Pakistanis/Indians/Arabs (in US) and inferiority complex

[DaZahroJaam.]

But still, with all these fights, educated and mannered Pashtuns/Afghans are the most civilized people on this planet.

you could have told me four years ago and i would have believed you. i don't believe that today at all.
could you give me a definition for civilized?

[EvilPakistani]

Again, another question that should not be asked for sake of being politically correct. This question is only in reference to non-Pashtuns.

I notice that most American-Pakistani (Pakistanis and Indians grouped as one) men have married fair skinned women (a few have married European Americans straight up- non have married an African). There is no way that other people do not notice this.

Now I understand that an individual may have a certain preference, but when it is a pattern across a whole group- then what is the explanation.

Am I right to conclude that this is due to an inferiority complex?

We live in the 21st century, race shouldn't matter when you marry somebody, I know Pakistani men that have married white women, but they've also married Latinas,Arabs,Indians,Filipinas and Chinese women, I don't know any that have married black women, but then again I know Afghans that have married white women and yet none with a black woman, i think it's unfortunately because of the white standard of beauty that has been imposed upon the world because of colonialism and the mainstream media indoctrinating us to believing that 'white is right'.

I don't really think Pakis marry non-Pakis because we have an 'inferiority complex' lmao, probably because in America Whites are the majority and they make the majority of the dating pool, most of black girls tend to be a bit ghettoe(not all), and I don't think a Pakistani mother would accept one, however I wouldn't mind marrying a black girl if she wasn't ghettoe.

PS I've seen many Pakistani girls married to African-American men that reverted to Islam and i've also seen them with Somali men, I guess women care less about appearance then men.

SO i've answered why Pakistani-Americans(I include all Pakis+Pashtuns) tend to date out(mostly to white women) now can you explain why Afghan men marry lightskinned women?

[EvilPakistani]

Give me an example and show me a specific post that suggest Pashtuns suffers from ''inferiority complex''. Pashtuns are one of the few ethnicity who I in all honestly can say that they cannot suffer from these complexes, they are way to proud, religious and independence to do that.

I know a Pashtun girl that always goes around claiming she's originally Jewish because her ancestors were a 'lost Israeli tribe', and I also know many Afghan-Pashtuns that prefer to speak in Dari and act like they don't know Pashto, why do they want to identify with iranians?

[EvilPakistani]

The only time I feel attracted to white girls is when i'm watching porn, cause most of dem pornstars are white lmao, otherwise i'm usually attracted to girls with an olive/caramel skintone and dark hair.

Paki and other Asian men also marry white/hispanic girls for greencards.

[DSM0305]

I know a Pashtun girl that always goes around claiming she's originally Jewish because her ancestors were a 'lost Israeli tribe', and I also know many Afghan-Pashtuns that prefer to speak in Dari and act like they don't know Pashto, why do they want to identify with iranians?

Apparently you don't know what inferiority complex means. Maybe go back to school and learn the term or take your time to read peoples comments. If you haven't noticed I already explained what inferiority complex means.

Identifying with ones ancestor isn't an inferiority complex, it is a simple fact. One can discuss whether it is true, since there is various different claim regarding our ancestors, but that another story.

Since when have Pashtun identified themselves with Iraninas? Maybe you should focus on Kashmiris who speaks Urdu instead of speaking their own language (I honestly don't even know if you guys even have a language of your own, since you keep barking urdu)

[EvilPakistani]

Apparently you don't know what inferiority complex means. Maybe go back to school and learn the term or take your time to read peoples comments. If you haven't noticed I already explained what inferiority complex means.

Identifying with ones ancestor isn't an inferiority complex, it is a simple fact. One can discuss whether it is true, since there is various different claim regarding our ancestors, but that another story.

Since when have Pashtun identified themselves with Iraninas? Maybe you should focus on Kashmiris who speaks Urdu instead of speaking their own language (I honestly don't even know if you guys even have a language of your own, since you keep barking urdu)

I know what it means, most of Afghan-Pashtuns I know prefer to speak Dari instead of Pashto, and I know this Afghan guy that is like a crazy supporter of Iran.

