"Nikah” After “Rukhsati"

[almostkhan]

aslmkm Wr wb.

May Allah guide us all inshalah. I am not pukhtun. i am of mixed asian ancestoy ( arab and other) . I had been engaged to a pushtun. thereafter..his parents got him engaged to a pathany , which he discovered two weeks before his wedding . he married her and said he still wants to may me as well, i did not agree for the very reason that they did not respect me enough to accept me alone.. or inform me of their intentions .

i dont see anything islamic in this...

how is it islamic to get your daughter married without seeing her future husband. or asking her opinion. removing her from school at a mere age of 15....in order to marry her off?

and how is it islamic to leave your son no choice but to marry someone he does not agree to mary...( using my example, my ex fiance clearly did not want to marry a girl who is not educated- no offence to those who did not get an opportunity to study)

I spent a long time thinking i am not good enough to be the only one...khalas i put my trust in Allah...Allah knows whats good 4 us. But what i do know is,many at times we use taqdeer to cover our bad decision making. Allah has given is choice..and then there is qadr as well.

Let us use our brains as well and follow the true islam..

[IamDZJ]

astaghfarullah, she said brain!

[Afghanistan2010]

aslmkm Wr wb.

May Allah guide us all inshalah. I am not pukhtun. i am of mixed asian ancestoy ( arab and other) . I had been engaged to a pushtun. thereafter..his parents got him engaged to a pathany , which he discovered two weeks before his wedding . he married her and said he still wants to may me as well, i did not agree for the very reason that they did not respect me enough to accept me alone.. or inform me of their intentions .

i dont see anything islamic in this...

how is it islamic to get your daughter married without seeing her future husband. or asking her opinion. removing her from school at a mere age of 15....in order to marry her off?

and how is it islamic to leave your son no choice but to marry someone he does not agree to mary...( using my example, my ex fiance clearly did not want to marry a girl who is not educated- no offence to those who did not get an opportunity to study)

I spent a long time thinking i am not good enough to be the only one...khalas i put my trust in Allah...Allah knows whats good 4 us. But what i do know is,many at times we use taqdeer to cover our bad decision making. Allah has given is choice..and then there is qadr as well.

Let us use our brains as well and follow the true islam..

Agreed upon.

well said-

[Breshna]

aslmkm Wr wb.

May Allah guide us all inshalah. I am not pukhtun. i am of mixed asian ancestoy ( arab and other) . I had been engaged to a pushtun. thereafter..his parents got him engaged to a pathany , which he discovered two weeks before his wedding . he married her and said he still wants to may me as well, i did not agree for the very reason that they did not respect me enough to accept me alone.. or inform me of their intentions .

i dont see anything islamic in this...

how is it islamic to get your daughter married without seeing her future husband. or asking her opinion. removing her from school at a mere age of 15....in order to marry her off?

and how is it islamic to leave your son no choice but to marry someone he does not agree to mary...( using my example, my ex fiance clearly did not want to marry a girl who is not educated- no offence to those who did not get an opportunity to study)

I spent a long time thinking i am not good enough to be the only one...khalas i put my trust in Allah...Allah knows whats good 4 us. But what i do know is,many at times we use taqdeer to cover our bad decision making. Allah has given is choice..and then there is qadr as well.

Let us use our brains as well and follow the true islam..

Do you follow......true Islam?

[Hania]

Wawrina khor what is that written in pashto.

[Breshna]

Its basically about homeland being under destruction.

Who's watching

Who's going to write a solution for it.

Who will listen to its complains and pain.


It can refer to any pain small big...in your own life right now..

Or best example the destruction in Afghanistan..Which country is really helping

it...who's ......

listening to the suffering and the....wounded.


Who will look out for it and actually find a

solution for it....so far i can't see nothing.

[Hania]

I was confused about the language. your language is different little.

[Breshna]

Whats your dialect?

[Hania]

I am pashto speaker. za pukhtana yam.

[Breshna]

Sorry if you misunderstood i didn't ask ....what language you speak?.

I asked which Pashto do you speak...which dialect?

Which do find easy to read?

[Hania]

I dont know what is dialect.

[emkhan]

Hania, like I am we are from swat so our accent is different from that of Afghan's.
Like they use "sh" and we use "kh".
and also difference of words.
What is your dialect wawrina khorakay ?

[Breshna]

This is standard Pashto... meaning anyone can understand this.

Is it this one.

[Breshna]

Hania, like I am we are from swat so our accent is different from that of Afghan's.
Like they use "sh" and we use "kh".
and also difference of words.
What is your dialect wawrina khorakay ?

Kheen or sheen?

My dialect is pure sheen.

[Hania]

Aw khor. hom daase da pukhto zamong. taso snga wsye.