya of others. Similarly, consider the first deletion a correction of your error and an attempt to avert embarrassment.

I don't know what your original point was, but if it matches the quality of what you just posted, then this could also have been handled very differently. If I was in bad mood at the time and I had come across your posting, I would not have been so quiet and as dignified in the deletion as my colleague. You would have had a stern message in your Inbox and possibly worse. I don't like writing stern messages any more than the recipient likes reading them.

And what I particularly object to is Members who think they have a right to question a Moderator decision in a thread like this, when you do not know what goes on in the background, most particularly when there are ways of raising your concerns.

[Waleed]

she will not be a pakhtana if she marries you, and i definitely wont call her a pakhtun

[abassinafghan]

some one who is giving away his daughter and sister to non pashtuns , is

traitor of race and blood .

and i dont care if he is american , arab , christian , jew , muslim etc......

one dont give away his daughter to strangers .....

[JattApache]

some one who is giving away his daughter and sister to non pashtuns , is

traitor of race and blood .

and i dont care if he is american , arab , christian , jew , muslim etc......

one dont give away his daughter to strangers .....

There is only one race

We are all humans
But i'm really surprised by some islamic members in this thread !
In islam , i think that you can marry all the ethnicities, but they have to be muslims ?

That's why a pashtana can marry a punjabi muslim or an arab or a black muslim !

[JattApache]

go to some punjabi forum and teach them about manners my friend.
you come here and call us all guilable and expect some respect?

almost all of your comments have a demeaning tone.

since you dont know about ghairath or culture ,why would you even care and believe me if you in real talking like this to pashtuns you most likely would not get r
the best thing you can do is keep your paki nose out of it.

maybe truth hurts you and believe me i dont care if does,be it you or your supporter zahro.
she has zero right to jump in when im talking to someone,and if she does than its obvious why would she do it.

What is wrong to see a pashtana marrying a punjabi ?
If he is a muslim, where is the problem ?

[haviZsultan]

Hi guys long time no speak, I have a slight problem and need a little help in terms of opinion and educated advice.

I would like to marry a girl who I met 9 months ago. She is what I have always looked for in a woman. She means everything to me and I have decided that I will ask her to marry me.

Her family are a little backward and to be fair not their fault. :p I have had good talks with both her and her family on the and email only. I speak good Pashto and have a very good grasp on culture, custom and most importantly see myself as compatible with their daughter.

There is a little history with the ol girl and I don’t really care. When she finds out how many woman I have slept with she would be shocked!

Anyway, the problem is well I am not a Muslim, so Nikah is going to be a problem. She is well aware of this predicament and simply avoids having to answer any of my questions when we have a chat.

I am going to meet her parents soon, I am going to Germany this week but will be going to Pakistan for 3 days so need this post answering to the best of anyone ability before Sunday :p

Opinions Please.

If she wants to marry you then its her choice I guess. I hope she does want to marry you and will accept you despite your... ummmm... past.

I guess its very necessary for Pashtun parents- no scratch that.... South Asian parents and Afghan parents and hell Muslim parents to give their kids freedom when they grow up. They are going to do what they want so why not just allow them to. Why constantly have a stick around and try to impose your ideas, your beliefs on your kid?

And parents think that just marrying their son or daughter off to the person they wish them to marry will be the end of all their problems. This especially happens to kids raised in western environments when all of a sudden they are dragged out of their lives and forced to marry.

I had a friend once... she was married in India (still was a muslim if you're wondering) though she didn't want to, came back to Canada, had a kid (with her husband-nothing out of the ordinary here) and then decided to run away with a boyfriend.

Parents can't expect their children to follow Pakistani, Indian or Pashtun culture when they have raised their kids in a Western Nation where they are bombarded with their culture. In fact it shouldn't even be done in our countries. I wrote an article on it too... here...
http://havisultan.com/index.php?opti...dset&Itemid=71

Our parents try to influence their kids lives way too much when they should understand that when the kid grows up its basically his or her life.

[haviZsultan]

Seriously guys... this thread began in 2011.

Who digs up old threads and brings them back to life I wonder. Frankly who cares who someone wants to marry or not.

Its your life... do with it what you want.