Let's Talk about Dating

[N.E rocker]

someone come on a date with me...ijm hot and im not fussy

^^^^^why so deperate buddy.seems u've been alone a long time:P:P:P

[ayub]

lol jamal...thanks hahahha... yh, london...lets go...

rocker: im 18...so yh your right..its been ages..NOT

[JAMALUDEEN]

I think Rocker is jealous because he doesn't get to date Ayub.

[AfghuN_Diva]

looll
da word datin remindzz me f ma frnd
she went on a date , fnkin da guy wud b jss lyk
she wnted, BUH NOOO!!
it trnd out totally wrong :P

[JAMALUDEEN]

afghan diva please don't spare the details...so what happened on the date that she was so disappointed.

[AfghuN_Diva]

it trnd out 2 b som old man , pedoooo!!
lol she saw hm nd taught it must b hizz dad ,soo she wozz lyk whre iz ur son ??
he wzz lyk itzz mee..

we were standin outside da plce, nd saw hr runnin ouut!!!

[JAMALUDEEN]

Wow -- that must have been quite a shock eh? lolz so i guess they must have met online..

[AfghuN_Diva]

yhh she izz still tryin 2 recover frm iit..
jss jwkiin

yhh online

[IamDZJ]

Are we talking about dating as in going to the movies ,dinners and being intimate with each other or the mutual agreement between two people who stay committed to each other minus the going out or being physically intimate?
I believe on the latter one.

[IamDZJ]

Converting just to marry some one is bs.

[kandahari ella]

DaZahroJaam- It's the latter one. It's not the "dating" that we're exposed to here. Its more of a courting process. The girl has a good explanation of it in her article. So, for the people that are against her idea, how do you want to find your future spouse? Just curious, do you guys want arranged marriages? Or just marrying someone, someone else mentions is a good person? I hope I don't sound mean, I'm not trying to be, I genuinely want to know. =)

[Laila]

Unknown what roadrunner hopefully meant was did this happen in High School? I think there are easier than just jumping on the marriage wagon. We live in a society where marriages break up hours after the couples are pronouced husband and wife. And the thing is, it's hitting the Muslim and Afghan communities. It's no longer, well divorce is not around me. And going back to what Admin Khan said-- I think with today's time and age, you really have to get to know the person you're about to get married to. I understand not wanting to talk to anyone that is not your mahram. But at the same time that doesn't mean you don't speak to him at all. What if you guys have nothing in common? What if he or she turns out to be a jerkface. You really need to get to know your spouse. It's not easy to give up and so many people do. I just think it requires a lot more time and effort to make it work. And if that involves me having to get to know my husband than I will. But at the same time, I'm not going to be hanging out with him alone, being intimate with him and all that jazz. I'd want to have a chaperon, so I can be at peace that I'm not committing a sin or starting a relationship- something new and something that Allah wills in sin.

I think you have said it well