Kashmiris speak Koshur, it's a dardic language like Shina and Kho, however many Kashmiris speak Urdu because we've spread all over the world, we're like the Armenians, btw Kashmiris have contributed a LOT to Urdu, so it's kinda like our language now.

Allama Iqbal,Khwaja Mir Dard,Saadat Hasan Manto,Mir Taqi Mir and many other great Urdu poets and writers were kashmiri
Jang newspaper was founded and is still owned by kashmiris, heck kashmiris even own Geo!

[DSM0305]

I know what it means, most of Afghan-Pashtuns I know prefer to speak Dari instead of Pashto, and I know this Afghan guy that is like a crazy supporter of Iran.

Kashmiris speak Koshur, it's a dardic language like Shina and Kho, however many Kashmiris speak Urdu because we've spread all over the world, we're like the Armenians, btw Kashmiris have contributed a LOT to Urdu, so it's kinda like our language now.

Allama Iqbal,Khwaja Mir Dard,Saadat Hasan Manto,Mir Taqi Mir and many other great Urdu poets and writers were kashmiri

And how many Afghan-Pashtuns do you know? You make it sound like you live in Afghanistan. I never seen any Pasthun speaking Dari over Pashto.

And a Pashtun-Afghan supporting Iran is even less likely and actually directly impossible.

You lie as much as you breath. In the other thread you claimed a hardcore Pakistani ''Taliban'' supporting ANA. And now you claim Pashtuns are supporting Iran. I said it before and I will say it again, if you gonna lie, at least do it believable.

So you do admit that you guys abandon your own language and adapted Urdu... You're making it quite easy for me to make a point.

[EvilPakistani]

And how many Afghan-Pashtuns do you know? You make it sound like you live in Afghanistan. I never seen any Pasthun speaking Dari over Pashto.

And a Pashtun-Afghan supporting Iran is even less likely and actually directly impossible.

You lie as much as you breath. In the other thread you claimed a hardcore Pakistani ''Taliban'' supporting ANA. And now you claim Pashtuns are supporting Iran. I said it before and I will say it again, if you gonna lie, at least do it believable.

So you do admit that you guys abandon your own language and adapted Urdu... You're making it quite easy for me to make a point.

I know quite a few pashtuns, and I said a Pakistani-Pashtun from FATA supported the ANA, right now I'm talk about Afghan-Pashtuns living in America.

No, we never gave up our language, but we have to speak other languages such as Urdu and English because Urdu is the national language and English is a universal language, btw Kashmiris built Urdu into what it is today, without Iqbal,Dard,Manto and Mir there would be no urdu.

[DSM0305]

I know quite a few pashtuns, and I said a Pakistani-Pashtun from FATA supported the ANA, right now I'm talk about Afghan-Pashtuns living in America.

No, we never gave up our language, but we have to speak other languages such as Urdu and English because Urdu is the national language and English is a universal language, btw Kashmiris built Urdu into what it is today, without Iqbal,Dard,Manto and Mir there would be no urdu.

You didn't say a Pakistani-Pashtun from FATA. You literally said a ''hardcore Taliban'' supported ANA. Don't try to lie to me.

Pashtuns have poets in Dari, Urdu, Hindi, English etc. Doesn't mean we ''invented'' the language. I know history of Urdu language and it is older than any Kashmiri Urdu speaker. So before you feed more lies, maybe you should do some research.

Kashmiris who is adapting a foreign language and now bark Urdu, yet speaks about Pashtuns... what a joke. Another thing, stop trying to feed us with lies, it kinda get old.

[EvilPakistani]

You didn't say a Pakistani-Pashtun from FATA. You literally said a ''hardcore Taliban'' supported ANA. Don't try to lie to me.

Pashtuns have poets in Dari, Urdu, Hindi, English etc. Doesn't mean we ''invented'' the language. I know history of Urdu language and it is older than any Kashmiri Urdu speaker. So before you feed more lies, maybe you should do some research.

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Go read my old post about that guy, i mentioned he was from waziristan.

Really?Are there are Pashtun poets in Urdu?

