culture

[Notorious Pashtana]

what you like and dont like about Afghan and pashtun culture?

Like: ability for women to jump queues only because they're women
Dislike: perversion towards those same women

[kakargirl]

@Kakar
First of all I got a request. Can you please use capitals and dots in your messages because it's confusing me at times as in where the line ends? Moreover, I got no idea what you mean with 'free' girls and I have got no idea why 'skirts' is the first thing which comes up to you when we speak of Western clothes as skirts were being worn in Kabul way before many countries in Europe? And I never questioned your lifestyle khorey, never. For me, happiness of an individual is possibly the biggest part of life, happiness is what makes people enjoy today and look forward to tomorrow. I didn't say I disagree with your lifestyle, or that I speak to random people and wear any type of clothing (I wear hijaab myself by the way). My point was what you mentioned already, you know best yourself who you are and what to be and not everyone's opinion has to match. But respect should be brought forward to different lifestyles and acceptance should be put regarding different lifestyles. We shouldn't call a non-hijaab Pukhtana 'culture-less', not a burqa wearing woman 'oppressed'. We look down upon each other's lifestyle for this very same reason, lack of respect and lack of understanding. I hope you, and others in the same boat, understand what I am talking about and understands how certain words shouldn't be used in future. Just to keep the forum, and our minds, healthy.

Sorry for the late reply, yes i need to punctuate, its a bad habit, i have on line,but i'm new to all this, but even english brits have this habit, we get lazy,and my veiws stand, i have no respect for western clothing at all so since my veiws are so strong , no debate can change this

[torkham]

because iv been back over 7 times and stayed there over 4 months each time i went and in uk i live the same life i would back there my dress code to everything so i know very well what my culture is and how strict it is im a very strict conservtive pashtun girl i dont go out get dropped off at all girls uni picked ,after that i dont go out no where and i mean no where our girls only go out after they are married and their husbands take them out , i wear burqa to uni i live a strict life do i mind it no i dont i love my culture long live long live our culture , you talk like you know me im not yoyr average pashtun girl living in the west that has dropped everything and dosnt know nothing and non of our family girls in uk wear the western trashy clothing and nor do we talk about meeting up with nah mehrans or talk about hooking up one thing i dislike the most people who talk about one thing and then switch modes i dont switch modes i am what i am do i care what people think no i dont each to their own but please they should stick to one thing. i stick to one thing.im a strict coservative old fashioned pashtun girl .

kandahari kakargirl, mashallah very dignified [izzat aw nang] life you lead.

[kakargirl]

kandahari kakargirl, mashallah very dignified [izzat aw nang] life you lead.

Thank you wror, i respect you too much , wror thank you , may allah swt keep our girls like that wror inshallah .

[Shayesta]

^ Define 'Western' clothes.

[Nokia_Apridy]

simple kna chay haga da Pukhtun jamu na sewa wi :P)

[kakargirl]

^ Define 'Western' clothes.

What would you like me to define? Why i call it trashy? Why i don't respect it?one example skinny-jeans.jpg

[emkhan]

provocative for a real man

[faye]

well, stop looking, emkhan.

[emkhan]

can't close my eyes ... stop wearing such

[faye]

a lot of european tourists come to the island where i live and mostly they wear baggy loose clothing although some of the girls tops can be a little revealing.

[Fahd]

LOL so if all the boys were nudes in the street how can u walk and close ur eyes ?

[Gulbabo]

haha... its funny, men can't stop looking at women in burqa either ...

[kakargirl]

a lot of european tourists come to the island where i live and mostly they wear baggy loose clothing although some of the girls tops can be a little revealing.

faye loose is good, but the debates about pashtun culture ,its not about europeons or what they wear, i find that fine, why because thats their culture, but for my self i don't find it ok , why because i'm a muslim pashtun girl and decency is the 1st rule in my culture, so shysta has asked so i will define, wether its using pics or words.

[emkhan]

haha... its funny, men can't stop looking at women in burqa either ...

Men respects a woman wearing burqa....
But some women don't like respect and love to come in the eyes of men and they throw away the burqa