Relationships before marriage

[AfghanSoulja]

Khaney momin, I know what you guys are saying and I'm pretty sure everybody who does get into relationships knows that.. But what your talking about, that's not what most of the people do in real life and I think you know that too

The way I see it, everyone screws up at one point or another

[Max]

relationship talk is depressinngggg

[Master Khan]

relationship talk is depressinngggg

waley?

[Laila]

relationship talk is depressinngggg

Awww she must have really hurt you....here have a cookie

[MeemWawMeemNoon]

Khaney momin, I know what you guys are saying and I'm pretty sure everybody who does get into relationships knows that.. But what your talking about, that's not what most of the people do in real life and I think you know that too

The way I see it, everyone screws up at one point or another

We can't generalize either case.

All I am saying is what path to take--this is what is taught by Islam.

[Max]

Awww she must have really hurt you....here have a cookie

lol awww thats so nice of ya now you are my new favorite person since someone didnt deliver any biryani as they were supposed too

[Laila]

lol awww thats so nice of ya now you are my new favorite person since someone didnt deliver any biryani as they were supposed too

YAY! i am someone's new best friend

[Palwasha]

Khaney momin, I know what you guys are saying and I'm pretty sure everybody who does get into relationships knows that.. But what your talking about, that's not what most of the people do in real life and I think you know that too

These days everyone's looking for love, one way or another. I think the influenece of songs, films and T.V. and even books, play a strong role in fixating it in peoples' minds. I'm not saying cut yourself off entirely, but they do influence a person mind without one realising.

There's also the common excuse of the 'intention to marry'.

The way I see it, everyone screws up at one point or another

Oh yeah definitely, everyone makes mistakes, it's more or less unavoidable. It's the wise ones who learn from thier mistakes, as well as other peoples'.

[AfghanSoulja]

We can't generalize either case.

All I am saying is what path to take--this is what is taught by Islam.

How many of us 'modern' Muslims do you think are gonna end up in Jannah.. We'd be lucky to have our name mentioned even for hell

[Max]

Awww she must have really hurt you....here have a cookie

YAY! i am someone's new best friend

[MeemWawMeemNoon]

How many of us 'modern' Muslims do you think are gonna end up in Jannah.. We'd be lucky to have our name mentioned even for hell

I don't understand what this has to do with the flow of the conversation. Could you kindly elaborate.

[AfghanSoulja]

@ Khaney everyone is always lookig for something, if it isn't love it's something else.. If they have everything else it will be love..us humans are like that no matter how much God gives it's never enough. TV and all have played a role for those who care about such things, and there are lots who do.. But u get te occassional confused oddball like me mow and then

As for mistakes, some are able to learn from but for some learning just Isnt enough, learning doesn't mean they won't haunt you anymore

[Master Khan]

As long you stick with one girl and love her forever then you would be fine.

[AfghanSoulja]

I don't understand what this has to do with the flow of the conversation. Could you kindly elaborate.

U said we should live by the book .. I said no one lives by the book

[Palwasha]

How many of us 'modern' Muslims do you think are gonna end up in Jannah..

'Modern' Muslims, there's no such thing. =P

@ Khaney everyone is always lookig for something, if it isn't love it's something else.. If they have everything else it will be love..us humans are like that no matter how much God gives it's never enough. TV and all have played a role for those who care about such things, and there are lots who do.. But u get te occassional confused oddball like me mow and then

People are forever looking and searching when their hearts aren't satisfied. Without faith (and God), they'll never be at peace. When one discovers the path of Allah, only then will their heart be filled with content.

One of my best friend (an English girl), once said to me how she wished she was at peace like how I was, and that she hopes she discovers it one day - that really shocked me, no matter how high flying their lives are, there's always something missing. I told her to look into religion, but at such an age they're not so bothered, it's when their life gets serious that religion becomes an interest. (Anyhow, I think I'm dfriting.)

And bro you're not an oddball.

As for mistakes, some are able to learn from but for some learning just Isnt enough, learning doesn't mean they won't haunt you anymore

Mistakes won't haunt you, if one repents and turns to Allah, then you have nothing to worry about.