365 Commandments to Success

[spogmai shaglay]

Remember, even the most sincere apology can't ERASE harsh words said in HASTE or anger......

Its said that if you want judge somebody, see them when they are angry....its in anger that its difficult for people to keep their composure.....otherwise most of the times people are not their real selves.. they are composed.....

even if we feel from the deepest of our hearts that we want to apologise and you apologise genuinely still it wont be the same again...and words are things that once blurted out cannot be taken back.... We cant eat our words back......

once harsh words said, the harm is done....

wise is the one who is able to maintain composure during anger as well......

[spogmai shaglay]

Leave precious memories alone and undisturbed, trying to relieve them often results in disappointment......

[Khan Gul]

Remember, even the most sincere apology can't ERASE harsh words said in HASTE or anger......

So very, very true. Oh reminds me of that one gloomy instance based on my memory, though long ago, has never fully lost its spell.

[spogmai shaglay]

To DISCOVER good, relaible people, undertake a difficult TASK with a group....

[spogmai shaglay]

To DISCOVER good, reliable people, undertake a difficult TASK with a group....

Always very easy to work as an individual...people working like this find it easy to work alone rather than working in a group....only when working as a group we will realize the capabilities of people to the fullest...even whether are they open to change, open to feedback and criticism (positive)....

working in group, its assumed by everybody that the task at at hand will be done by somebody...but it in the end it is realized that the task at hand was not done by anybody....(i will try to post something more on this in my future post).....

and the one who takes an initiative proves to be the leader as the others follow him then because they were waiting for somebody to take an initiate and hence emerges a leader and the one who completes the task in spite of others not doing it proves to be a reliable person,,,,

[spogmai shaglay]

Let others question your judgement but never your courage...

[spogmai shaglay]

the way to success is also honesty

Right Samima as i have mentioned in one of the previous posts ....when we stick by our values decisions come easy....which would definitely if not in the short but in the long run will lead to success.....

[spogmai shaglay]

Dont weaken the POWER of future compliments by telling someone that he or she is doing a good JOB, when they are not.........

[spogmai shaglay]

Whether winning or losing be GRACIOUS about it....

[spogmai shaglay]

REMEMBER, contentment is found in relationships not in PLACES or accomplishments.....

[spogmai shaglay]

Be sure of your CHOICES, you are stuck with them forever!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Tamara]

Amazing thread, I loved to read all of your instructive qoutes Spogmai Khor

[spogmai shaglay]

Don't waste anything important on SOMETHING foolish and TEMPORARY.....

[spogmai shaglay]

Dont confuse INTELLIGENCE with Wisdom....

[spogmai shaglay]

Intelligence ad wisdom go hand and hand.

Agreed....but both are different virtues altogther....an intelligent person may not be wise....and a wise person may not always be intelligent....

wisdom comes with experience...and its a knowledge of what is true or right with just judgement.......