Pashtuns marrying non Pashtuns

[Admin Khan]

tor-khan, if you're a girl. I have eligible cousins in London. =) But I think you're a boy. So no luck there huh? Actually, I know a few girls in London.

Make sure his wife doesn't read that.

[kandahari ella]

Make sure his wife doesn't read that.

Haha. Then I take everything back. I thought he was single. =)

[Abdali]

There is obviously a problem mate. Our culture wouldn't exist anymore.

[Manzareh]

tor-khan, if you're a girl. I have eligible cousins in London. =) But I think you're a boy. So no luck there huh? Actually, I know a few girls in London.

you need to hook a brother up! lol

[Laila]

I dont have a problem with marrying a non-Pashtun. But then, I prefer a Pashtun spouse since most likely language and culture is not risked......that is very important to me. Since i didnt speak Pashto as a first language, i prefer someone who does.

My Kandahari grandfather (pashto speaking) married a Dari speaking Laghmani woman. Now the problem was, even though they lived in Kandahar, Laghman, and Kabul back and forth, my grandmother made my father's family first Dari speakers. But they still lived Pashtun lifestyle. Though my father's family speaks both Dari and Pashto...... But then, i guess its not such a bad idea, since both languages *were* and *are* appreciated.

My mother is Dari speaking Sayyid, so she has no affiliations with an Afghan ethnicity. So my father married a non-Pashtun. Though, preferably, a Pashtun was a first choice for my father. But since he proposed to my mom, another story.

[Nokia_Apridy]

da title ba awal Kanzala wa...

Wos khu laka ...........hes parwa nashta...

[Fahd]

hummm not a big case
but better to mary pashtun


but there are gona be alot of prob if u had children from non pashtun because they gona be hated by other
or not be loved like others
lolz i think u pplknow what i mean

[Orzala]

It is so vital to maintain our uniqueness and equally important to continue our beautiful genetic form and essentially marry a Pashtun before seeking anyone else. It's a sad sight to see a Pashtun marry a non-Pashtun. Thankfully, none of my family members (even the distant ones) have married non-Pashtuns except one! She's so distantly related that she's practically unrelated. Anyway, she married a Palestinian. But the rest of my very large family have or intend to marry only Pashtuns.

I find it incredibly insulting when a Pashtun marries a Pakistani/Indian. They are the ugliest things on Earth and Pashtuns, knowing how beautiful Pashtuns are, why would you want to marry ugly ducklings? It's mind-boggling and especially irritating because you know that Pakistanis/Indians only want to marry you because you're Pashtun. They are leeches, to put it simply.

A Pashtun friend of mine married a Punjabi guy and her children now speaks Punjabi and the last time I met her, she was speaking more Urdu and less Pashto.Also,her kids knew only few words of Pashto.I definitely do not hate her for this since that was her personal decision.

A Punjabi, out of everyone else, she chose a Punjabi?! You might not hate her, but I certainly do.

[Orzala]

What about Tajiks? Are they not ulgist thing you have seen as well?

They're not the ugliest but they're not beautiful either.

Plus under your Loy Afghanistan, would you prohibit marriages with Punjabis but allow Marriages with Mongol Turk Tajiks?

No, I would allow no such thing. Any intermingling is prohibited.

I could say the same, she choose a Palestinian, out of everyone else she chooses a Palestinian, be careful her children may turn into Sucide bombers lol.

I know, right. Tell me about it, I was equally angered but there was nothing I could do about it. Firstly, I don't know her and secondly I've never spoken to her. If there was any relationship between us, I can gladly say I have disolved it. I try my best to stop Pashtuns from marrying non-Pashtuns whether that be Tajiks, Hazaras etc and even Pakistanis/Indians.

Dude if your a Nationalist, you would not support any inter-marriages and you would certainly not ignore the problems that Pashtuns suffer including the dominance of Dari due to the sell out Afghan kings and Rulers.

I'm not making any ethnic minorities in Afghanistan an exception. It is our hospitality to welcome guests with warm tea and friendly gestures but sadly these guests have stayed for too long, it would be rude of us to shove them out.

[Feroza_Banu]

this website is full of lunatics hahahahahaha... i swear i have not seen such bunch of loosers in my life!

some of you don't even deserve to be called human!

[Dreamer]

what can one say.... plenty of backwards arnd here

[Dreamer]

I would marry a non pashtun woman and pashtunize her and have pasthun kids with her.

I guess it needs guts...

no such thing as pashtunizing.... marry the best person... ethnicity is of little relevance

[Feroza_Banu]

da khro sara za guzara kawalai sam, ama dasai so called educated khalko sara na che zan ta insaan boli aw da khro na ham be aqla dei.

dalta zeni khalak da haiwanaano na ham bad tar dei, da kum zhobann(zoo) na takhtaidali dei... da dasai taleem tsa faida chei taso tarbia na larai....

pashtoon this pashtoon that, this empty pride, this is laughable, the last time i checked, we pashtoons have nothing other than our history, and our history was a direct result of our forefathers, who are gone, they are dead, they proved themselves on individual bases, what have WE done to be so proud?

zan na awal insaan jorr ka, bia pashtoon!

der da afsoos khabara da... der za afsoos kawam che da pashtano dasai haal goram.

i can't believe these comments i read here... "pakistanis are the uglies, indians are the ugliest people on earth, they are leeches, they are low"... bia bal ye wayee "tajiks are ugliest, turkic r this or that" der da afsoos khabara da... ka da kum besawad sarrai mata wowayee zrra me na khogigi ama delta da khabari so called taleem yafta khalak liki!

oh wait i forgot, the most educated people on earth have committed the most horrifying race based crimes all around the world... welcome to the world of the most uneducated educated people of the world!

[IamDZJ]

i have a question from you guys..
why would a non pashtana want to marry you???
marriage is a dignified act that takes place between two people based on respect and affection for each other.
forget everything else, some of you here look at marriage as a super plan for world domination.
wanna know what type of woman will allow you to pashtunize her and the future children you might have with her in exchange for her abandonment of her own language and culture??? one who has no respect for her own. what type of a muslima has no respect for her own culture? the type with zero moral obligations. and that which happens between two people who have no intentions of respecting them self or each other is by no means a marriage. that is something else...

no self respecting human being wants to be married to some one who doesn't value their love or respect them as a human being than he/she who doesn't have the mentality to know her/his self worth.

the chances of a pashtana questioning you about the way you choose to raise her children is very rare due to the environment she herself was brought up unfortunately...to the 99.9% of you i suggest you marry a pashtana only. that is the only realistic way of getting your happily ever after. God help you otherwise.

[IamDZJ]

I will marry a non pashtun chick...

i would like to see who is low enough to marry you.