What are real Pakhtana values?

[Roshina]

im going off pf for a while to sort my stuff ... im going you wont have to read my posts for a while ... bye until i sort things out and come back .

For a "true" Pashtana, Kakargirl guley, you sure are too insecure. Someone will express disagreement with you, and you'll threaten to leave. I can't recount how many times you've actually done this.

Just live with the fact that all Pukhtuns don't live the same way you do -- and neither do they want to, if they don't already do it. You can think that that makes you more authentic, more real, more true, etc., that's fine; you don't, however, have the power to make others feel inferior as Pukhtuns just because they practice Pukhtunwali differently than you do. (I honestly don't even think you choose to live your kind of life, because your posts scream frustration with the lifestyle your brothers have chosen for you, but that's none of my business, so I won't comment further. I do wish you happiness and peace, though.)

[sahil112]

^^^^ um she isnt really gone she is just off becouse she is busy with university and work etc she will be back dont you worry then you 2 can mabey carry on what ever
so lets stop with this true pashtana and insecure etc things

[randolph85]

kakargirl > roshina

[Catya Sher]

Thanks for bringing up the topics mentioned on the first page, Manzareh, and all who support his points.

The loudest women here don't seem to haveanything in common with REAL Pashtuns.
They seem totally FALSE.

At BEST: chronic shopaholics who are shallow ; with certain ones vicious beyond belief.
These aren't the REAL article anyway.

The women for the most part here are playing acting roles as Pashtanas.
It's the best kept secret of PF.

Only a real one like Kakargirl shows how a Pashtana SHOULD be.
that's why they all resent her so much, and insult her.

This is clear for anyone with eyes to read the dreadful posts by many women here.

[sahil112]

yh kakargrll is a veryy coool girl nuff respect 2 her

[KingKhan]

Thanks for bringing up the topics mentioned on the first page, Manzareh, and all who support his points.
The loudest women here don't seem to haveanything in common with REAL Pashtuns.
They seem totally FALSE.
At BEST: chronic shopaholics who are shallow ; with certain ones vicious beyond belief.
These aren't the REAL article anyway.
The women for the most part here are playing acting roles as Pashtanas.
It's the best kept secret of PF.Only a real one like Kakargirl shows how a Pashtana SHOULD be.that's why they all resent her so much, and insult her.
This is clear for anyone with eyes to read the dreadful posts by many women here.

Who on earth are you? To say Pashtana this or that? At least other members can have some sort of opinion because they don't hide who they are. You on the other hand, runs away when asking who and what you are.

[Michin Khel]

Thanks for bringing up the topics mentioned on the first page, Manzareh, and all who support his points.




Only a real one like Kakargirl shows how a Pashtana SHOULD be.
that's why they all resent her so much, and insult her.

This is clear for anyone with eyes to read the dreadful posts by many women here.

Absolutely right. Kakar girl is a drana pashtana, that is how a pashtun girl should be. But i am noticing that for other girls here, her presence and her thinking, is annoying.

[emkhan]

Absolutely right. Kakar girl is a drana pashtana, that is how a pashtun girl should be. But i am noticing that for other girls here, her presence and her thinking, is annoying.

Because every others want unnecessary freedom and loves to become in the eyes of men. They rather want to become butterflies for men...
hehehhe

[Nokia_Apridy]

Da Kakargirl da KHPO khawra hem sok nashta dalta

Shaysta zayam ao spogmay na sewa...

[Wrayun]

Kakar khor is a precious little gem.

Don't upset her or else!

[Alchemist]

For a "true" Pashtana, Kakargirl guley, you sure are too insecure. Someone will express disagreement with you, and you'll threaten to leave. I can't recount how many times you've actually done this.

Just live with the fact that all Pukhtuns don't live the same way you do -- and neither do they want to, if they don't already do it. You can think that that makes you more authentic, more real, more true, etc., that's fine; you don't, however, have the power to make others feel inferior as Pukhtuns just because they practice Pukhtunwali differently than you do. (I honestly don't even think you choose to live your kind of life, because your posts scream frustration with the lifestyle your brothers have chosen for you, but that's none of my business, so I won't comment further. I do wish you happiness and peace, though.)

"frustration"?
"insecurity"?

Look who is talking?
Miss. I-wanna-rebel-against-patriarchy-by-puffing-white-clouds-from-a-phallic-object.

Yeah, Yeah, Yeah. Heard it all before.

"Why does my mom let my brother be free to do whatever but restricts my movements? Why does pashtun society not allow women to go live alone for the sake of education? Why am I the object of my brother's ghairat?" you whinny lil sissy..

you are just hating on her because she is the kind of girl your parents wish you were!

ms.feminism from the 60s here to rewrite "afghaniyat"...

[Roshina]

"frustration"?
"insecurity"?

Look who is talking?
Miss. I-wanna-rebel-against-patriarchy-by-puffing-white-clouds-from-a-phallic-object.

Yeah, Yeah, Yeah. Heard it all before.

"Why does my mom let my brother be free to do whatever but restricts my movements? Why does pashtun society not allow women to go live alone for the sake of education? Why am I the object of my brother's ghairat?" you whinny lil sissy..

you are just hating on her because she is the kind of girl your parents wish you were!

ms.feminism from the 60s here to rewrite "afghaniyat"...

Oh no! You've figured me all out, Alchemist! You just revealed all my secrets to the entire world I've got some self-reflections to do; I'll be gone temporarily and come back once I've settled my thoughts.

[kakargirl]

For a "true" Pashtana, Kakargirl guley, you sure are too insecure. Someone will express disagreement with you, and you'll threaten to leave. I can't recount how many times you've actually done this.

Just live with the fact that all Pukhtuns don't live the same way you do -- and neither do they want to, if they don't already do it. You can think that that makes you more authentic, more real, more true, etc., that's fine; you don't, however, have the power to make others feel inferior as Pukhtuns just because they practice Pukhtunwali differently than you do. (I honestly don't even think you choose to live your kind of life, because your posts scream frustration with the lifestyle your brothers have chosen for you, but that's none of my business, so I won't comment further. I do wish you happiness and peace, though.)

roshina thank you but i didnt run off to please anyone forgive me i have so much uni work piled up to come on pf i had to stay up when i should be sleeping you feroza and your other girlfriends has nothing to do with me coming on less or staying away ,and it clearly shows you cant read because if my posts show you that im insecure or frustrated then your millions of miles off good luck.

[Catya Sher]

Regarding the above quoted post by Roshina:
YET ANOTHER RUDE, INTRUSIVE JAB at Kakargirl.

She is the opposite: Happy, content and proud of her ways and her family's
way of handling life.

She is confident enough to tell someone much earlier that Western ways
of loose morals are what are really going back to the stone age !!

This was either an accusation directly made or implied --
probably by roadrunner
way back when.

So kakargirl is hardly screaming in rebellion at her brothers' strictures.

Roshina must be dbuble majoring in Feminist Studies and The Sociology of Narcissism
to be projecting her OWN ideas so blithely on to others
without even LISTENING to what those have stated clearly.
A fine anthropologist Roshina would make, since she can't even HEAR anyone else but her own -
overwhelmingly overbearing - voice.

[kakargirl]

to all the females on here, my words always get quoted il tell you why because they dont fit in with your world, my veiws are strict old fashtion conservative , call me back wards call me cave girl call me what ever you please ,your thoughts are , all your veiws of me are welcomed speak your mind but please no sweety words or gulaa as they are fake words you have to say to pretend to sound ok im not born yesterday thank you.