Afghan weddings; bigger, fatter and harder to tame

[khushal]

Besides, they buy their brides, which is basically prostitution.

Sadly this has become the norm in Afghanistan. This why it is appropriate to say Afghanistan has now a culture of pimps & prostitutes.

Who says these people represent Afghans. You say these things because like that RTR guy, you dont understand Afghan culture. It is you who is the prostitute of the Saudis.

[khushal]

spending like this is very common among the elite of muslim world, go to saudi arabia, Dubai pakistan etc.. you will see it. Whoever becomes rich, they start showing off like this. Westerners also spend, but they spend with in limits. With us the problem is we have to show off all time, how much money we have etc... in reality most so called muslims are not following Islam at all. Look at Prophet Muhammad and his modesty in everything, where is that modesty today in 99% of muslims?

This sound like your Saudi theory, just because you let some Saudi sodomize you, now you think every Saudi is gay.

Spending like this is common in the elites of every culture you sack of dumbshyt. 99% of muslims are poor, they dont do this. Go back inside that cave of yours and stop saying ignorant things all the time or go get an education.

[Badlun]

The real issue is that Muslim so called culture generally and Pashtun/Afghan culture usually discourage pleasure, merry making, happiness, enjoyment etc as dance, music, parties, etc are religiously prohibited. marriages are the only life time opportunity where such things are allowed to do so people make full use of such occasions.

If Islamic Salafi culture is out of Muslims lives, they will enjoy each day of their lives and marriages will be one such occasion to celebrate.

It is double jeopardy that Islamism does not allow happiness in life and now Afghan government even restrict the pursuit of happiness even on the occasions of marriages. So sad!

[khushal]

The real issue is that Muslim so called culture generally and Pashtun/Afghan culture usually discourage pleasure, merry making, happiness, enjoyment etc as dance, music, parties, etc are religiously prohibited. marriages are the only life time opportunity where such things are allowed to do so people make full use of such occasions.

If Islamic Salafi culture is out of Muslims lives, they will enjoy each day of their lives and marriages will be one such occasion to celebrate.

It is double jeopardy that Islamism does not allow happiness in life and now Afghan government even restrict the pursuit of happiness even on the occasions of marriages. So sad!

Not really. Hindus have some of the most elaborate weddings in the World. Marriage is sacred union between two people, the start of a family and new life. It is regarded as the most important day in ones life. This is somehitng the elites in all cultures practice

http://www.businessinsider.com/most-expensive-weddings-in-history-2011-4

Everything you say is mostly stupid.

[Badlun]

Not really. Hindus have some of the most elaborate weddings in the World. Marriage is sacred union between two people, the start of a family and new life. It is regarded as the most important day in ones life. This is somehitng the elites in all cultures practice

http://www.businessinsider.com/most-expensive-weddings-in-history-2011-4

Everything you say is mostly stupid.

Hindus also have a lot of restrictions because of their religion or way of life so again the same reason that marriages are one such occasion to fully celebrate. Modern Hindus or even modern Muslims do not spend that much on marriages as for them there are many other such opportunities to spend for happiness.

Pashtuns in mountainous areas where Salafism or Wahabist Islamism have not reached yet, celebrate life and their marriages are with lesser extent of pomp and show.

[khushal]

Hindus also have a lot of restrictions because of their religion or way of life so again the same reason that marriages are one such occasion to fully celebrate. Modern Hindus or even modern Muslims do not spend that much on marriages as for them there are many other such opportunities to spend for happiness.

Pashtuns in mountainous areas where Salafism or Wahabist Islamism have not reached yet, celebrate life and their marriages are with lesser extent of pomp and show.

The elites of Hindus and muslims and christians dont have restrictions. They mostly do what ever they want. It is the poor in the world that have restrictions because of economics.

I see that you didnt read the link I provided which is evidence but you still talk out of your arse. It is the so called "modern" people that spend the most of weddings. Read the link you donkey shyt.

[Shamlawar Khurasani]

Who says these people represent Afghans. You say these things because like that RTR guy, you dont understand Afghan culture. It is you who is the prostitute of the Saudis.

said the paki pathan who can't speak pashto.

[randolph85]

Badlun is the guy who spends his life savings on a marriage to "celebrate life" while his bride to be is making out with the guy he hired to crush ice.

[mixxedpashtana]

So @mixxedpashtana I guess this means that you won't be able to invite your planned 10,000 wedding guests when you find your pure ideal Paktiwal man....what a shame! *sigh*

Even if I knew 10.000 people I wouldn't invite them. [MENTION=1058]Bengal_Tiger[/MENTION]

[Bengal_Tiger]

Even if I knew 10.000 people I wouldn't invite them. [MENTION=1058]Bengal_Tiger[/MENTION]

Hello *stranger*.

*Someone* has been hiding, hiding in Amsterdam....I hope all is "lekker" across the sea in the land of tulips, Edam cheese and *other things*.

[mixxedpashtana]

Hello *stranger*.

*Someone* has been hiding, hiding in Amsterdam....I hope all is "lekker" across the sea in the land of tulips, Edam cheese and *other things*.

Heei * Another Stranger*

I've been hiding in my books. They absorbed me.. I had to fight against several articles and words to set me free.. I've got final exams coming up..
How have you been? [MENTION=1058]Bengal_Tiger[/MENTION]

[Bengal_Tiger]

Heei * Another Stranger*

I've been hiding in my books. They absorbed me.. I had to fight against several articles and words to set me free.. I've got final exams coming up..
How have you been? [MENTION=1058]Bengal_Tiger[/MENTION]

Am good Ms mixxed.

Oooooh....exams.

Good luck and let's hope you get your A+, so you can escape those books that are imprisoning you.

[mixxedpashtana]

Am good Ms mixxed.

Oooooh....exams.

Good luck and let's hope you get your A+, so you can escape those books that are imprisoning you.

In sha Allah, I hope so too.. It's just my migraine is killing me right now.. And my concentration level is zero. But ey, I've got a few months left.. and I'll be released haha

[Bengal_Tiger]

In sha Allah, I hope so too.. It's just my migraine is killing me right now.. And my concentration level is zero. But ey, I've got a few months left.. and I'll be released haha

Study, study, study.....and a few minutes for Pashtun forums (squeezed in)...what a busy girl you are Ms Mixxed.

[mixxedpashtana]

Study, study, study.....and a few minutes for Pashtun forums (squeezed in)...what a busy girl you are Ms Mixxed.

Haha when exams are over, I'll be more active.. I try not to waste any of my time. Time is precious and if I don't take advantage now, I will regret it tomorrow. I must admit, sometimes I just wanna throw away my books