Marriage to non-Pashtuns

[Zahed]

i encourage all the pakhtane living in the west to marry pakhtuns from back home instead of being disheartened too soon.

ye 'n then being told by their men from back home how to sit, how to talk, how to walk 'n how to live only 'cuz these women were born Pashtanas. I lost count of no of girls marrying back home whose men 're all goody in the beginning 'n act as if they care about else but their partner's desires, but let those "men" get to west once. they 'll show what they truly 're. ofcourse there 're some good ones out there as well but I 'll never prefer Afghan women to marry backhome as first choice 'n then regret for the rest of their lives. there 're enuf good ones in west as well.

[Zahed]

Why would anyone want to marry a pashtuna? When theirs pretty Pakistani girls?

go 'n tell this to those millions of Punjos whose first choice 're Pashtanas 'n marry their own women only when they got no other option.

[Nokia_Apridy]

Look guys try to understand what i am trying to say... I am NOT against the good aspects of Pashtuns neither am i against the language etc etc.

In fact i have nothing against the Pashtuns nor am I ashamed of my ethnicity.

What I am trying to say is that only jumping up and down about the language or making hoo haa about OUR GLORIOUS HISTOOOOOORYYYYYY will not get you anywhere.

It is not the Language, it is not the AK47, its is not the ANP antics that makes a Pashtun a Pashtun. A Pashtun becomes a Pashtun when he act and behaves in certain way. When he os she will adhere to a "code of conduct".

Pashto from the mouth of a drunk Pashtun girl wearing smallest skirt that can hardly cover her butt sitting in the lap of a Ghanian man in a night club .. sounds more ugly then anything can possibly be in this wide world. Trust me, I have seen it with my eyes.

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OPEN YOUR EYES ... that is if you have the courage You don't become a Pashtun by showing PORN MOVIES to your youth in SHAMA CINEMA that is named after BILOUR'S DAUGHTER. You do not become Pashtun by swearing at Mullahs. Neither do you become Pashtun by sidingh with the enemies of Islam and Pashtuns Like ANPto open them.

Sangen lala Zka khu darta paKHPO parwzam chay RASHA ANP JOIN

ka ANP chay sa da Para JORA chay Haga WArta waku

ZA ANP ZMA DA KHULAY KALA MULA PSAY SPAK AWRDALAY DI ?

KALA da PORN KHBARA AWRDALAY DA .....

ZMA SRA DAR DASEY ANZRUNA PA PUKHTUN ANGRZEYT TAKEY (WORD)

KA PIC MA JOR KREY DI CHAY HAGA

DA MEDICAL FIELD DA PARA DAR DA KAR DI KHU ZMA PUKHTU ya ZMa

da EHSAS PUKHTU EJAZAT NA RAKYE CHAY POST YA KAM...

da PORN pa Hawala........

NUR ta zma na kha pohgay KA KHBARAY DARBANDAY DRANAY shway wi

wabkha......

[Sangeen]

Sangen lala Zka khu darta paKHPO parwzam chay RASHA ANP JOIN

ka ANP chay sa da Para JORA chay Haga WArta waku

ZA ANP ZMA DA KHULAY KALA MULA PSAY SPAK AWRDALAY DI ?

KALA da PORN KHBARA AWRDALAY DA .....

ZMA SRA DAR DASEY ANZRUNA PA PUKHTUN ANGRZEYT TAKEY (WORD)

KA PIC MA JOR KREY DI CHAY HAGA

DA MEDICAL FIELD DA PARA DAR DA KAR DI KHU ZMA PUKHTU ya ZMa

da EHSAS PUKHTU EJAZAT NA RAKYE CHAY POST YA KAM...

da PORN pa Hawala........

NUR ta zma na kha pohgay KA KHBARAY DARBANDAY DRANAY shway wi

wabkha......

Zama khwaga orrora kanzal ba day rata karee wai kho ANP ba day rata na wa yada karay. Zaka chay da cha pa kanzaloo zama izaat na kharabay gi.

KHOO meaning BUT

By becoming one of the ANP i will have to throw my ghayrat haya and namoos away. My children will have to be a mulhid and my family's female will have to become like the family members of ghafar Like Naseen, Gulalai and Bushra Gohar.

No thank you i dont want it.

Tell me one thing....

Does the females of any Pashtun's family will look like Bushra Gohar who is one of your party member? She is your leader...... What a great Pashtun she is....

I keep on telling you this but seem like your conscious seem to be fast asleep.

[Sangeen]

NOKIA APRIDI.... Oroora da "BEEZO" (MONKEY) day sta mubaraka shee.

