Pashtun women meeting Pashtun men and vice-versa.

[Michin Khel]

@wrayun
The misuse of mobile is through out pakistan, pashtuns r no exception. But all the mobile videos you have seen on internet are done in secret, that is the difference. We have a society which dont allow these kind of activities in open, while the case of west is different.
There are many pashtuns who are keeping illegal relationships with pashtun girls, but if reaveled, the minimum threat is death. Two months ago a guy was butchered in the house in our village when he was meeting a girl of that family at night, the girl was also shot. and as a pashtun you should be aware that law is deaf in Kp when you do honour killing, no would capture u. So sexual hala gula is not gupshup in our kp.

[laevanay]

and how do you know their decent and respectful? how sure are you that they wont be looking in you face and thinking about having sex with you at the same time, how sure are you that they wont be checking out ur figure?

'Serious things' Serious things like what? dont be stupid

I agree with you Manzareh, when I go to Haj and "mingle" with all these women sex is all I can think about....

There is a difference between an animal and a human.... you are under the assumption(weak assumption) that if men and women meet in a public place that is all they think about. Sorry to dissapoint you and your twisted religious interpretation of complete segregation(mind you during the days of our Holy Prophet(PBUH) women used to pray in the same mosque in the same room: no segregation, except women prayed behing men behind the imam), civilised society has shown that respect can be present when such meetings occur.

After all, if I am to represent myself respectable, I would take care not to harm my family name, my village name and the people I represent along with the religion I follow..... Just my thought..... feel free to disagree but I am a respectable human and would believe all others deserve respect regardless of who they are... unless proven otherwise....

[Michin Khel]

Don't hesitate, ask more questions! More about Afg/Pak, Islam. Anything about NY. From your posts I know you have much more questions.

do pashtuns in NY keep boyfriend/girlfriend relationships?

[KingKhan]

do pashtuns in NY keep boyfriend/girlfriend relationships?

Well, all I can say is that some do, some don't. But the majority do NOT. For the ones that do, it's mostly a Pashtun with another race (in my observation, mostly white girls ). Also, for the ones that do, keep it secret.

Girls go crazy for Pashtun guys here. The guys don't have to do anything. The girls approach them. I am lucky for being raised right, and attend a Pakistani Madrassa. So anytime I would talk to an attractive girl that did not have nothing to do with work/School, my imam face would appear.

[Alchemist]

Maybe we should have a www.malepashtunforums and www.femalepashtunforums....
or maybe you should all get married and have your own families to worry about and stop worrying about others.

[kakargirl]

Why dont you just grow yourself a beard, wear that Arab skirt and be a good dedicated Muslim. What other women do weather they are Pashtun or not, is not your business. If you raise your sister or daughter with respect then they will be respectible, trying to enforce Pagan Arab rituals such as Burqas will not make your females holy saint like individuals who committ no sin.

Plus, just like Kakargirl who is obcessed with white skin and looking Nordic, thinks that women who are covered from head to toe means they are morally better than others,which is a flawed idea, If a women is mature and wants to find a partner then whats the problem in that?

It just makes me laugh, its like a amazonian tribesmen trying to ask somebody from the West to conver to their Religion, Burqas are seen the exact same way, its for insecure women who have zero confidence and live a life of paranoa.

Plus Burqa has no place in Pashtun Society! Why should we follow Arab Pagan Rituals?

I guess Mazerah like typical Pakistanis in the West, really get nervous when they see Pashtun men and women co-operating peacefully.

I dont see him, complaining about his Punjabi brothers chasing after "Soni Kuris" in those Sportcars, or his Pakistani Brothers raping white women with their 3000 cousins committing daily rape(google jack straw and Pakistani men).

I think its a wonderful idea for both Pashtun men and women to meet up and discuss the problems that Pashtuns face, If Followers of Taliban/Mullahism, oppose such things, then please keep it yourself, times are changing and this gender taboo will be over one day in the Pashtun region.

saluddin get a life you tell alot of lies im not obsessed with nothing but the females that are dark in reality then put up white women avatars i think they should be asked why are they are so obssessed with white skin and coloured eyes ,and theres nothing wrong with being covered,and i dont think all women are angel far from it , my thoughts i think women can be very evil ,even if a woman is covered ,can be someone really bad so dont speak for me next time thank you and i agree with manzareh on what ever he says hes a real pashtun with pashtun thoughts.

[kakargirl]

If they Ignore a post, then theyl ignore the thread aswel lol, i dont want to make a thread as its a waste of time. are u amazed by how lets just say 'extremely liberal' these people are in Canada and America too??, thank god i didnt end up there.

im more than amazed and shocked , taubah

[Feroza_Banu]

im more than amazed and shocked , taubah

what is shocking and amazing sweety? I am confused... you are someone in a western country too, I am not sure how you are Ok with someone generalizing pashtoons of the west to be out of their cultural and religious limits.... does that mean you are out of your cultural and religious limits too? because the person generalizing is pretty much pointing fingers at everyone... or are you special?

i don't mean to offend yu with my post... and i have a very high respect for your life style because you choose to live the way you want to, but i am not sure that gives you the right to be shocked or amazed or let alone label other females here with being out of their limits. I am sure you dont know anyone here personally... right?

