365 Commandments to Success

[spogmai shaglay]

Without trust nothing is possible.
Relationships and friendships are based on trust.

it takes a lot to trust but very little to break a trust!!!!!!!!!!!

[spogmai shaglay]

WELCOME everything that comes to you, but do not LONG for anything else.....

so easy to say but so difficult to follow......

[spogmai shaglay]

Keep your mind curious, your heart PURE and your enthusiasm twelve inches TALLER than you are!!!!!!!!!!!!

[spogmai shaglay]

what does this mean.

WELCOME everything that comes to you, but do not LONG for anything else.....

Jasmine,, It means that whatever is coming into your lives.. keep your doors open, welcome it, accept it......but dont wait for any more things to come....let them come by themselves.....dont wait for anything... like we have longing for so many things.. people long for appreciation, people long for fame, people long for money, or any materialistic things.... accept all things coming into your lives but dont long for anything more


hence i said its so easy to say but so difficult to follow...... we as human long for so many things.... we dont stop hoping and we should not...

two aspects of this positive and negative....

positive is that we should also learn to be content with what we have..... it is said that dont burn your hut seeing somebody's palace...but also just dont be content with your hut, work to improve....

negative is that if u stop hoping, waiting or longing for things you wont progress...........

[spogmai shaglay]

Shlombay and deathmatch..... your appreciation really means a lot.....it really encourages and motivates me to just go ahead...........i really hope that members here read these post atleast once as i have learned a lot from them and still learning and it has helped me change my attitude towards, myself, my family, my friends, my life, my work and a lot of other things... knowledge grows only when it is spread....it is one of the things which will never reduce how much ever you give it away....it only grows.....hence i want my family here to take full advantage of this and improve themselves and every aspect of their lives.... nobody is perfect nor everybody's life is perfect, . there is always scope for improvement or change for good... i am trying to make a difference in my life as well as my people's life here....

[spogmai shaglay]

Everything in life is possible for HIM who believes in HIMSELF.........

[spogmai shaglay]

you mean having confidence right?

Yes Hindupashtun,,, i mean confidence and belief that if you have chosen to do something you can do it.... you are the best person to know whther that work can be done or not... its not right now about failuer or success.... it takes a lot to just take a decision of staring something.. the initial push takes a lot of thinking... people fail here when they just dont want to try.......only when we try can we know where we lack and can we improve on it further..........

belief and trust in oneself is very important... if u think and believe that you can do something... you can definitely do it.... nobody can stop you from doing it.... even success.. you think you will succeed, definitely you will succeed because now you know you have to work towards success... if we have that negative thing in our mind that whatever do , howmuch ever we try its not possible, will never make anything possible to you....cause now unconsciously you work towards being unsuccessful... cause you have a feeling that whatever i do this work is not possible.....

rather than trusting anybody......trust Allah and then trust yourself... anybody will betray you but you will never betray yourslef!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[spogmai shaglay]

Spoghmai when is new ones coming?

here it goes...........

If You want to help SOMEONE, give them practical help.................

[spogmai shaglay]

spoghmai I read all ur posts here and everywhere keep it up

Waziristan,,, its my great plaeure to have you and all other members here in my thread..

i believe in group learning... learning together makes a lot of difference....and when especialy its concerning our lives... i want all my members here to live a good, healthy and beautiful life. with all the beautiful relations that they desire.....i want to see all at their peaks of success...... which is of course in our hands... we all just need a change in attitude... and we also know all things required to be successful but we dont apply them.. so its as good as not having the knowledge at all.......

i too look forward to see you all here more often..

[spogmai shaglay]

Take a moment to REMEMBER that happiness lives in the small moments and little delights of our 'Everyday' Life.....

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I agree and to add you never know what you have until you lose it.

very True Nazia.... and when we realize its importance its tooo late.......
we always take people and things that we possess for granted and realize their importance after losing them when its tooooooooo late and when we cant undo the harm.......

[spogmai shaglay]

REMEMBER, your potential is determined by your DREAMS, your value is determined by your actions!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

also,

If you want your dreams to come true, don't OVERSLEEP

wake up and start working towards making your dream come true!!!!!!!!!!

[spogmai shaglay]

When You know you are WRONG, don't be STUBBORN and don't stay that way!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Khan Gul]

Spogmai Bibi,
Every single quote completely monopolized my attention and the way you explained some of them still further increased the broad vistas of its beauty.
I am new here but before I posted my first post on PF, I spent over a month reading a good deal here and I must say I take pride and joy in young generation of Pukhtun women. After profound despair, they now introduce me to a first faint note of hope. Keep it that way Wrerey!

[amna.]

Spoghmai how kind of you sharing this.

I read all the pages keep it coming.