[graveyardofempires]

NOKIA APRIDI.... Oroora da "BEEZO" (MONKEY) day sta mubaraka shee.

wow how Islamic of you.
your attempts of attacking ANP have failed,whats your agenda?causing rift beyween pukhtane?

[Dreamer]

oh big deal... I have 1 cousin (female) whose married to a Turk, another (male) whose engaged to a Turk, one female relative married to a Bosnian and my other male cousin married to an english lady... My Uncle sadly passed away was married to a Jew... and you know what all of them were damn HAPPY and a lot happier than some people I know who married pashtuns BIG DEAL

[Dreamer]

i think its more to do with preserving pakhtun culture, then comparing happiness between couples

the child inherits from both cultures... happiness is paramount... culture can go to hell if happiness is to be sacrificed in favour of it

[Sangeen]

oh big deal... I have 1 cousin (female) whose married to a Turk, another (male) whose engaged to a Turk, one female relative married to a Bosnian and my other male cousin married to an english lady... My Uncle sadly passed away was married to a Jew... and you know what all of them were damn HAPPY and a lot happier than some people I know who married pashtuns BIG DEAL

Aha probably i might compare some notes with you.

Its not a bog deal to marry anyone from outside in fact it brings diversity of genes to us.

But if someone meet a Pashtun girl that understands him and share the interests with them then there is nothing like that.

Anyway tell me more about the Bosnian marriage how did that happen? Did they meet in Bosnia or somewhere else? And is the lady responding to cultural aspects of Pashtuns?


Thanks

[Nokia_Apridy]

SANGEEN lala ma khu sta KHOOR LOOR TA BEZO na da WALEY Khu bya

hem MANNNNNNNNA chay ta KHPAL Soch RAbesara (Open) kru ...

da ANP change kedu da para ta ma ivite kwalay chay

rasha SHAMA Cinma ta WOOR warkey Chay darsara WOORWANKAY

da MOOR SHODAY PA MA HARAMAY SHA...

RAsha saba chay STa Makha makh Gohar ta Oyaye chay da PUKHTU

na da sta PARUNAY ZARAUKAY (CHADAR) pa ma makh ao pa sar

nashta ta zma da PUKHTUN Numandgey nashay kwalay......

KHU Ta hem DAsey Okhatay chay...........sa Oyam

[Sangeen]

Nokia Apreday I thought that you may have some honesty in you but seem like you are an ANP guy through and through. Take that Gohar fahasha and make her your leader all you like.

If you support the bustards like Bilour then i must say you are not the type of a man that will like to talk to. After all i have a standard and i would like to maintain it and keep it that way.

You support a party of those that we call in out language DALAGAN, those that will sell their own honour.

With all due respect keep your comments to yourself as you are not the type of a person i will like to talk to.

Talk to other ANP Pashtin-Faroosh they might agree with you. I can not and i will not.

[Nokia_Apridy]

You support a party of those that we call in out language DALAGAN,

LAla i Support my PUKHTUN and PUKHTUNWALI

and show my Pukhtun Pukhtu awo Pukhtunwali to the

world...Chay za sok yam awo sanga yam.....

da khu Gohar awo Bilor da warta Zan wakhyalu ma zka

aNP join kra chay da dALAGAN

ta Ubasam awo Sta pa Shan Ukhyaran pka Wachwam

WALLAH zma pa har takay ka serf da PUKHTU raza da

[Dreamer]

Aha probably i might compare some notes with you.

Its not a bog deal to marry anyone from outside in fact it brings diversity of genes to us.

But if someone meet a Pashtun girl that understands him and share the interests with them then there is nothing like that.

Anyway tell me more about the Bosnian marriage how did that happen? Did they meet in Bosnia or somewhere else? And is the lady responding to cultural aspects of Pashtuns?


Thanks

no my cousn met her Bosnian husband in university in England. He had left Bosnia in 1995 when he was about 14

[Sangeen]

no my cousn met her Bosnian husband in university in England. He had left Bosnia in 1995 when he was about 14

What is the Religious orientation of your cousin's husband? Also how much value will your cousin put on Religion in her life?

I was involved with a Bosnian girl but she was more into Culture rather then Religion. What she called Islam was actually her Bosniak culture. So if there was something that was not OK by Islam but OK by her Bosniak culture was OK with her.

There is a good book written y an American Anthropologist called "Being Muslim the Bosnian Way".

I am not sure how much will that be important to you.

[IamDZJ]

sangeen there is more to this forum than this God damned thread. if you get out of here and check out a few other threads you will learn the difference between people worth arguing with and people who are not worth arguing with.
i am not talking about dreamer.