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whats your view on this guys? is it right? or will this just water down our culture?
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Last edited by Manzareh; 11-18-2010, 08:43 AM.----------
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Originally posted by Karachi -
^There are NO Pashtoons in the Midlands, UK?
The last time I passed through, sure, they weren't the majority, but I'd hardly say Pashtoons had no presence.
Where in the Midlands are you?
Are you allowed to travel?
P.S. This topic has been raised before, and ultimately, we are dealing with matters of the heart. The world, in effect, is your oyster.
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lol... Birmingham is full of pashtuns... but marriage to non pashtuns is no big deal either.... marry a decent personFrater aliquis in fide nec fratrem humanitatis
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Originally posted by tor_khan View Post
because of people like you, i specifically pointed out that this post in not directed to me its just an example, clearly you fail to read properly.
were i am there is no pashtuns, aprt from the odd illegal immigrants and 1 or 2 families, infact thers everything but pashtuns and iv moved to the midlands recently. yeh i do travel but whats that got to with knowing pashtuns? i dont go around to other citys getting pashtun girls numbers or getting to know people for marriage. people dont have t-shirts with "im pashtun get to know me"
P.S. like i said its not my issue. this is a matter of the heart, and for your information it may be oyster to you but i think marrying your own people is probly the biggest thing in pashtunwali, so in future get your facts streight.----------
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Originally posted by KarachiComment
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Nazieh, somebody said its the otherway around as in its ok for women but not men to marry non pashtuns as in pashtunwali the kids follow the fathers side. makes sense?Originally posted by nazia----------
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Originally posted by KarachiComment
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^^ thtzz stupidd
cozz we r all muslims nd afta that cmezz woteva u r / pashtun or not
soo as long as the prsn izz muslim , itzz all gud
maa opinioon :DComment
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^ yea but in the quran doesnt it say you should marry the people 'like' you.----------
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Originally posted by KarachiComment
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I am very much against the double-standard present in our culture. If it's frowned upon for a Pashtana to marry a non-Pashtun, then it should be the same case for the men.
If Pashtun men start marry non-Pashtun women, that will mean less Pashtun men will be available for Pashtun women, thereby encouraging them to also marry non-Pashtun men. Plus, how do our women feel when they see or hear about Pashtun guys in their communities making non-Pashtun girlfriends and stuff? I doubt they see it as good in any way.
We have a very unique culture, language, and history, and to ensure that it remains that way in the future, I think we should definitely put our own people first when looking for a spouse.Comment
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yhh buh i fnk that is suggestin muslimss
not frm whre or wht ethnicity u hveComment
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The Quran says that in the sense that you should marry people who are like you in terms of religion. It doesn't make sense to interpret it in a racially prejudiced manner. As Muslims, we are all equal.Originally posted by Manzareh View PostComment
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Why not? It's quality that counts surely rather than label.Comment
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No, I wouldnt marry youOriginally posted by MI6Comment
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^ lol!!----------
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Originally posted by KarachiComment
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M16 you need to lighten up, you seem to be a VERY neagtive person, look on the bright side of things mate----------
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Originally posted by KarachiComment
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Who said its only terms of religion and not in terms of anything else? can you back up what your saying pleaseOriginally posted by Shamaar View Post----------
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Originally posted by KarachiComment
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