Marriage to non-Pashtuns

[Dreamer]

my masjid which I attend has a huge congregation... made up of pashtuns, bosnians, punjabies, africans, caucasians etc nobody cares about these stupid things... we are moving towards marrying one another and its a good thing...

[Master Khan]

oh dude... look Im a nationalist pashtun and I dont like punjabies much but hell if there was a punjabie who was decent and my daughter liked him then yea Id allow it... Besides look at the globel picture... living in the west I am oin contact with muslims from a wide variety of backgrounds and the future is that we will all intermarry... that village culture is behind us now and thank goodness for it...

you call yourself a nationalist pashtun and yet you will give your daughter to them?.
leaving your village and culture behind is wrong but then again its up to you wrora because its your family.
I love my village, culture and laugauge and I want my daughters to marry within my village and I want it to stay that way until I am 6ft under.
I just want them close to me and giving them within my family is good because that means they can came to viste me and I can see them aswell.

[Dreamer]

im moderate nationlist... I dont hate other peoples.... there is no reason why 2 cultures cant co-exist...my cousin is engaged 2 a caucasian girl and shes better than most pashtuna so Id rather have her in our family than some idiot pashtun... We dont live in a village we live in the UK... its a bit different than some villagey world dont ya think

[Master Khan]

my masjid which I attend has a huge congregation... made up of pashtuns, bosnians, punjabies, africans, caucasians etc nobody cares about these stupid things... we are moving towards marrying one another and its a good thing...

I only be friends with them and thats it, I don't wanna turn that friendship into a relationship.

[Dreamer]

my other cousin married a guy frm chersada and they are still happily married 6 yrs later... my other cousin married a swat pashtun again very happy... of course they are like me frm non pakistani backgrounds... one thing our family have is marriage to pashtuns frm pakistan... thats a no go

[Master Khan]

im moderate nationlist... I dont hate other peoples.... there is no reason why 2 cultures cant co-exist...my cousin is engaged 2 a caucasian girl and shes better than most pashtuna so Id rather have her in our family than some idiot pashtun... We dont live in a village we live in the UK... its a bit different than some villagey world dont ya think

Yeah thats alright, end of the day that girl will be with your family in your house forever.

[Dreamer]

I only be friends with them and thats it, I don't wanna turn that friendship into a relationship.

hmm I wonder what you would make of our prophets marriages... after all wasnt one of his wives a Copt? another a hebrew? Hazrat Mariya and hazrat Safiya bint huay respectfully.... stop living in a backwards mentality

[Dreamer]

Yeah thats alright, end of the day that girl will be with your family in your house forever.

hahaha your hilarious... have you heard yourself???? we dont own her!
one of my distant realitives married a caucasiuan muslim and alhumdulliah he is the best person Ive met in a looooong while... far better than most pashtun men

[Master Khan]

hmm I wonder what you would make of our prophets marriages... after all wasnt one of his wives a Copt? another a hebrew? Hazrat Mariya and hazrat Safiya bint huay respectfully.... stop living in a backwards mentality

No no I Just don't want to give away my daughters to non-pashtun .
If I have son and he marrys a white girl then that girl will be in our house with us .
Its a big differece between giving and taking.

[Dreamer]

read my above post... my distant female realitive married a caucasian ,muslim ( causcaisn = european decent) he is far better than any pashtun I knw... btw 2 ppl marry each other they dnt marry families... anyway Im sure no white girl would wish 2 subjegate herself 2 living in a backwards culture... like attracts like so dnt worry abt giving or taking

[Master Khan]

read my above post... my distant female realitive married a caucasian ,muslim ( causcaisn = european decent) he is far better than any pashtun I knw... btw 2 ppl marry each other they dnt marry families... anyway Im sure no white girl would wish 2 subjegate herself 2 living in a backwards culture... like attracts like so dnt worry abt giving or taking

Wrora we are not backwards culture, bada khabara da.
my uncle is a collage teacher in Pakhtunkhwa, we just marry within our village and even the females wants that aswell.

[Dreamer]

dude its backwards... take it frm me... dnt worry u wont have 2 worry about anyone marrying in2 ur precious village take it frm me... humanity by and large has moved beyond the stone ages

[Master Khan]

dude its backwards... take it frm me... dnt worry u wont have 2 worry about anyone marrying in2 ur precious village take it frm me... humanity by and large has moved beyond the stone ages

lol we are more happy together in this stone age because we are keeping our culture and language alive.
there are pashtuns that wants to go back to their roots because of mix marriges.
If you wanna give your daughters or sisters to punjabies, africas etc then do it I don't mind.
You may call us backwards but we are pashtuns.
And we will stay that way till the grave.

[Dreamer]

sure sure.... keep believeing what you say... you might believe it one day...

[Master Khan]

sure sure.... keep believeing what you say... you might believe it one day...

Yeah and when that day come I will be 6 feet under.