Marriage to non-Pashtuns

[Feroza_Banu]

since when did marriage become everyone else's business?

everyone has their own preference... its like saying since i like certain type of food, everyone else has to like to too...

for those who are believers of Islam, since Islam has zero tolerance for racism and cast system, you should marry into your own kind for the right reasons. if you wish to marry someone from your own background to keep your culture and traditions alive, for all means... but if the sole purpose of sticking with your own kind is because u consider others less of a human or less than you and your kind, then obviously u don't follow what Islam teaches... and quite frankly u don't deserve to be called a human either.

No to racism!

[Master Khan]

since when did marriage become everyone else's business?

everyone has their own preference... its like saying since i like certain type of food, everyone else has to like to too...

for those who are believers of Islam, since Islam has zero tolerance for racism and cast system, you should marry into your own kind for the right reasons. if you wish to marry someone from your own background to keep your culture and traditions alive, for all means... but if the sole purpose of sticking with your own kind is because u consider others less of a human or less than you and your kind, then obviously u don't follow what Islam teaches... and quite frankly u don't deserve to be called a human either.

No to racism!

yeah that true but Its annoying when their kids go around saying "I am Pathan" etc lol

[IamDZJ]

yeah that true but Its annoying when their kids go around saying "I am Pathan" etc lol

the word pathan in itself has no value. specially in today's day and time. okay?? your character is what should embody the meaning behind that word.

[Feroza_Banu]

yeah that true but Its annoying when their kids go around saying "I am Pathan" etc lol

seriously speaking Master khan...I have seen some people who call themselves proud pashtoons and think of themselves as representative of pashtoons, but they are the most beghairat people i have seen amongst pashtoons... while some who are very passive have been the ones who follow pashtoonwali the most...

one can call himself whatver, but at the end of the day its the person's character that makes him who he is...

[Feroza_Banu]

^thats racism? no thats called backlash..... i have every reason to hate them... what is theirs? they hate me, my country, they have destroyed it... i have lost my home, my father, my country, my right to live in my own land because of them... i have lost loved ones, i have lost my countrymen... i read news of a new bomb blast everyday... and i shouldn't have anything to say against them? are you joking?

I am not racist... i don't hate random panjabies on the street... i hate those who have caused all of the above !... i don't go around spitting on random panjabies outside... but i will spit on those who support their government's policy in regards to Afghanistan. actually i hate all those pakistanis including the pashtoons who support their government's actions. so no its not racism... its called backlash..and I have every reason to backlash..

why r u hurt if i have equated those power hungry panjabies to dogs... do u have a soft spot for them? they are worse than dogs... i have disrespected dogs to even mention those panjabies' names in the same sentence as dogs...

and yes i stand by my statement... i will be happy under a dog's rule but not of a panjabi government!... i will never support their interference in my government and in my country.

may be u should go ask your countrymen why do they hate afghans so much... why are they so racist against us!

za da zalim zulm ham bardasht wakam,... aw pasai mina ham worsara wakam?

[graveyardofempires]

I dont want to make it political but on one hand you are being racist against Panjabis and on other hand you preach "no racism".

You shouldnt preach what you dont follow.

Yes ,you have right to stand for your country and hate those who destroyed it, but remember whenever you preach hate on the basis of race you are a racist.

thats a lost case ,how can you defend such guys who want bad for fellow man and want to cause friction between people.

[Feroza_Banu]

^esapzai: its not for you to decide whether it is political or not... it is already political to begin with...

[roadrunner]

no...


you are very modest













....and a very good actor

That's my whole point! I can be modest and have lots of girlfriends.

Just because I mentioned I have many, you ASSUMED I was immodest.

Case proven.

[roadrunner]

Kindly have a look for yourself and ask yourself if you are a hypocrite or not?



Here is the proof, you respect dogs more than Panjabis

Very true, though i suspect she is Indian rather than Pashtun.

Let's assume "Panjabis" destroyed Afghanistan (they did not, it was Sindhi Bhutto that supplied the Taliban, Soviet forces that invaded, American forces currently invading and previously had armed the warlords, etc etc), not every Panjabi would have been party to it.

Yet all her racism is directed at Panjabis. Amusing.

Not every Panjabi is a good fellow. But to group all Panjabis as one IS racism.

[IamDZJ]

That's my whole point! I can be modest and have lots of girlfriends.

Just because I mentioned I have many, you ASSUMED I was immodest.

Case proven.

he was being sarcastic

[roadrunner]

I know. But the point is if i were being immodest, I would have come on here and without prompting, said I've had lots of girlfriends.

It was only to prove my point that I revealed this truth.

[IamDZJ]

I know. But the point is if i were being immodest, I would have come on here and without prompting, said I've had lots of girlfriends.

It was only to prove my point that I revealed this truth.

i think you have humble and modest confused with each other. your honesty is your humbleness and the fact that you don't consider being involved with lots of women could be due to you being naive at the most but modesty is definitely out of the question. before you publicly advertise your relationship with someone else you must remember that there are two people involved in it and they are entitled to their share of dignity even if you don't care much for yourself. as a person who at some point of time mattered to you, you should have that respect for them. even if they are your ex boyfriend/girlfriend wife or just a friend.

on a totally different note, being linked to many people in one's life is not a positive thing. it's almost as if you are waving the amount of times you have failed at something in everyone's face and being proud of it at the same time.

[کیش]

I had a girlfriend once, but then I woke up.

[Nokia_Apridy]

da KHUDAY pak waish (taqseem ) da chay ta la ya hem

[IamDZJ]

well i guess what i have summed up is that some people have meritable reasons for not being in favor of interracial marriages and that some others are simply nervous and anxious which is why they are verbally attacking what they consider their possible competitors. that is just sad because it shows how trashy, frustrated and insecure one can get in the state of desperation.
point be noted: i consider you all my sisters and brothers in islam. i am not going to repeat that over and over again as i don't like touchy-feely people.. not that i will think twice before shooting some of you but i will admit and have this confirmed so no one injures her self by banging her head on a wall or something from frustration.