Why do girls get so mad when you tell them they are fat?

[darkwitch]

Its sooo sad...because of the media i almost drove myself to an eating disorder...im so glad i realized it before i was in too deep...

[Laila]

like another member said women lack confidence .

Men also lack confidence too....But remember not all women lack confidence.

Its sooo sad...because of the media i almost drove myself to an eating disorder...im so glad i realized it before i was in too deep...

Yeah it is sad, and i am glad you got yourself out of that situtation.

I had a friend in high school who was aneroxic and she was my moms patient....for a year she didnt tell me about her eating disorder. From time to time, her skin would start peeling, her nails, even when they were short, would break easily, she started getting really dark, i mean dark circles under her eyes, she really looked horrible. She lacked so much needed nutrients and she screwed up her immune system and metabolism like crazy. And she was one of those girls that constantly watched the Hollywood reality shows, runway models, and looked at magazines all the time. It was and is really sad.

[IamDZJ]

same reason as why men gets pissed off when you tell them they are short.

[Talal]

Anyone would get angry if you insulted them, why what would you have the ladies do ? tell you that your so sweet for making such a profound comment or maybe thank you for it ?

Tell me how it feels when someone calls you a midget

[shinwari]

Anyone would get angry if you insulted them, why what would you have the ladies do ? tell you that your so sweet for making such a profound comment or maybe thank you for it ?

Tell me how it feels when someone calls you a midget

Some would take it with a grain of salt, the fact of the matter is ladies are taking this weight thing way too serious.

A little too serious.

[Laila]

Okay so what about those male athletes that take steriods....isnt that a lack of confidence in their performance? I believe so.
Athletes, i am directing at males, take steriods for these reasons:

1) Insecurity on their perfermance, they feel that drugs will give them a higher performance.
2) Yes, male athletes are into the appearance of their body figure: tone, muscles,etc....and many other reasons



How is that any different than women taking their body image serious?

My point is, we ALL lack confidence, both genders do. People who lack this pyschological esteem is causing to look at themselves in a whole different way, and not appreciating much about themselves. And the thing that is mostly responsible of this is the media. So come on guys, women are not the only culprit of body image.

[shinwari]

Okay so what about those male athletes that take steriods....isnt that a lack of confidence in their performance? I believe so.
Athletes, i am directing at males, take steriods for these reasons:

1) Insecurity on their perfermance, they feel that drugs will give them a higher performance.
2) Yes, male athletes are into the appearance of their body figure: tone, muscles,etc....and many other reasons



How is that any different than women taking their body image serious?

My point is, we ALL lack confidence, both genders do. People who lack this pyschological esteem is causing to look at themselves in a whole different way, and not appreciating much about themselves. And the thing that is mostly responsible of this is the media. So come on guys, women are not the only culprit of body image.

Admit this, Admit this.


Women take it far more serious. Tell a guy hes short, he would be like "Good things come in small packages" or whatever.

Tell a girl she is fat, she will smack you or hate you for ever. Or be very upset.


Girls take their weight very serious.

[Laila]

Admit this, Admit this.


Women take it far more serious. Tell a guy hes short, he would be like "Good things come in small packages" or whatever.

Tell a girl she is fat, she will smack you or hate you for ever. Or be very upset.


Girls take their weight very serious.

Yes, i admit that women take it way too serious.

They have been fed this, it isnt something they just decided to pick up.

But you do get what i was saying earlier.....