hi.... a question I have about a girl

[life1234]

Before this thread derails I might aswell explain.

Basically I fallen for this Afg girl, and I think she liked me aswell, but I'm from Pakistan, I'm not Pashtun but punjabi, anyways putting race aside I have a pashtun friend who I told, and how told me that

'If her family are religious, just forget it, nothing against you bro, but they'll probably hate punjabis''

''If shes good looking her family won't let her go for you (lol)''

What he told me was that perhap I should give up on her, her family and relatives will never accept, it'll never work for us, and she's mostly going to have to marry a Pashtun in the future etc. If you're wondering what kind of girl she is, she's not that loud mouth obnixious types that I see many of, she's shy I guess. he told me just forget it and carry on with life, perhaps try sticking with girls my own race, what do you think guys? btw don't make this an AFG VS PAK thing, it's honest opinion, shall I just let her be and forget her. i will respect all honest opinions, i don't wanna do bad on her part either because of me.


btw not saying that my family wouldn't mind if I marry another ethnic girl, they will, but by the way my friend worded it, it'll be whole heartedly worse for her.

[marwat]

i think your friend gave you a honest opinion, i would give you the same.
what kind of girl family is ? are they recently urbanized?

[life1234]

i think your friend gave you a honest opinion, i would give you the same.
what kind of girl family is ? are they recently urbanized?

she was born in afg, regarding her parents, i don't think there urban either,i know like a few of her relatives and there still pretty cultural.

[Adam]

There will probably be some stigma that prevents her from marrying you, but you never know her family might be fine with it.

[life1234]

There will probably be some stigma that prevents her from marrying you, but you never know her family might be fine with it.

thanks bro, but I'm pretty sure her family are pretty cultural Pashtuns, don't you guys mind if a girl did go with a Punjabi, I thought you guys disliked Pakistan and the army etc.

[Khostai]

IS the girl even in love with you? Have you asked her? Or are you one of this typical porki creeps that stares from a far. I would find it hard to belive that she also has feelings for you, knowing how an average punjbaboon looks like and what kind of beghairat character you people have :P

[DaZahroJaam.]

if you are younger than 25, know that there is no possible thing as love prior to that age that could be fallen in to. a couple of years later, you will look back and ask yourself, what the **** was i thinking.
if you are older than that and do know that he parents are cultural, let it go. would you like it if you loved someone and then you became the cause of their misery?? her family would not even bother with understanding it.

there are people who lead their lives according to their own wills rather than others and such people are successful with goals like this too but they don't go around, asking others for advice regarding their own lives. they just do what they need to do and call it a day. and that is perfectly all right because you don't have to be what you are not.
what lovers feel for each other can easily be the least evolved form affection that there can be out there. watch or read shehr e zaat or ajaib khana.

[life1234]

IS the girl even in love with you? Have you asked her? Or are you one of this typical porki creeps that stares from a far. I would find it hard to belive that she also has feelings for you, knowing how an average punjbaboon looks like and what kind of beghairat character you people have :P

hahahahaha so funny, but for real her friend told me she liked me, and she kinda told me herself, there some other stuff do thats too long to explain

if you are younger than 25, know that there is no possible thing as love prior to that age that could be fallen in to. a couple of years later, you will look back and ask yourself, what the **** was i thinking.
if you are older than that and do know that he parents are cultural, let it go. would you like it if you loved someone and then you became the cause of their misery?? her family would not even bother with understanding it.

there are people who lead their lives according to their own wills rather than others and such people are successful with goals like this too but they don't go around, asking others for advice regarding their own lives. they just do what they need to do and call it a day. and that is perfectly all right because you don't have to be what you are not.
what lovers feel for each other can easily be the least evolved form affection that there can be out there. watch or read shehr e zaat or ajaib khana.

thanks bro, i think you're right, most valuable post i guess, i might aswell forget her, i dont wanna ruin some girls rep or her families, we're both still teens, so i'm probably still dumb but she is the definition of 'pashtun beauty', so she's probably going to get married off to a better person then me, but i guess it's time to let her be, sigh, but in all honestly i do know that it'd probably never work out.

im giving up on love and going to focus on life, though i will say she is probably my first love , but for now f**k love, i guess it time to get my path back to just doing good in school and then going home, live a plain life.

[marwat]

thanks bro, but I'm pretty sure her family are pretty cultural Pashtuns, don't you guys mind if a girl did go with a Punjabi, I thought you guys disliked Pakistan and the army etc.

friend this is certain the politics encircling pakistan and Afghanistan would influence any love relationship. if they are cultural , it is better you leave her in the better interest of your future.

[Samandri]

Punjabay, it is not Shaadi.com and we are not marriage counsel or love gurus.

[ANAcommander]

Punjabay, it is not Shaadi.com and we are not marriage counsel or love gurus.

You can always give your advice patanay.

[Samandri]

You can always give your advice patanay.

Khray-kus, I am not a love-guru or dalal neither i am his plaar. Help him, give the contact number of your sister to this horny punjabay of your qaum

[Manzareh]

Just pray she doesnt have any cousins like me.

[tilla_jogian]

If you are serious and not trolling then give some money to girl parents and they will not even think twice. But if you are thinking about normal marriage without having to pay for her then I don't know if it will work. In that case running away is only option, but paying for her is best option out of the two. Happy ending

[tilla_jogian]

Just pray she doesnt have any cousins like me.

It just mean he will have to pay you as well.