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  • Failure Is Delay Not Defeat

    A candidate for news broadcaster’s post was rejected because of his voice. He was also told that with his obnoxiously long name, he would never be famous.
    - He is Amitabh Bachchan.
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    A small boy - the fifth among seven siblings of a poor father, was selling newspapers in a small village to earn his living. He was not exceptionally smart at school but was fascinated by religion and rockets. The first rocket he built crashed. A missile that he built crashed multiple times and he was made a butt of ridicule. He is the person to have scripted the space Odyssey of India single handedly.
    - He is Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam, the former President of India.
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    In 1962 for nervous musicians played their first record audition for the executives of the Decca Recording Company. The executives were not impressed. While turning down this group of musicians, one executive said “We don’t like their sound. Groups of guitars are on the way out”.
    - The group was called The Beatles.

    In 1944, Emmeline Snivley, Director of the Blue Book modeling agency told modeling hopeful Norman Jean Baker, “ You’d better learn Secretarial work or else get married”.
    - She went on to become Marilyn Monroe.
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    In 1954 Jimmy Denny, Manager of the Grand Ole Opry fired a singer after one performance. He told him, “You aren’t going nowhere, son. You ought to go back to driving a truck”.
    - He went on to become Elvis Presley.

    When this gentleman invented a communications machine in 1876, it did not ring off the hook with calls from potential backers. After making a demonstration call, President Rutherford Hayes said, “That’s an amazing invention, but who would ever want to see one of them ?”.
    - He said this to Alexander Graham Bell.
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    yao warokay ghwandi baagh ao pa khwa ye seen rawan!

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    • Look At The Other Side

      A Father was reading a magazine and his little daughter every now and then distracted him. To keep her busy, he tore one page on which was printed the map of the world. He tore it into pieces and asked her to go to her room and put them together to make the map again.

      He was sure she would take the whole day to get it done. But the little one came back within minutes with perfect map... When he asked how she could do it so quickly, she said, "Oh... Dad, there is a man's face on the other side of the paper... I made the face perfect to get the map right." she ran outside to play leaving the father surprised.
      yao warokay ghwandi baagh ao pa khwa ye seen rawan!

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      • Hammer

        Effort is important, but knowing where to make an effort makes all the difference!
        A giant ship engine failed. The ship's owners tried one expert after another, but none of them could figure but how to fix the engine. Eventually they brought in an old man who had been fixing ships since he was young. He carried a large bag of tools with him, and when he arrived, he immediately went to work. He inspected the engine very carefully, top to bottom.

        Two of the ship's owners were there, watching this man, hoping he would know what to do. After looking things over, the old man reached into his bag and pulled out a small hammer. He gently tapped something. Instantly, the engine lurched into life. He carefully put his hammer away. The engine was fixed!
        A week later, the owners received a bill from the old man for ten thousand dollars.
        "What?!" the owners exclaimed. "He hardly did anything!"
        So they wrote the old man a note saying, "Please send us an itemized bill."

        The man sent a bill that read:
        Tapping with a hammer...... ......... .. $ 2.00
        Knowing where to tap......... . ..... ..... $ 9,998.00
        yao warokay ghwandi baagh ao pa khwa ye seen rawan!

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        • One day a father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the firm purpose of showing his son how poor people live

          They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family. On their return from the trip, the father asked his son, "How was the trip?" "It was great, Dad".
          Did you see how poor people live?Father asked.
          "Oh yes", said the son. "So, tell me, what did you learn from the trip?" asked the father..

          The son answered, "I saw that we have one dog and they had four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of the garden and they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night.

          Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon. We have a small piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond our sight. We have servants to serve us, but they serve others. We buy our food, but they grow theirs. We have walls around our property to protect us, they have friends to protect them."



          The boy's father was speechless. Then his son added, "Thanks, Dad for showing me how poor we are."



          Isn't perspective a wonderful thing ? Makes you wonder what would happen if we all gave thanks for everything we have, instead of worrying about what we don't have.


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          Appreciate every single thing you have.
          yao warokay ghwandi baagh ao pa khwa ye seen rawan!

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          • Shehbaaz Khan, thanks for sharing but i dont flood my thread with so many posts per day,,,,,u can please open separate post for whatever u wish to share....u can although comment on whatever is posted here.....posting too many threads doesnt retain people's attention and they dont read much....if u have read form the beginning, my posts have a flow......my sincere request......

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            • Seven Secrets Of Success

              I found the answer in my room

              Roof said: Aim High
              Fan said: Be Cool
              Clock said: Every minute is precious
              Mirror said: Reflect before you act
              Window said: See the world
              Calender said: Be upto date
              Door said: Push hard to achieve your goals.
              yao warokay ghwandi baagh ao pa khwa ye seen rawan!

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              • OK dear .. So you mean to say that not to post many stories at one time I'll surely follow the rule from now onwards Manana
                yao warokay ghwandi baagh ao pa khwa ye seen rawan!

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                • Originally posted by Shehbaz Khan View Post
                  OK dear .. So you mean to say that not to post many stories at one time I'll surely follow the rule from now onwards Manana
                  Originally posted by Shehbaz Khan View Post
                  OK dear .. So you mean to say that not to post many stories at one time I'll surely follow the rule from now onwards Manana
                  Absolutely.....this thread since day one has a flow...and all posts are connected....u are breaking the flow brother.....u can post these in one new thread or post them in separate threads as any individual has a limit to read things...when too much things posted people loose interest....and its an educational thread....

