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  • #76
    Originally posted by Zari View Post
    im not impatient and fine 3 kids b4 23

    This is easy. Your plan should be like this:

    Married at 17.
    Got your first child at 18.
    The second child at 20.
    The third one at 22.

    You got all your children before 23. How a nice idea! No?

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    • #77
      how about you all discuss ....stuff like this with your wives and husbands rather than some uncle jee in a discussion forum??

      I am no bird, and no nest ensnares me.

      non commercial would cost less if he was in charge himself which he plans on doing. right now it's n herat but soon it will be in qanadahar.

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      • #78
        Originally posted by emkhan View Post
        i want to see my 3rd child when i reach my 30
        This discussion is for you, young people. There is no place for me to pop in except to tell you that what you are talking at this age, I used to think the same way at that age. But events take their own courses.

        I got married at the age of 21+.
        I was not prepared to bind my self in marriage but it was my mother's wish and I wanted her to be happy. I am glade I never regretted it. By that time I had finished my University education and landed with a well paid executive job. When I was 30, I had 4 kids. Before I was 55, all my kids finished their education, some established, some were in the process of establishing them selves. Long before I retired all of my kids were married, had children, well established as doctors, engineers and business owners. Now I have grand children in the university and as young as 2 years old. I was free from worries of raising a family in very young age and that kept me healthy and strong, mentally and physically. Now I enjoy my life, and feel pleasure in watching my kids and grand kids flourishing in my youth at 68. No responsibilities and no worries.

        Will any one like to learn from my life experience and also from Tor Khan's life though he is very young to enjoy along with his responsibilites?
        The end of Ignorance, is the beginning of Knowledge.
        Knowledge has no end. It keeps expanding into the infinity.

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        • #79
          Originally posted by Dervaish View Post
          This discussion is for you, young people. There is no place for me to pop in except to tell you that what you are talking at this age, I used to think the same way at that age. But events take their own courses.

          I got married at the age of 21+. I was not prepared to bind my self in marriage but it was my mother's wish and I wanted her to be happy. I am glade I never regretted it. By that time I had finished my University education and landed with a well paid executive job. When I was 30, I had 4 kids. Before I was 55, all my kids finished their education, some established, some were in the process of establishing them selves. Long before I retired all of my kids were married, had children, well established as doctors, engineers and business owners. Now I have grand children in the university and as young as 2 years old. I was free from worries of raising a family in very young age and that kept me healthy and strong, mentally and physically. Now I enjoy my life, and feel pleasure in watching my kids and grand kids flourishing in my youth at 68. No responsibilities and no worries.

          Will any one like to learn from my life experience and also from Tor Khan's life though he is very young to enjoy along with his responsibilites?

          Darvaish Uncle:

          The luck was/is on your side. We can only plan for our lives. Controling of such plan is not always in our hands. There is another controling power. Being a muslim we believe in "QADR" (fate).

          Thus, Rahman Baba says:

          AQAL TSA KRHI BAKHT TRI OGHUARHA RAHMANA
          AQAL MAND DA BAKHTAWARU GHULAMAAN DI

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          • #80
            I would early 20s will be nice
            You will have more enegy in that age lol

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