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If you have problems in life, then seek help from sources that can be beneficial and that which are readily available. Trusting random people on forums or chats and telling them your whole life story is one of the most damaging things you can do. Especially as an afghan/pashtun girl. You cannot read the intentions of someone behind their words on the computer screen. If you are not comfortable with walking up to the street and confessing your problem to a random person, then why do you feel comfortable doing it online? Is it because of the so called anonymity? Well there is no such thing as anonymity anymore. Anyone can find who you are and where you stay with a click of a few buttons. Why trust someone, who could be a frigging psycho for all you know, with all the details of your life, pictures and phone number included???
It's understandable that life can get hard at times and you need someone to help you get through it. But try to find your solutions outside of the realm of the online community. Tomorrow if you get some stalker after you then you will be more miserable and cursing yourself for ever having trusted them in the first place.
And a side note to some girls that feel the need to vent here n there and to feel important about their pety existence by trying to lure the attention of one guy or another...seriously get a life and some self respect. Don't sell yourself so cheaply. You will be someone's wife tomorrow and are someone's daughter or sister, I'm sure you wouldn't behave like that in their presence or in your " real life". Just because you can hide behind a user name doesn't mean that it makes it ok for you to act outside of the limits of decency.
Why because ur One of those that say communists bekhudayan de??
U cannot just say something with out backing ur self up:/
I dislike them too because they are the cause of many ppl DYing in afg
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