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  • What would you like to change in Ramadan?

    asSalamu `alaykum

    The blessed month of Ramadan is almost here and insha'Allah I would like to encourage myself and others to really look at themselves and think about what they would like to change during this 'month of change'. Many Muslims simply take this month as one in which food, drink and relations with the spouses should be refrained from while those with a little better approach increase in the recitation of the Qur'an, dhikr, nafil prayers and other forms of worship, which is excellent, but end up missing the whole purpose of this month, a month which comes around only one time a year. The main purpose of these 30 days is to become muttaqoon (God-conscious, God-fearing individuals) as Allah ta`ala has mentioned in the verse pertaining to fasting:

    "O you who have believed, decreed upon you is fasting as it was decreed upon those before you that you may become righteous" [2:183]

    And to fulfill this purpose, an increase in worship alone will not do the job but rather it is the abstention from sins of all types. The main two advices that the scholars and righteous give in order to aid us in fulfilling this noble purpose is:

    1) Refrain from mixing. By keeping to yourself you are aided greatly in staying away from many sins.

    2) Keep occupied at all times. By holding fast to a timetable, you will safeguard yourself from engaging in futile activities. As a result, you will accomplish much and derive much benefit from this month.

    With this in mind, what change would you like to see in yourself by the end of this month?(insha'Allah this will encourage others to improve themselves when they see others striving to be better Muslims)

    I'll start:

    Improving my akhlaq and adab, especially with my family
    Speaking less, avoiding futile talk
    Last edited by Talib Jan; 07-30-2011, 12:24 AM.
    The Beloved Messenger of Allah, Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, so beautifully advised his nation when he said:

    “Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day let him speak good or remain silent.” [Bukhari and Muslim]

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    By the end of this month i want to be able to pray 5 times a day. I want to change the way i talk by using no swears even if i am mad and to stay away for any ghaibat. I hadnt thought about my adab but now that you mentioned it i wanna improve that too INshallah.

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    • #3
      I would like to change my current location, it's gonna be a 16 hour fast man
      It's enough that I know, Our time had a home, In your heart..Was a place..But the glass always breaks..

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      • #4
        Originally posted by ~Gangster~ View Post
        By the end of this month i want to be able to pray 5 times a day. I want to change the way i talk by using no swears even if i am mad and to stay away for any ghaibat. I hadnt thought about my adab but now that you mentioned it i wanna improve that too INshallah.
        Allah make it easy for you. Remember consistency is key, no matter how little is. Allah loves those who are consistent. Insha'Allah, if you pray 5 times during this month, you will keep it for the rest of your life.
        The Beloved Messenger of Allah, Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, so beautifully advised his nation when he said:

        “Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day let him speak good or remain silent.” [Bukhari and Muslim]

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Shkapar_Dorwaza View Post
          Allah make it easy for you. Remember consistency is key, no matter how little is. Allah loves those who are consistent. Insha'Allah, if you pray 5 times during this month, you will keep it for the rest of your life.
          Jazakallah bro may Allah make it easy for all muslims.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Talal View Post
            I would like to change my current location, it's gonna be a 16 hour fast man
            lol, man thats ruff. But alhamdulillah it's a principle in Islam that the reward is proportional to the struggle; your fast might be longer but without a doubt your benefits will be greater in this world and the next insha'Allah.

            Where are you at btw if you don't mind me asking?
            The Beloved Messenger of Allah, Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, so beautifully advised his nation when he said:

            “Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day let him speak good or remain silent.” [Bukhari and Muslim]

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            • #7
              to erase my flaws

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              • #8
                To avoid talking about others and to be more charitable.

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                • #9
                  O' canada @ shkapar
                  It's enough that I know, Our time had a home, In your heart..Was a place..But the glass always breaks..

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Talal View Post
                    I would like to change my current location, it's gonna be a 16 hour fast man
                    Same for me but alhamdulillah we don't have the same heat that others have... Allah make it easy on all Muslims.

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                    • #11
                      ^ you've no idea whats been going on in the praires, this is the worst heat spell in decades
                      It's enough that I know, Our time had a home, In your heart..Was a place..But the glass always breaks..

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                      • #12
                        improve more on patience inshAllah,
                        improve more on anger inshAllah,
                        improve more on adab inshAllah,
                        improve more on not being lazy inshAllah,

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                        • #13
                          change the world...

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by Leonine View Post
                            change the world...
                            That's a great goal but as you know changing the world starts with changing one's self. As the brilliant Pashto proverb goes:

                            Ka badi nawi pa taa ki, badi nusta pa dunya ki.
                            The Beloved Messenger of Allah, Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, so beautifully advised his nation when he said:

                            “Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day let him speak good or remain silent.” [Bukhari and Muslim]

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by Shkapar_Dorwaza View Post
                              That's a great goal but as you know changing the world starts with changing one's self. As the brilliant Pashto proverb goes:

                              Ka badi nawi pa taa ki, badi nusta pa dunya ki.
                              but i hav changed myself alrdy

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