wisdom of the elders on PF

[sahil112]

nokia wrora wu balaa :P

on serious note my manager saw him today and said he is not some one we can do business with becouse he has no business ethics so we have given him a week to pay up and after that collection agency.

[Pakhtunzai]

Don't take tension, give tension. You are in the UK/West, there is rarely ever a need to fight. I know it's hard for us Pukhtoons to control over temper and rage, but you have to weigh the benefits vs the damage. If you had done something, you could have lost your job, and that person could have sued you for damages. One dog, a barking one at that, would have caused you everything you had worked so hard for. You have invested time and energy in who you have become, that is not worth a dog, at least a dog that barks but doesn't bite. Be in control, it is sign of strength.

The only time you get physical, is when someone else gets physical with you. In that case, do your worse. That is an opportunity you can't let go, let it all out, everything you have built within. Wait for the first blow, after that be savage! As my father would say "bache, balay pase ghum, kho che bala de na preg de, no pa ghara ye ka!" "son, forget about the monster, but if the monster won't leave you, then go hug it!".

Oh my god man, I follow the second paragraph too..back in my school days this is what I went by. You bring up very valid points. Your my hero

Sahil jaanaa I hope everything is alright now bro