[Laila]

I am sorta lost

did a girl here actually meet up with a guy? Or the other way around? or is it because Feroza and I posted in that other thread and about meeting up for shopping in Fremont?


Feroza, i am down! I am not available to drive up to the Bay this month....so yeah.
Btw, who is Fatima?
ohhh and we would have to let Roshina and Zayam know in advance. Roshina lives across the nation, lol bechara.

[Feroza_Banu]

I am sorta lost

did a girl here actually meet up with a guy? Or the other way around? or is it because Feroza and I posted in that other thread and about meeting up for shopping in Fremont?


Feroza, i am down! I am not available to drive up to the Bay this month....so yeah.
Btw, who is Fatima?
ohhh and we would have to let Roshina and Zayam know in advance. Roshina lives across the nation, lol bechara.

No one has met any guy here haha... and i don't know how that becomes any concern of anyone else...

Fatima is my friend... she is a member here ... lives around your area ... and very sweet girl...

we will try to organize something after the finals... more like at the end of May/beginning of June?... depending on everyone's availability?

[Laila]

No one has met any guy here haha... and i don't know how that becomes any concern of anyone else...

Fatima is my friend... she is a member here ... lives around your area ... and very sweet girl...

we will try to organize something after the finals... more like at the end of May/beginning of June?... depending on everyone's availability?

Ooooohhh Fatimah! In that other forum i got worried because she knew what city i lived...i was like i dont know you lol. Yeah she said if the girls were meeting up, she wanted to tag along.

After Finals is perfect! Perfect weather to hang out in Bay too.....ohhhhh we should all go to San Francisco together!!!! what do you think?

[kakargirl]

what is shocking and amazing sweety? I am confused... you are someone in a western country too, I am not sure how you are Ok with someone generalizing pashtoons of the west to be out of their cultural and religious limits.... does that mean you are out of your cultural and religious limits too? because the person generalizing is pretty much pointing fingers at everyone... or are you special?

i don't mean to offend yu with my post... and i have a very high respect for your life style because you choose to live the way you want to, but i am not sure that gives you the right to be shocked or amazed or let alone label other females here with being out of their limits. I am sure you dont know anyone here personally... right?

feroza khorai iv got nothing against you and im not going to change my mind or anything im going off pf for a while to sort my stuff i really dont care if you point a tghhousand fingers i agree with manzareh after im gone khorai you can say what you want but i have nothing against you bt pashtun culture dosnt allow hooking up with other men and like on one thread admin wror said he saw his female cousin and got shy and did not talk to her well thats our people if i see my male cousin i will put my head down and not talk to him face to face its just not done we have divission in the house even males separate females separate thats who we are , so feroza khor i am what i am now im going you wont have to read my posts for a while as iv seen on here your a big gang of women on one side and me the backward pashtun girl on one side so as you can see your mjority on here im minority,any way so sorry if you dont like my posts you can ask the mods to remove them but this is who i am and will always be a back ward stoned pashtun bye until i sort things out and come back .

[Feroza_Banu]

^Laila: yes the one and only Fatima!...

yep June would be the best time to meet up in the bay... Fresco sounds awesome... I know this turkish restaurant that sells awesome food... or we can do a little more research and find activities for the whole day...

i have some in mind...

1. going to alcatraz
2. walking on the peer (from 1 to 39) (saturday would be best for this)
3. Museum
4. Market St for shopping stores.
5. Have Dinner.
6. Movies at Matreon.

[Laila]

^Ohhhhhh its an event then!

Okay we should do it the last weekend of May...its a three day weekend. That will be helpful for Zayam and hopefully for Roshina too.

What we can do is meet up in Fremont, carpool in two cars to Cal Trans, then arrive in San Francisco. That way we are all together and no one will be lost. Because i am not used to driving in SF and i think you will be the only one lol....and it will be hard to find parking.

[shisha]

feroza khorai iv got nothing against you and im not going to change my mind or anything im going off pf for a while to sort my stuff i really dont care if you point a tghhousand fingers i agree with manzareh after im gone khorai you can say what you want but i have nothing against you bt pashtun culture dosnt allow hooking up with other men and like on one thread admin wror said he saw his female cousin and got shy and did not talk to her well thats our people if i see my male cousin i will put my head down and not talk to him face to face its just not done we have divission in the house even males separate females separate thats who we are , so feroza khor i am what i am now im going you wont have to read my posts for a while as iv seen on here your a big gang of women on one side and me the backward pashtun girl on one side so as you can see your mjority on here im minority,any way so sorry if you dont like my posts you can ask the mods to remove them but this is who i am and will always be a back ward stoned pashtun bye until i sort things out and come back .

i agree with you khori