                  Manana for understanding.....

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                  • Originally posted by handsomepashtun
                    I need success in my life Spogmai.
                    handsomepashtun.....Success wont come only by asking for it...but by working towards achieving it......thekey is positive attitude and hardwork....if u have been reading the posts here then u will understand what i mean...

                    and to let u know....if talk abt success it doesn't necessarily mean i am a highly successful woman....but i too am thriving to succeed and yes i have a positive approach to life and what i can assure is that positive attitude makes a lot of difference....

                    i have goals to achieve everyday.....i have short term goals tooo...

                    it will also depend upon what is the concept of success for u....

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                    • How is Life Full of Compromises?

                      Life is not just party and pleasure; it is also pain and despair. Unthinkable things happen.

                      Sometimes everything turns upside down. Bad things happen to good people. Some things are beyond control, such as physical disability and birth defects. We cannot choose our parents or the circumstances of our birth.

                      So if the ball bounced that way, sorry. But what do we do from here; cry or take the ball and run? That is a choice we have to make.

                      On a clear day, there are hundreds of boats sailing in all different directions in a lake.

                      How come? Even though the wind is blowing in one direction, the sailboats are going in different directions.

                      What is the difference? It depends on the way the sail is set, and that
                      is determined by the sailor. The same is true of our lives. We can't choose the direction of the wind, but we can choose how we set the sail.

                      We can choose our attitude even though we cannot always choose our circumstances. The choice is either to act like a victor or a victim. It is not our position but our disposition that determines our destiny.

                      It takes both rain and sunshine to create a rainbow. Our lives are no different. There is happiness and sorrow. There is the good and the bad ; dark and bright spots.

                      If we can handle adversity, it only strengthens us. We cannot control all the events that happen in our lives, but we can control how we deal with them.

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                      • Bill Gates speech: 11 rules your kids did not and will not learn in school

                        Rule 1: Life is not fair – get used to it!

                        Rule 2: The world doesn’t care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.

                        Rule 3: You will NOT make $60,000 a year right out of high school. You won’t be a vice-president with a car phone until you earn both.

                        Rule 4: If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss.

                        Rule 5: Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your Grandparents had a different word for burger flipping: they called it opportunity.

                        Rule 6: If you mess up, it’s not your parents’ fault, so don’t whine about your mistakes, learn from them.

                        Rule 7: Before you were born, your parents weren’t as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you thought you were. So before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parent’s generation, try delousing the closet in your own room.

                        Rule 8: Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life HAS NOT. In some schools, they have abolished failing grades and they’ll give you as MANY TIMES as you want to get the right answer. This doesn’t bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life.

                        Rule 9: Life is not divided into semesters. You don’t get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you FIND YOURSELF. Do that on your own time.

                        Rule 10: Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.

                        Rule 11: Be nice to nerds. Chances are you’ll end up working for one.
                        yao warokay ghwandi baagh ao pa khwa ye seen rawan!

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                        • QUALITIES THAT MAKE A PERSON SUCCESSFUL

                          1. Desire

                          The motivation to succeed comes from the burning desire to achieve a purpose.
                          Napoleon Hill wrote, "Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, the mind can
                          achieve."

                          A young man asked Socrates the secret to success. Socrates told the young man to
                          meet him near the river the next morning. They met.

                          Socrates asked the young man to walk with him toward the river. When the water got up to their neck, Socrates took the young man by surprise and ducked him into the water.

                          The boy struggled to get out but Socrates was strong and kept him there until the boy started turning blue. Socrates pulled his head out of the water and the first thing the young man did was to gasp and take a deep breath of air. Socrates asked, 'What did you want the most when you were there?" The boy replied, "Air." Socrates said, "That is the secret to success.

                          When you
                          want success as badly as you wanted the air, then you will get it." There is no othersecret.

                          A burning desire is the starting point of all accomplishment. Just like a small fire cannot

                          give much heat, a weak desire cannot produce great results.

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                          • 2. Commitment

                            Integrity and wisdom are the two pillars on which to build and keep commitments.

                            This
                            point is best illustrated by the manager, who told one of his staff members, "Integrity is keeping your commitment even if you lose money and wisdom is not to make such
                            foolish commitments."

                            Prosperity and success are the result of our thoughts and decisions. It is our decision what thoughts will dominate our lives. Success is not an accident. It is the result of our
                            attitude.

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                            • Playing to Win Requires Commitment

                              There is a big difference between playing to win and playing not to lose. When we play to win, we play with enthusiasm and commitment; whereas when we play not to lose, we are playing from a position of weakness.

                              When we play not to lose, we are playing to avoid failure. We all want to win, but very few are prepared to pay the price to prepare to
                              win.

                              Winners condition and commit themselves to winning. Playing to win comes out of inspiration, whereas playing not to lose comes out of desperation.

                              There are no ideal circumstances. There will never be. To reach anywhere we cannot just drift nor lie at anchor. We need to sometimes sail with the wind and sometimes against it, but sail we must.

                              Ask any coach or athlete what the difference between the best and the worst team is. There would be very little difference in their physique, talent and ability. The biggest difference you will find is emotional difference.

                              The winning team has dedication and they make the extra effort.

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