Marriage to non-Pashtuns

[PFgulalai]

It's not a rocket-science to read posts here so you need to stop advising me to read them as I do read it before replying. Anyways I would continue only if I learn something new which is not the case here. But hopefully someone here would think twice before calling Pashtuns PREHISTORIC for the reason of marrying Pashtun to another Pashtun. Also, nobody becomes modern if he/she as Pashtun marries a non-Pashtun.
PEACE!

you seriously need 2 reread the posts....

[Master Khan]

flips sake u really shld go back 2 ur village and give ur female relation 2 the first pashtun u meet.... ID RATHER MY FEMALE RELATIONS MARRY DECENT PEOPLE THAN THE LIKES OF U! SIMPLE!

wo lag goozara ko lol, you can whoever you like but don't call us backwards or said we live in stone age just because we want to marry our people only.

[Shayesta]

@Dreamer
Even our prophet was said to mention himself by his tribe and once again his marriage outside of his tribe (or even religion) was spreading of Islam, that's why he had more wives than four which is actually allowed in Islam. And I didn't talk of superiority anywhere, I just said if people want to marry within their own tribe then that's their right and once again, even in Islam you are allowed to marry within your own tribe and reason for those wanting to stay within their tribes could be anything, not necessarily feeling superior. If someone says I don't want to marry (for example) a Punjabi because he is dirty, then that person is not thinking from an Islamic perspective and that's indeed wrong (in my eyes). But if people want to keep up their culture and language next to Islam, then that's their right. The world is blessed with beautiful cultures and beautiful languages, they don't have to kill their language or culture in order to make a 'good' Muslim and I personally think there is nothing wrong with marrying someone within your own kind to keep your culture and language going for generations to come. But that doesn't mean I am against marriage outside of your tribe or ethnic, just my preference would be someone from at least my own country.

[Dreamer]

hahahhaha your reasons are backwards... thats a fact that cant be denied... preserving genes.... dude do u knw how pashtuns came about????? mixing of various Eastern Iranic peoples with a good dose of marcedonian at the time of Alexanders conquests
we are a mix ourselves... dont fool urself with that myth of qaid rashid rubbish

[Dreamer]

@Dreamer
Even our prophet was said to mention himself by his tribe and once again his marriage outside of his tribe (or even religion) was spreading of Islam, that's why he had more wives than four which is actually allowed in Islam. And I didn't talk of superiority anywhere, I just said if people want to marry within their own tribe then that's their right and once again, even in Islam you are allowed to marry within your own tribe and reason for those wanting to stay within their tribes could be anything, not necessarily feeling superior. If someone says I don't want to marry (for example) a Punjabi because he is dirty, then that person is not thinking from an Islamic perspective and that's indeed wrong (in my eyes). But if people want to keep up their culture and language next to Islam, then that's their right. The world is blessed with beautiful cultures and beautiful languages, they don't have to kill their language or culture in order to make a 'good' Muslim and I personally think there is nothing wrong with marrying someone within your own kind to keep your culture and language going for generations to come. But that doesn't mean I am against marriage outside of your tribe or ethnic, just my preference would be someone from at least my own country.

u shld read some of the posts esp by master khan... he basically states for a pashtun 2 allow his daughter 2 marry a non pashtun is wrong.... where do u stand on that?

[Master Khan]

@Dreamer
Even our prophet was said to mention himself by his tribe and once again his marriage outside of his tribe (or even religion) was spreading of Islam, that's why he had more wives than four which is actually allowed in Islam. And I didn't talk of superiority anywhere, I just said if people want to marry within their own tribe then that's their right and once again, even in Islam you are allowed to marry within your own tribe and reason for those wanting to stay within their tribes could be anything, not necessarily feeling superior. If someone says I don't want to marry (for example) a Punjabi because he is dirty, then that person is not thinking from an Islamic perspective and that's indeed wrong (in my eyes). But if people want to keep up their culture and language next to Islam, then that's their right. The world is blessed with beautiful cultures and beautiful languages, they don't have to kill their language or culture in order to make a 'good' Muslim and I personally think there is nothing wrong with marrying someone within your own kind to keep your culture and language going for generations to come. But that doesn't mean I am against marriage outside of your tribe or ethnic, just my preference would be someone from at least my own country.

finally someone makes sense now, manana khor.

hahahhaha your reasons are backwards... thats a fact that cant be denied... preserving genes.... dude do u knw how pashtuns came about????? mixing of various Eastern Iranic peoples with a good dose of marcedonian at the time of Alexanders conquests
we are a mix ourselves... dont fool urself with that myth of qaid rashid rubbish

and when was that??? 2000 years ago.
I just want my culture and laugauge to live on and thats it, there is nothing backwards about it, sta khabara os pazoly di

[Dreamer]

No culture stats static neither do languages.... They absorb host cultures and languages.... This is a fact....

[Master Khan]

u shld read some of the posts esp by master khan... he basically states for a pashtun 2 allow his daughter 2 marry a non pashtun is wrong.... where do u stand on that?

yes its wrong for our Culture and lauguage.

[Dreamer]

dude seriously go back 2 ur village.... breed a dozen or so kids and give them 2 some villagey like urself so ur line stays pure and intact and stop spouting the rubbish your saying here with words like wrong when even quran allows it as does sunnah

[Master Khan]

No culture stats static neither do languages.... They absorb host cultures and languages.... This is a fact....

yes the female will absorb your culture and laugauge when she enter your home, but If you give them away to non-pashtun then she will absorb their Culture and language and their kids will aswell and that will be the end of pashtunwali for her family.

[Dreamer]

Please shut up with your garbage... Your a racist... The world doesnt need racists

[Master Khan]

dude seriously go back 2 ur village.... breed a dozen or so kids and give them 2 some villagey like urself so ur line stays pure and intact and stop spouting the rubbish your saying here with words like wrong when even quran allows it as does sunnah

so pashtunwali is rubbish now.

[Shayesta]

@Dreamer
That's not really an Islamic perspective, but if that's his opinion then that doesn't make him an kafir either. Islam is greater than that, you won't be dismissed from Islam by having some personal preference. If he states his reasons of why he thinks marriage outside your ethnic is wrong, then we can argue. So far, I only see this as his own opinion and just like you can't force him to think the same way like you, same wise he can't force you to share his opinion. Simple as that.

[Dreamer]

NO WHAT UR SAYING IS...IF PASHTUNWALI SAYS 1 THING AND QURAN ANOTHER 2 HELL WITH PASHTUNWALI.... Allahs law above that

[Master Khan]

Please shut up with your garbage... Your a racist... The world doesnt need racists

oh playing the racist card now.
in the last post I said I will be friends with them but not a relationship.