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Unknown what roadrunner hopefully meant was did this happen in High School? I think there are easier than just jumping on the marriage wagon. We live in a society where marriages break up hours after the couples are pronouced husband and wife. And the thing is, it's hitting the Muslim and Afghan communities. It's no longer, well divorce is not around me. And going back to what Admin Khan said-- I think with today's time and age, you really have to get to know the person you're about to get married to. I understand not wanting to talk to anyone that is not your mahram. But at the same time that doesn't mean you don't speak to him at all. What if you guys have nothing in common? What if he or she turns out to be a jerkface. You really need to get to know your spouse. It's not easy to give up and so many people do. I just think it requires a lot more time and effort to make it work. And if that involves me having to get to know my husband than I will. But at the same time, I'm not going to be hanging out with him alone, being intimate with him and all that jazz. I'd want to have a chaperon, so I can be at peace that I'm not committing a sin or starting a relationship- something new and something that Allah wills in sin.
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"Do not lose hope in adversity and complain that God singled you out for punishment, remitting others guilty of worse sins. Your present state could very well be His intent to elevate your spiritual station. Or He could just be testing your faith. Everyday that you persevere, you grow closer to perfection. Thus, your present despair may be the beginning of an infinite blessing". - Shaykh Abdul Qadir Jilani. -
^ poor you, who broke your heart? Life must be hard ad an undercover secret agent.
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^ lol, whatever!!
So, mr secret agent, how does one get a foothold into a career like urs?
How was you recruited? Your life must be so exciting, you must be like James Bond...right?Comment
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^^Ayub, for a sec i read James Blond instead of bond....lolzComment
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^ lol, I can imagine our agent friend as looking pretty much like your avatar pic.Comment
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I think he is here on a special mission... maybe he is here to steal my new nikey shoes....they have rockets in them.Comment
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What do you guys consider as dating?Comment
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I go to the discotheque 3 to 4 times a month hey i like it's good warnings please read for safety
Because no matter what, there will always be a chair leg in the path of your pinky toe. so only If you never take it seriously, then can you never get hurt so enjoy the momments while it last to the fullestLast edited by Espresso; 11-18-2010, 07:35 AM.“Coffee and love are best when they are hot.”
A German proverbComment
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Dating is gradually picking up in india.It is more of a western concept.In the past girls were married of at a very young age and hence no scope for dating.But then came the britishers and gradually child marriage was abolished.Peculiarly society adopted this idea because of education and laws passed but dating was still viewed with skepticism.
imo dating is a good thing.Comment
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Originally posted by Roshina
spot on roshina----------
*You cannot climb the ladder of success with your hands in your pockets*
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Technically its haram for you or me to be talking to the opposite sex on this group.Originally posted by Jasmine----------
*You cannot climb the ladder of success with your hands in your pockets*
Originally posted by KarachiComment
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Originally posted by borgza View Post
i agree with jamal
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borgza: wtf r u talkin about..hahahahahahah..and discotheque..hahahahaha..is that all the rage nowadays..i thought that was somewhere guys and gals went in the 70's..lolz
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someone come on a date with me...ijm hot and im not fussy
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Ayub where do you live? We can go on a dateComment
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