Marriage to non-Pashtuns

[ډګروال]

Brother Akramzai, you are dealing with someone from the modern Khariji heretic (bidathi) sect who consider those that don't succumb to fanaticism as "kafiran".

ښه نو ته اوس کاپر نه یی


خپله فرهت تاج مور دی اینډرسن ته واده کلی ده او مږ ته خبری کی

[ډګروال]

I am sorry I can't read Arabic properly and am learning it atm, also my Pashto isn't 100% and that's why I'm on this forum in the first place to learn from you guys. Maybe you could reply in English or Pashto in English alphabet.

that was pashto not arabic.

[Toramana]

Akramzai, ignore this person---He is the patient of chronic fanaticism with infectious rabies...da kharijai bidaathi dai

[Pisho]

We should follow the example of the Japanese if ever we get an independent state called Pashtunistan (inshallah). In Japan 98.5% of the people are Japanese, it is very unlikely even for a rich business man to get a Japanese nationally. And look at their state, almost no unemployment, only recently did it rise from 2.7%-4.3%. They are one of the most advanced countries and keep improving even though they were bombed by the Americans and got independence from Britain at the same time as Afghanistan. The Japanese conserve their culture very much and appreciate other cultures at the same time.
As i said before, having pride in your heritage is not haram nor does it mean you think you're superior, it just means that you appreciate the unique culture given to us by God.

Thank u and some1 called me racist yesterday...
Atleast there are some ppl here in this forum that are not completely westernized... I totally agree with u...
I told one person if they would be ok with a black guy ie african american marrying their daughter and they said i was a racist b.... I say u can call me whatever u want at least im not like them alhamdullilah... Pashtun born and pashtun die.. Not confused kafir that pretends to be muslim

[Khostai]

Thank u and some1 called me racist yesterday...
Atleast there are some ppl here in this forum that are not completely westernized... I totally agree with u...
I told one person if they would be ok with a black guy ie african american marrying their daughter and they said i was a racist b.... I say u can call me whatever u want at least im not like them alhamdullilah... Pashtun born and pashtun die.. Not confused kafir that pretends to be muslim

but you say you are a muslim, so if a black african muslim wants to marry your doughter you will refuse becuase you don't like black peopel, thats haram becuase you are being racist, and thats against Islam.
So who is so called kafir that pretends to be a muslim?, only you.

[Pisho]

but you say you are a muslim, so if a black african muslim wants to marry your doughter you will refuse becuase you don't like black peopel, thats haram becuase you are being racist, and thats against Islam.
So who is so called kafir that pretends to be a muslim?, only you.

Look at the post and hem comment i said african american i never said a muslim african.. Even if its a muslim african i still could not accept it.. Because i was thought that pashtuns must marry pashtuns so i wanna keep it that way.. If its a pashtun that lived in africa and is dark as the deepest black color i wouldnt mind.. As it was said before i was a pashtun first then everything else
Thats my opinion and the black guy i meant was christian i even said a black american who is christian and they said they have no problem check in the sikh vs punjabi matriage thread then make a comment

[abayd]

look, all tribal people care about their lineage. It's what makes them a tribe. It's not racism or hatred, just a love for upholding the values of honour and chivalry in the particular way each kind of people has maintained for centuries or millennia.
If they marry their daughter to someone who doesn't have the same collective experience and upbringing, then it all ends there and doesn't continue to the next generation.
There's nothing wrong if someone chooses to accept someone from outside either, no shame in that as long as he's Muslim, but this attitude of trying to force people to accept or look down on those who want to continue their legacy I don't agree with.
I say this and I'm not even from your tribes, but I understand and respect it.

[Akramzai]

that was pashto not arabic.

Its in Arabic alphabet, if you write pashto in the alphabet i'm using now i will understand...

[Akramzai]

Akramzai, ignore this person---He is the patient of chronic fanaticism with infectious rabies...da kharijai bidaathi dai

I don't even know what he said lol.

[Akramzai]

you didnt answer my question... is your law above that of Gods law? which allows for muslims of different ethnicities 2 marry one another???? nobody here gives a c**p about prehsitoric ideas like you have... and its better you do go back because your really out of place

"O Mankind, we created you from a single pair of a male and a female, and made you in to tribes and nations so that you may know each other (not that you despise each other). Verily, the most honoured of you in the sight of Allah is he who is most righteous of you." (Al-Quran, Chapter 49, Verse 13)

This goes to show that that diversity is a gift and that our differences should be recognized and appreciated. Just because we follow Islam doesn't mean we should give away our women to Somalians or Punjabis does it? This is not racist, in actual fact it's anti racist, I say europe for European, Punjabistan for Punjabis etc. The fact that even though we all come from Adam and eve but yet are so diverse is a miracle and we should appreciate it, you on the oher hand ruin our blood line and heritage.

[Pisho]

was at a wedding
last year it was a guy from pak who doesnt speak pashto and a peshawre girl

the wedding was really awkward
it was a mix of cultures but every1 i mean every1 was feeling weird... mainly cuz there were too many gossiping aunties...
thats why u just should not marry a guy who is non-pashtun cuz it brings too many problems

every1 thought the chick was pregnant.. cuz that would be the only reason her parents let her marry...
and the girls dad is like a big shot politician in afg which called for even more gossip forom aunties
afsos

[Midnight_Sun]

My grandfather, on my mom's side was more of the philosophy of marrying as many women and fathering as many children as possible, (out of wedlock). One of my uncles used to say that half the kids in the neighborhood looked like my grandpa, including the kids of his servants lol. He had 30+ legitimate children, from 2 Pashtun, and one Tajik wife, and a bunch more they weren't allowed to talk about lol.

[IamDZJ]

some mischievous grandpa you had.

[RevolutionThroughReason]

was at a wedding
last year it was a guy from pak who doesnt speak pashto and a peshawre girl

the wedding was really awkward
it was a mix of cultures but every1 i mean every1 was feeling weird... mainly cuz there were too many gossiping aunties...
thats why u just should not marry a guy who is non-pashtun cuz it brings too many problems

every1 thought the chick was pregnant.. cuz that would be the only reason her parents let her marry...
and the girls dad is like a big shot politician in afg which called for even more gossip forom aunties
afsos

the bull****ery of this post is abundantly apparent; let's see Peshawari girl but her dad is a Politician in Afghanistan?

Wow the stupid is strong with this one.

[RevolutionThroughReason]

My grandfather, on my mom's side was more of the philosophy of marrying as many women and fathering as many children as possible, (out of wedlock). One of my uncles used to say that half the kids in the neighborhood looked like my grandpa, including the kids of his servants lol. He had 30+ legitimate children, from 2 Pashtun, and one Tajik wife, and a bunch more they weren't allowed to talk about lol.

Becareful man, there are people on this forum who will accuse your pashtuniyat to be lacking due to foreign upbringing and lacking real direct knowledge of what pashtuns do because according to the self proclaimed "experts"; Pashtuns can only abide by a rigid set of conduct like robots and thus things like extra marital affairs with maids/slave girls would be completely impossible and merely the slander of Western historians to malign Pashtuns.