women work in Mixing place of Men

[emkhan]

Women are supposed to take care of her family, children etc. Men's duty is to go out and earn for his family and children. But now a days people are pushing her daughters and sisters go out and earn. Because their needs are going up day by day unnecessarily.
Which is ironic.

[muslim]

even if we don't take the islamic opinion about it a real man wouldn't feel okey with his sister/mum/cousin working next to random men.

and yh Mixing should be a kept to a minimum as every one said and as badmash khel said in halal way...etc

[IamDZJ]

Dress appropriately and be professional.

[Catya Sher]

I read a really good article written by an American woman
who carved out a pioneer path in protesting the mixing of men
and women at "offices".

She was not a Muslim, so this is not quite in answer to the questions asked.

But she was a religious Catholic who was very concerned that
her daughter had suffered because of having endured
the SCOURGE of many families today:

men working with women AND always having these
social events TOO.
That's part of the problem which people don't consider often.

There are "Office parties, Office football games, Office baseball games,
Office picnics" etc.
It goes on and on.

This perceptive writer mentioned that it's all these
totally UNNECESSARY extracurricular activities
which companies FORCE their employees to participate in

Perhaps the employees want to look enthusiastic for their
company, or are afraid to say no.
Or succumb to peer pressure "Hey aren't you going to
the cook-out this Sunday?" --
They can't say no i'd rather stay home with my own FAMILY !

See? so this is tearing apart EVERY family.
Not just Muslim ones.

The author said too that the number of affairs which
break up families or cause severe distress is
unbelievable.
The people are around each other 7-8 hours a day
and so weaknesses take hold of people who may not
ever have thought of being involved with someone other
than their spouse.

So this pattern of mixing working at jobs has been
quite deleterious in general for America and the West.

But almost no one sees the element of destruction.
They have become so used to having a big social life
through their work.
Families already suffered from both parents working,
with children in -- revolting !! - centers called "day care".

This has all happened since the advent of "women's [FALSE!]
liberation" - and the need to make tons of money
just to buy all those consumer goods....

[Badlun]

[QUOTE=islam;531338]questions for men:
1- do you know what islam say's about mixing of men and women?
2- what do you think of women working in mixed place of men?why?
3- would you let your own sister/mother/wife work in a place mixed of men?
4- if your answer was NO to Q2 , is that mean you think islam is wrong and the prophet teached us something wrong?



1.Yes I know that Muslim women used to pray in the same mosque with men in the prophet time. I know that women used to participate in wars with men and many times worked as nurses. Islam never stops women to be mixed with men in work places because work has nothing to do with Islam which is a religion and caters for beliefs, worship and morality and nothing to do with questions related to work, labour, factors of production, human resources management etc which you mean here by mixing men and women.

2. I think its normal and it depends on professional requirements of men and women. If in a school or hospital or market you need both men and women to work then what's wrong in that. These places are for jobs and not for sexual intercourses or any other private activity.

3. If my sister, wife or mother are professional women then I will have no problem if they work in places where men and women work together. And why should I let them or don't let them? They are not animals. They are human beings and can decide for themselves where they are happy, easy and comfortable. If my sister is the prime minister of a country then how can I stop her not to be there. My family members should be that much strong that no body can look at them with an evil eye. If they are uneducated and I keep them like animals in a secluded place still they can do any thing wrong or immodest. This is not the mixing but the education which matters.

4. Islam as a religion is never wrong for Muslims. Islam is perfect in its system of beliefs, worship and morality but Islam has nothing to do with employment, gender, mixed work places, ergonomics, management, productivity etc. If some body says that its unIslamic that men and women mix in work places then its not the mistake of Islam but the mistake of that so called Muslim who does not know what is Islam and what is not Islam.

