Guys Trying to Pick Me Up From Their Cars?

[Manzareh]

I think it might work out

"yallah habibi when I met your mother at the street corner it was lub at first sight, I gave her the wave and she came to inside my car in slow motion..I still remember that day habibi she still tells me that whenever she hears a car horn it still gives her butterflies.."

YOLO

[UnknownUser]

Yeah...

How old are you?

I have a Pashtun friend, works as cardiologist, young, tall handsome, funny positive guy and pretty well financed working in the emirates...not married yet, but doesnt want wife from Afghanistan, wants someone closer to his level at least in terms education. Most Afghan women have been kept uneducated unfortuntely...

This Guy might be for you...if you fit his criteria...

[Kabulistan]

damn OP come off as someone being super desperate...

more desperate than the desperate guys who try to pick up from their cars which is quite ironic...

[Elite Pakhtun]

damn OP come off as someone being super desperate...

more desperate than the desperate guys who try to pick up from their cars which is quite ironic...

Seriously dude, your behavior is deplorable. I will not comment on whether I think her profile is a troll or not, but if we assume it is not, then there is nothing wrong with her asking the question she asked, and seeking advice.

She has more right to be here, than some indiot calling himself "Kabulistan". At least she's pashtana.

All you do by making remarks like this is discourage those like her in the future, that are genuinely here for good reasons, from seeking legitimate advice.

[DaZahroJaam.]

Seriously dude, your behavior is deplorable. I will not comment on whether I think her profile is a troll or not, but if we assume it is not, then there is nothing wrong with her asking the question she asked, and seeking advice.

She has more right to be here, than some indiot calling himself "Kabulistan". At least she's pashtana.

All you do by making remarks like this is discourage those like her in the future, that are genuinely here for good reasons, from seeking legitimate advice.

I have removed you from my ignore list to remind you that an idiot is an idiot first and everything else, later. You don't encourage, promote or endorse irresponsible and idiotic behaviour, just because the person responsible is a Pashtun or pashtana.

If she was genuinely asking for advice, the advice that was given to her would be accepted by her gracefully. She dismisses what we tell her and ten wonders why she is being treated like a hooker in the streets like a ****ing airhead. Someone needs to talk sense in to her before she is raped and dropped by the side of some road. And some random stranger telling her ye truth over the Internet is whole lot less of a negative experience to go through than the alternative.

Stop acting like an idiot just because you are bored with yourself.

[Elite Pakhtun]

I have removed you from my ignore list to remind you that an idiot is an idiot first and everything else, later. You don't encourage, promote or endorse irresponsible and idiotic behaviour, just because the person responsible is a Pashtun or pashtana.

If she was genuinely asking for advice, the advice that was given to her would be accepted by her gracefully. She dismisses what we tell her and ten wonders why she is being treated like a hooker in the streets like a ****ing airhead. Someone needs to talk sense in to her before she is raped and dropped by the side of some road. And some random stranger telling her ye truth over the Internet is whole lot less of a negative experience to go through than the alternative.

Stop acting like an idiot just because you are bored with yourself.

Oh you had me on your ignore list? I guess there was no public announcement of this

You're all over the place... one moment you're saying her getting advice on the internet (i.e. here) is better than the alternative, and then you're making yet another unprovoked personal insult at me. You do realize that I was saying there is nothing wrong with her seeking advice here (i.e. what you said), right? So explain your logic here... you agree with me, and then you cuss me out? You're pissed that you agree with me?

Look, DZJ... you've been making a lot of unprovoked insults at me. I'm getting a little tired of it. You need to stop. The fact that I'm not responding in kind is not a compliment. Think of it as akin to a skinny pre pubescent kid punching a body builder's leg, and the body builder not hitting the kid back, making the kid think he's some super tough person. Stop forcing my hand... everyone has a tipping point. At some point the bodybuilder will do something to the pre pubescent.

[DaZahroJaam.]

Its not about what you say to her but what you said to the person who told her what she was doing was wrong and the manner by which you went about doing that.
And unprovoked?? What have I told you about assuming I am not offended by the **** that you do around here?? Have or have I not told you that I get to decide when I am pissed off, not you.
And you are getting a little tired of being insulted?? Yeah?? Do you know who you are talking to??

[Firdousi]

Oh you had me on your ignore list? I guess there was no public announcement of this

You're all over the place... one moment you're saying her getting advice on the internet (i.e. here) is better than the alternative, and then you're making yet another unprovoked personal insult at me. You do realize that I was saying there is nothing wrong with her seeking advice here (i.e. what you said), right? So explain your logic here... you agree with me, and then you cuss me out? You're pissed that you agree with me?

Look, DZJ... you've been making a lot of unprovoked insults at me. I'm getting a little tired of it. You need to stop. The fact that I'm not responding in kind is not a compliment. Think of it as akin to a skinny pre pubescent kid punching a body builder's leg, and the body builder not hitting the kid back, making the kid think he's some super tough person. Stop forcing my hand... everyone has a tipping point. At some point the bodybuilder will do something to the pre pubescent.

Please, don't lose your cool. DZJ has some deep mental issues. Dont be angry at her.

[Kabulistan]

Seriously dude, your behavior is deplorable. I will not comment on whether I think her profile is a troll or not, but if we assume it is not, then there is nothing wrong with her asking the question she asked, and seeking advice.

She has more right to be here, than some indiot calling himself "Kabulistan". At least she's pashtana.

All you do by making remarks like this is discourage those like her in the future, that are genuinely here for good reasons, from seeking legitimate advice.

Its One thing asking for advice...which I promote people doing...but what my comment was the impression I get from Op...and what I said can be considered an advice as well.....the advice is: Dont be desperate...specially not when looking for a potential husband/wife....what I am saying is I wouldnt advice a woman to Go get inside the car of some desperate stranger, unless she is One of these cheap/desperate women herself...

Btw...I might have had a granddad whos granddads grandad was from Afghanistan...

[Elite Pakhtun]

Its One thing asking for advice...which I promote people doing...but what my comment was the impression I get from Op...and what I said can be considered an advice as well.....the advice is: Dont be desperate...specially not when looking for a potential husband/wife....what I am saying is I wouldnt advice a woman to Go get inside the car of some desperate stranger, unless she is One of these cheap/desperate women herself...

Btw...I might have had a granddad whos granddads grandad was from Afghanistan...

That's not what she asked, nor was it what anyone said. What me and Manzareh are saying is that, because she's obviously interested, she should throw him a bone. Not jump in his car and "have fun", but more like if he's persisting and asking for her number, she might as well give it and see what happens. Life is short, and if she's interested, she'll probably figure out what she needs to figure out. Her concern was that if she throws him a bone, he'll just think she's some trashy call girl.

You, on the other hand made a ridiculous post that was only likely to discourage future users from asking these questions. What you did will just reduce the amount of active users here. Why would we discourage new people from participating?