Marrying across the line.

[Michin Khel]

^^that would have happen if it was any other guy running away with another Pashtun family's girl.

such harsh punishments like the above case are reality. I remember the jirga of our village put permenant ban on entry of wazirs, when a wazir killed two brothers of our village.

[BLS_1919v2.0]

I didn't say it wasn't a reality..Pashtuns do it all the time for even slighter things. It just isn't based on set group rather a principle for any Pashtun family. If even the same clan members did it or villagers the outcome would be just as harsh.

[Zari]

^zari agrees

[Michin Khel]

I didn't say it wasn't a reality..Pashtuns do it all the time for even slighter things. It just isn't based on set group rather a principle for any Pashtun family. If even the same clan members did it or villagers the outcome would be just as harsh.

There are many murderers in my villages walking freely but wazirs got punishment because they were 'hamsayas' still they commited murder. There are few afghan and jat families in our village, they are supposed to have subdued lives, otherwise they would recieve collective punishment like wazirs.
If a boy is found to have affair with a girl in our area. Then brothers of girl try to kill both boy and girl..some times family of boy give protection to girl..in that case bloody fued starts.

[BLS_1919v2.0]

Yeh these feuds happen quite a lot. A good family friend died because of one a year or so ago. Very tragic.

[Michin Khel]

lol so you people gave your woman to hindkowans. Shame.

[Laila]

^ because she is beautiful, she can cook and you love her. And her dad is rich. What more reason you want.

LOL Khash, what does her dad have to do with it? The male is the one who pays for everything

[کیش]

lol so you people gave your woman to hindkowans. Shame.

Father was a Pashtun, Mom was a Hindkwo. My uncle speaks Pashto and Urdu equally.

What's wrong with that? A Hindkwo is our fellow Muslims, who also live on Pashtun land.

My maternal great grandma was an Uzbek, so what.

[Michin Khel]

Father was a Pashtun, Mom was a Hindkwo. My uncle speaks Pashto and Urdu equally.

What's wrong with that? A Hindkwo is our fellow Muslims, who also live on Pashtun land.

My maternal great grandma was an Uzbek, so what.

Punjabis are also your fellow muslims. I agree nothing wrong with that.
Tell me in which area of KP you are interested for marraige?

[کیش]

Punjabis are also your fellow muslims. I agree nothing wrong with that.
Tell me in which area of KP you are interested for marraige?

When I was 18, my dad was going to marry me off to a Pashtuna from Swat, but my mom said I was to young at the time.

I'm 24 know, and I don't know, maybe one from Peshawer. All have to visit KP (which I might this summer)


Or Lakki Marwat

[graveyardofempires]

When I was 18, my dad was going to marry me off to a Pashtuna from Swat, but my mom said I was to young at the time.

I'm 24 know, and I don't know, maybe one from Peshawer. All have to visit KP (which I might this summer)


Or Lakki Marwat

they will ask you for jehez.

[کیش]

You missed out, BIG TIME

I know am kicking myself till this day , she was very cute.


I belief my dad said she married an older man from Swat, and moved their.


GOE
No problem

[Laila]

^ Awww poor you.

Try to visit Swat, or ask your mother around for Swati families.

[Michin Khel]

When I was 18, my dad was going to marry me off to a Pashtuna from Swat, but my mom said I was to young at the time.

I'm 24 know, and I don't know, maybe one from Peshawer. All have to visit KP (which I might this summer)


Or Lakki Marwat

If you are wealthy and pashto speaking then you have chances every where.
Afghans dont visit their daughter in again in life after giving her in marraige but people of Lakki marwat and south KP are different, they wont give you their daughter easily if you are a permenant citizen of west.
Also we dont sell our girls.

[Michin Khel]

they will ask you for jehez.

jahez is perhaps present in you afghans. There is no concept of jahez in kp.