[Amir al Ghaznavi]

Maaan if a broad or guy is gonna sleeP around theyll do so regardless. If the mere interaction with the opposite sex is enough for them to drop their self respect and pants its gonna happen, if not at work then school or the mall

Parents raise ya kids right
Men, take care of your womens needs
Ditto for the women

And every thing will be alright

[sunni]

Maaan if a broad or guy is gonna sleeP around theyll do so regardless. If the mere interaction with the opposite sex is enough for them to drop their self respect and pants its gonna happen, if not at work then school or the mall

Parents raise ya kids right
Men, take care of your womens needs
Ditto for the women

And every thing will be alright

but we will not give them the chance to think about it and close every chance letting them think about it.

we are talking about islam from allah not something you want or any other men/women wants.

all i wanna see is a male/female admting they are doing something wrong and they know its haram in islam and they wouldnt change it. then i wouldnt bother arguing about it.

GET IT ?

[emkhan]

segregation segregation segregation is cry of the day

[torkham]

answers
1 - limited knowledge and sources. but mixing should be avoided
2 - from answer 1, to be avoided
3 - try to insist to sister/wife on answer 1 and 2 and avoid mixed situation
4 - no issues, avoid mixing.

BTW i said avoid. events can be unpredictable and some times a woman has to deal with a man, can be done with discretion respectfully, according to sunna and hadith - no problem.

[ScimitarXEdge]

Maaan if a broad or guy is gonna sleeP around theyll do so regardless. If the mere interaction with the opposite sex is enough for them to drop their self respect and pants its gonna happen, if not at work then school or the mall

Parents raise ya kids right
Men, take care of your womens needs
Ditto for the women

And every thing will be alright

While I agree that the merely presence of the opposite sex should not send one into a sexualized frenzy

you can't deny, that certain situations enables the behavior more than others.

[Amir al Ghaznavi]

While I agree that the merely presence of the opposite sex should not send one into a sexualized frenzy

you can't deny, that certain situations enables the behavior more than others.

hey it just means niccaz gotta step their game up, dont get fat and sloppy while your wife keeps looking beautiful. its a dog eat dog world and better you be a wolf

[Amir al Ghaznavi]

but we will not give them the chance to think about it and close every chance letting them think about it.

we are talking about islam from allah not something you want or any other men/women wants.

all i wanna see is a male/female admting they are doing something wrong and they know its haram in islam and they wouldnt change it. then i wouldnt bother arguing about it.

GET IT ?

ya but if a kid spends all his time around men, the odds increase hes getting molested or turning to men for pleasure

would you rather your son be a womanizer or homosexual?

[sunni]

ya but if a kid spends all his time around men, the odds increase hes getting molested or turning to men for pleasure

would you rather your son be a womanizer or homosexual?

LOL @ such excuse.


what about the sahaba ?
what about me ? i'm not into men while i have lived my entier life never setted next to a girl, talked to a girl or stared at her face and look at me, i am more manly than you.lol

its the way you have been raised and the manners you been teached and also cuz of uncaring parents.
becuase of the lack of deen.


ok never mind let me slap you in the face.....HOW COME WE HAVE ALOT OF GAY'S in the west while the girls going out half naked ?
WHYYYYYYYYY ?

STOP MAKING EXCUSE, come at me again.

[sunni]

sahaba? didnt those niccaz have like 3-4 wives each dogg? lol cmon bruh

how can you be more manly than the Amir?

You cant be a man if youve never made love to a woman. youre a little boy.

And little boys get diddled throughout the Islamic world. Women get raped. And yes, there are mango pina colada Muslims sprinkled from Marakesh to Jakarta

lol @ that sausagefest of a life you have

i wanna see this dog ban NOW
if not then you will see what will happen to this site.
because i shuted your mouth now you start using your skills to turn this into fight..
dont you dare call one of the sahaba like that infront of any real muslim i swear you wont be alive for another min.

[Amir al Ghaznavi]

i wanna see this dog ban NOW
if not then you will see what will happen to this site.
because i shuted your mouth now you start using your skills to turn this into fight..
dont you dare call one of the sahaba like that infront of any real muslim i swear you wont be alive for another min.

Lol clown, who did u shut up?

Is the uncomfortable reality of the Islamic world too much for you to handle?

Wasnt the ProPhet a coworker of Khadija? So the Prophet himself worked with the women?

Clowns who resort to threats during a debate are intellectual midgets

And threats towards the Amir is just a waste of time

I love facts, dont you child?