Kashmiris who is adapting a foreign language and now bark Urdu, yet speaks about Pashtuns... what a joke. Another thing, stop trying to feed us with lies, it kinda get ol

Nah we built Urdu, without Kashmiri poets Urdu is nothing, and people still speak Koshur but we're a small nation that's why we have to speak different languages, comparing Pashtuns to Kashmiris would be like comparing Germans to Estonians.

[DSM0305]

Go read my old post about that guy, i mentioned he was from waziristan.

Really?Are there are Pashtun poets in Urdu?




Nah we built Urdu, without Kashmiri poets Urdu is nothing, and people still speak Koshur but we're a small nation that's why we have to speak different languages, comparing Pashtuns to Kashmiris would be like comparing Germans to Estonians.

You just made it quite clear that you're a literally a liar. I can go back and even quote you saying that he is a hardcore Taliban and he even showed you a video where he sliced somebodies throat.

You just showed and proved that you're a pathetic liar and aren't aware of historical facts. People with inferiority complex is in general pathetic.

Go back to your porn videos. You're clearly unable to make a conversation with your IQ and lying nature.

[Loy Afghanistan]

Go read my old post about that guy, i mentioned he was from waziristan.

Really?Are there are Pashtun poets in Urdu?




Nah we built Urdu, without Kashmiri poets Urdu is nothing, and people still speak Koshur but we're a small nation that's why we have to speak different languages, comparing Pashtuns to Kashmiris would be like comparing Germans to Estonians.

URDU comes from muslim turks who conquered you and owned you. Same as when "we" controlled your country, we needed new way to communicated through foreign hindu armies under us, "farsi/dari" was official language in whole Hindustan for centuries before British genocides came and made English official language until TODAY. SO you made URDU? OK Mr hindu. So you have 2 foreign language IDENTITY crises sometimes hits hard.

https://www.google.se/#q=Urdu%20origin

[Karachi]

It's funny when you think about it. I remember once having a laugh over this very sad fair and lovely ad about this girl who overhears her father say he wishes he had a son instead of her. Then she start applying this cream and becomes fair skinned and then all is well. She has redeemed herself. As a joke, I randomly asked this friend of mine if he wishes he was born fair. He is slightly darker than the typical Indian dark guys. And to my surprise, this expression comes over his face.. He didn't say anything and then in this very low tone, he says "it would have surely made life a lot easier". I was so disappointed and angry, I told him if I knew he was the type of person who preferred life easier, I wouldn't have even bothered engaging in a conversation with him. I know his family. They are all well educated people, just as he is. Very open minded and decent family... And then he is like "when I was in India, I would go to a store, ask for help and they would totally ignore me. Then I would ask for their supervisor in English and they would literally piss their pants". It's so easy for us to look down at someone for wishing they were not the color they are. But what do we know of a life time of being discriminated against for what we were born as. I am not saying one should be ashamed of what they are but not to be quick to judge. If they feel that way about themselves, it's because they have had a lifetime of people convincing them of being worth less. Can you imagine that??
O and while we are at it, afghans don't or may not be suffering from inferiority complex because we suffer from the opposite. The superiority complex. We are self deluded and that can be just as destructive to a person or a society if not more. At least in their case, the society commits a crime against them. With us, we commit it against the society. We have a lot more to be ashamed for.

was he north indian???

anyways I have noticed south indians are proud of their color. There is even a pan Dravidian movement in south india. It's only darkskinned north indians who seem to have inferiority complex, I guess because north indians came in contact with a lot of fairskinned people because of all the invasions

[Karachi]

Here is a rare couple. Pakistani man, Nigerian wife and their baby

Mixed Pakistan Nigeria Baby Boy and Sister - YouTube

[Smarty]

Its not about skin tone, the facial features, facial bone structure of africans are not attractive to pakistanis, indians , arabs or any other people with caucosoid facial features. As for as skin tone is concerned, you can have less attractive facial features while having fair skin. Or you can have good facial features with black skin........
It has nothing to do with inferiority complex if eyes of beholder find white women more attractive.