Is cooking a requirement for a Pashtun Men?

[MazloomyarMaseed]

The above post shows a good example of influence of West on our people.

It is in the Etiquettes and mannersim for a women in the east to have the ability to cook. But madar pidar azaad society of west corrupts the minds of women and misguide them on the name of gender equality.

Cooking is a skill but it also reflects personality of the women.

What good comment Luffy, Very Impressed. For a Woman to cook is not a bad thing as this Star seems to suggest. Who would want to Marry a women who objects to cooking food for the household.

Throughout History women have cooked

[Pakhtunzai]

I'm learning how to cook too, I say for guys being able to cook is a major plus as we can live our life easily wherever we are. Look at Jamie Oliver for example. My dad and all his brothers are fantastic cooks masha allah, their talent in that field is amazing. And I hope to follow in their footsteps.

[Levanaye Zalmaye]

a wife is like a gift. her cooking ability is like the gift wrap. it's good if it's nice and sparkly but it's what's inside that matters.

.... The happy life be these I find - the quiet mind, the equal friend; no grudge nor strife; wisdom joined with simplicity; the night discharged of all care; the chaste wife wise, without debate; such sleeps as may beguile the night;.... (Henry Howard)

I will forgo ten thousand gifts and more for one like you, your wrapping, your cooking (or lack thereof) and whatever rests inside.

[Master Khan]

Oh oh oh I know of a few One of them wakes up at peshmaney with his wife to prepare food for the whole family, including his parents.

And, belllieve it, he's Pukhtun! So, yeah, we have hope, ladies! Good men who'll help their wives in kitchen ctually exist

Oh the poor guy.

Lol..manana..ta hom kala kala sa pakhlay kawa (in future)

Nah don't have to, I can't work, buy stuff and cook them aswell, What's the point of having a wife them, she can't just sit on the sofa and watch indian drama while I work, cook and clean.

I guess this means I won't be marrying a Pashtun.

Well you can marry Jamie Oliver then.

If a Woman can not cook then there must be something wrong with her. Traditionally Women are the ones who cook and men are the ones who bring the food.

I hate it when they say "back home" you think like this and so.

let me remind people, Ive met people from the west who complain that their wifes cant cook and only heat packed food and wish they had a wife who can cook.

Kind Regards

Aaoo kaana wrora, its our culture and traditional that women cooks and clean and men works and brings the food into the house.

I'm learning how to cook too, I say for guys being able to cook is a major plus as we can live our life easily wherever we are. Look at Jamie Oliver for example. My dad and all his brothers are fantastic cooks masha allah, their talent in that field is amazing. And I hope to follow in their footsteps.

Yeah its important to learn cooking when you are living alone. e.g. student

[PFgulalai]

Only if we have more Levanayai like you....but we don't, alas!

I will forgo ten thousand gifts and more for one like you, your wrapping, your cooking (or lack thereof) and whatever rests inside.

[MazloomyarMaseed]

When Star said She wont Marry a Pashtun man, this is clearly how Westernism affects the mindset of Pashtun people.

They begin to look down upon our people who dont live in west or adapt a different approach to things.

[Master Khan]

When Star said She wont Marry a Pashtun man, this is clearly how Westernism affects the mindset of Pashtun people.

They begin to look down upon our people who dont live in west or adapt a different approach to things.

Wrora Moor or plar ghalat loya karey da.
deera nasbina da.

[PFgulalai]

Is this the sole purpose of having a wife?
Qs: If your wife is pretty, brainy, virtuous, caring,loving, simple, family-oriented etc BUT can't cook nice, will you forgive her for her this 'inability'?

What's the point of having a wife them, she can't just sit on the sofa and watch indian drama while I work, cook and clean.

[Pakhtunzai]

So, yeah, we have hope, ladies! Good men who'll help their wives in kitchen ctually exist

They do exist.. My dad and his brothers are a dream for their wives..My mum and dad have a business entirely to do with food and they've been working as a team throughout entire marriage.

[star]

When Star said She wont Marry a Pashtun man, this is clearly how Westernism affects the mindset of Pashtun people.

They begin to look down upon our people who dont live in west or adapt a different approach to things.

I am not pashtun

[Master Khan]

Is this the sole purpose of having a wife?
Qs: If your wife is pretty, brainy, virtuous, caring,loving, simple, family-oriented etc BUT can't cook nice, will you forgive her for her this 'inability'?

wife is also for. you know...to start a family with but a men shouldn't be cooking for her and kids.

[star]

^God forbid a husband cooks for the wife and kids...

[Master Khan]

^God forbid a husband cooks for the wife and kids...

Lol yes oh else he will be call house husband.

[Gaia]

They even try to smell the girl. Ask my sister Feroza Banu.

God... thank you for the laugh that just made my day, Jasmine!

This thread is going great with you and Star around!

[Gaia]

Requirement my foot!!!

What kind of nonsense requirement is this? I cant cook at all but I can solve trigonometry, is that good enough? I am willing to learn cooking though.

If that is not good enough, I have 3 words for the guy, "TAKE A HIKE!"

Ha! This thing only gets better. Greatly said, Afghanlady!

Damn, I adore you girls!